Please do not ask me to be your friend here because I will not accept. It has nothing to do with not appreciating you or your comments. It has to do with how easily some delete, block, attack, etc. their "friends" on the sites when speaking the truth hurts. A "friend" does not want to cause a "friend" drama and will guard them from it not build on it.
If I have a problem I will handle it in private. I will not recruit and blast someone who has a defferent opinion than mine in a blog. I can agree to disagree and if being your "friend" means joining your bashing? Count me out.
We are all right and wrong. SO WHAT!!!!!
To go from one site to another to air your dirt shows stupidity. If you don't like a site attempt to change it. Just do it on that site. If your problem is actually real don't make a phony profile. Show yourself rather than hide behind a second, third or fourth profile. This only makes you look cowardly and plain ignorant.
Bash the person in private and leave the rest of us out of it.
Dislike the person not the site and everyone who visits there.
Dislike the site and not the people.
Don't judge everyone on a site by the few idiots who only want chaos.
I mention no names because it is not allowed and so many have so many different profiles that it would take a whole nother page.
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misschoos
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Jan 8 @ 1:49PM
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You are that hugely successful business woman from that large famous worldwide corporation who holds down a really responsible job, the high flying type, with a massive salary aren't you? 
I know, I remember you from before.
I really admire you and would love to have you on my friend list, but it's ok, I understand.
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imlost2
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Jan 8 @ 2:02PM
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I saw in a poem recently, yesterday is gone, and many gave the poem a kudos, I agree it was a nice poem. I only wish yesterday can be treated as being gone and move on. It serves no purpose to continue anymore with beating a dead horse, cuz I'm an animal lover, even if it is dead lol. Take care Lost
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justme836
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Jan 8 @ 2:05PM
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Not world wide because I accept no "friends" from internet. Personal is another story.
Not a massive salary but I have no debt.
Most important to me is that my business is mine and I need no one to tend to it for me.
Thanks for accepting that.
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ttomtarr
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Jan 8 @ 2:10PM
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Please reconsider your choice of words.
Reading your profile (Yes, I actually did), I can not help but want to be your friend. And I am sure you too want true friends.
But soliciting a place on your friends list is a different matter. I view the shortest friends lists as the most real and meaningful, and include only those with whom I have shared conversation. Those huge friends lists speak to me of shallowness, lack of meaning, and kindergarden Valentine boxes, where most is best.
To me, a friend is someone with whom I have shared thoughts, far more than a wink and a click.
So please, no more "listed friends" perhaps.
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CHARLIgurl1
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Jan 8 @ 2:13PM
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Justy,
Your same love of animals as me and your devotion to your fostered animals who you have so tenderly taken care of will always be respected deeply in my eyes. We dont need friends lists to know peoples worths.
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luneib
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Jan 8 @ 2:15PM
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How about those people who respond to a blog you have written with negative comments then delete their profile right afterwards. Talk about cowards. I have no problem with negative comments, everyone is entitled to say what they like just as long as it isn't profanities. Now that I draw the line on. Negative and positive comments are welcome, I am open minded enough to accept both without reservation. It's a free country and everyone is entitled to speak their mind.
I do have to agree though, if you are friends with someone and they go about bashing others, I would be a bit hesitant to want them as my friend and would not join in the bashing either.
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IB4U
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Jan 8 @ 2:47PM
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I do agree with you 100% as you can see I have elimnated my friends list..... 
I know who my friends really are and hope they know I am their friend 
Very good points
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justme836
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Jan 8 @ 2:57PM
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It has been brought to my attention that I left out "listed". Thanks for pointing this out.
I will still accept friends. I will just not "LIST" them. I will not have my friends judged because they are my friend and I will not be judged by who are my friends. I am who I am and they are who they are. We know this and do not feel the need to advertise that we are popular.
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KnittinKitten
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Jan 8 @ 3:04PM
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I really identified with your blog...I keep a close eye on my friends list and, when I receive a request, I look at that person's profile AND their friends list. If I haven't had any communication with them and don't recognize their name, I often reply and ask them what caused them to make the request. I don't want to insult anyone and often it is simply because they liked something I said and want to be able to locate me again...(I can't turn that down.)
On the other hand, if they seem to be collecting friends...and, many do....I tell them no, and try to be polite. I have a fair share of friends and I chuckle when I go to look at my list because I think I have as many women as men....
You've got a kudo coming to me for this one...my friend... 
KK
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KAOS2007
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Jan 8 @ 3:29PM
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You know what I find works best? Wander around the site in "clueless" mode. Lately I've seen a lot of "new" profiles come in, make comments, then the profile is gone. Doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out what that's all about. 
Remember this, just when you think you've seen it all on the interwebz, there will always be something more.
Clueless in life, not so good. Clueless in webz land, perfect!
Good blog 
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maggiemae684
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Jan 8 @ 3:30PM
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not a problem....of my friends....I am proud and honored that they are my friends and stand behind them, even in disagreement....friends know that sometimes it is okay to agree to disagree
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EternalFlame
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Jan 8 @ 3:35PM
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To go from one site to another to air your dirt shows stupidity. If you don't like a site attempt to change it. Just do it on that site. If your problem is actually real don't make a phony profile. Show yourself rather than hide behind a second, third or fourth profile. This only makes you look cowardly and plain ignorant.
I love this! So very true...thank you so much for posting this
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missliss78
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Jan 8 @ 4:50PM
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What she^^^ said.....so true.
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hoftner
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Jan 8 @ 4:59PM
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Well said!
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ColdinWisconsin
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Jan 8 @ 5:12PM
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Amen girl. I for one don't need the drama. And...I tend to live my life in the real world for the most part. This adding people to your friends list...deleting them if they don't hate people you don't ike....it's just all so middle school. I don't know whether to be disgusted, feel sorry for them or just continue to laugh.  
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kudo's to you! 
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maxximuss1967
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Jan 8 @ 6:04PM
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Fighting on here is like running a race in the special olympics! No one realy cares who wins! 
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justme836
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Jan 8 @ 8:49PM
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I thank you all for commenting. I thought I would get slammed by some. It is like a "WOW" moment. Yeah me!!!!
Although all of the comments made are great I have to say the one by Maxx is too darn funny!!!!! LMAO!
Special Olympics :o))))))
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WouldntItBeGr8To
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Jan 9 @ 6:58AM
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Yeah you! You bet! Speak up girl, we want to hear from you, at least I do
I don't do the friends thing on MD cuz it just got weird lol
But I have many good friends in here who have asked to be 'friends'.
I write and thank them and explain and then I don't take the offer.
Some explained to me that if I am on their friends list, I don't have to go thru the "wait for approval" process and my comments get approved automatically.
I have complained a lot about the wait for approval thing but now i get it.
If they leave it open to comments someone often comes in and says a bunch of trash in a beautiful blog, I have seen it happen and now I understand their reasoning. It is a good system the way it is set up. I see it needs to be that way.
Sadly, I don't have any "friends" and that sucks because these people do enjoy hearing what I have to say and have offered me free reign to post as I please.
But in reality, as real as online is, I have plenty of friends here and am thankful for them...including you
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skipper
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Jan 10 @ 7:37AM
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hey hun dont let a few spoil it for you if you do that they win and go off to find another victim DONT be a victim chin up.
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