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Just a hug???

posted 1/22/2009 5:10:57 PM |
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  1frantastic

How come some people are "huggers" and so easily hug at the slightest reason to perform that show of affection or attention to another?

And, other folks keep a distance that screams of "it's my space and you are not to invade it!"

Or....they think hugging...especially one of oposite sex....has sexual undertones if they induldge unless in a crowd where it is expected....but not when only "one on one"...

What do you do when you want....need a hug desperately and actually beg for one and still are denied?

You cry to yourself and hug yourself by wrapping your arms around yourself and hanging onto the belief that someday someone will hug you because they actually want to comfort you...or share with you a hug of joy!

Also....you may seek virtual hugs since they are given more freely...and sometimes are even very sincere!

The next time you see someone who may NEED a touch of your humanity...give it..touch their hand...or shoulder...or.....break down and put your body next to theirs where the warmth can actually cause their body to warm up because of the hormone release and give a pleasurable boost that may save their life....

Sometimes it is more than just a hug!!!

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Comments:
summerbreeze916

Jan 22 @ 5:19PM  
I am a hugger........and have been since very young.

And here's some hugs for you.........the closest thing we have here, I guess.
mik48

Jan 22 @ 5:23PM  
Hugs are a huge part of my everyday. I think that they are just so important and an easy way to connect with somebody in what I consider to be a non threatening way. I just love'em. They make you feel warmly wanted and cared for and just make you feel good all over. There is nothing quite like them in all the world. Hugs Michael
HUGS4UANDME

Jan 22 @ 5:27PM  
FRAN.................G/F .............HUGSSSSSSSS FROM HUGSSSS love the blog sweetie
stormygail

Jan 22 @ 5:33PM  
Hugs are an everyday occurance for me. I'm just that type. So my friend..... HUGSSSSSSSSS to you...and smooches too...lol.
IB4U

Jan 22 @ 5:34PM  


Here's a hugggggggggg ((((((((((((((((((((((((((FRAN))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
pinkypaula2

Jan 22 @ 6:09PM  
i really love hugs now didnt get a lot of them growing up, and i also love giving them heres you a hug fran
leprichaun_magic

Jan 22 @ 6:38PM  
[[[huggzxss]] Fran !!
mystery2u888

Jan 22 @ 6:43PM  
I hug everyone................. I can't help it.......
ttomtarr

Jan 22 @ 6:47PM  
Great blog. ,that's nice too.

TroutFishing

Jan 22 @ 6:57PM  
just a smile can change someone's life as well.


suthrn_belle

Jan 22 @ 7:53PM  
I love hug's..especially the one's where you hug, pull slightly away with your arm's still around each other, say a few word's (this can be a family member, stranger or your signicant other) and then hug again. What a wonderful feeling.

((((((Hugs))))) Fran.
hpylady

Jan 22 @ 9:03PM  
((((((((((((((((((((Fran)))))))))))))))))))))) what a nice blog
blkfoot1954

Jan 22 @ 9:09PM  
I always give hugs to the friends I know.I think it is wonderful when giving hugs and showing that you really care about a person.I have always been that way..

HUGSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
Tiramisu4u

Jan 23 @ 10:06AM  
Coming from a large, extended, Italian family, I am a devout hugger...but can sense when someone I am talking to isnt...but I have to leave my touch in some way. So will grasp their hand, or rub their shoulder when leaving...but everyone else goes away with a warm hug and most likely a kiss on the cheek also.

Just in case I never see them again....
misschief

Jan 23 @ 4:40PM  
I am not a hugger.
I only hug people who are very close to me, but sometimes there are rare exceptions.
I like my personal space otherwise.

Please don't be mad at me.
SpiritOrnery

Jan 23 @ 10:06PM  
Hey, I am hugger. You ever in my end of Tx, look me up! And here ya go... Free Hugs
1982danaz

May 24 @ 3:50PM  
no such thing as to much affection. so here's to you fran
also, when I hug my mom, we have like 1-2 minute hugs with head on shoulder and just soak it all in. There is nothing better in general than a hug, but there is NOTHING BETTER THAN A MOTHERS HUG. free hugs for everyone that reads this
I hope there's enough to go around. If not, look me up and I'll send you one.
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