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WHY DO THESE PEOPLE GET ON DATING SITES?

posted 3/16/2009 12:15:36 PM |

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Today I sit in the middle of confusion...

We meet men on websites...they talk with us....flirt with us...encourage us....

Then ......they get cold feet.

Then all of a sudden all their past comes flooding through them..they start to freak out.....beating us with their past marital or relationship baggage...

they start running backwards...

Then they come back...after their rant....after they calm down...only to do it all over again...over and over and over...

Fishing us in...then throwing us out...then fishing us back into them then throwing us back out...

What the heck is going on?

I have read where this happens to many women..I know it has happened to me too these last few years....

Why do these men get on dating sites?

We women are here looking for real meaningful relationships..

If you guys on the internet dating sites do not want a viable relationship...then go to the bar and pick up a woman there..Shes not expecting anything from you...Justa fun evening..

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Timber52	Mar 16 @ 12:45PM
	What I have run into over and over.. they just want to date.. when THEY WANT TO.. doesn't matter when or what you want...

Peabianjay	Mar 16 @ 1:14PM
	Then ......they get cold feet No doubt, this happens. No doubt, in many cases he loses interest for other reasons. Ya aughta be happy he's recognized some irreconcilable difference now. Could be anything: religious, political, sexual....or whatever.

KnittinKitten	Mar 16 @ 1:18PM
	My thoughts? I believe it's a bigger "ego trip" for them when they think they can use their "skills" to entice us into an attraction, and when THAT is accomplished, the players go off to seek another sucker. Times are so different these days and, depending upon how long they've been single, how old they are and what financial condition they find themselves in, their responses seem to differ. Some will always be players....I pride myself in being able to discern, without enduring too much pain, these days.... Sincerely, Knittin kitten

doorgunner	Mar 16 @ 1:22PM
	sorry to say it but the same goes for woman, just want some money. you woman have to wonder if a man just wants in your panties and man has to wonder if she just wants in his wallet

luneib	Mar 16 @ 1:59PM
	I guess they are afraid of even trying a new relationship after having been in such bad ones. But that is just being a wimp about things, they should man up. Some guys on these dating sites always feel they could get someone even better, so they will toss you aside and keep looking for that elusive charm so to speak, that raving beauty which in their mind is what they feel they deserve, all the while passing by some pretty great and attractive women. Not everyone looks like Angelina Jolie, comon guys, get a grip.

WouldntItBeGr8To	Mar 17 @ 3:52AM
	All I can say is: Today I sit in the middle of confusion... We meet WOMEN on websites...they talk with us....flirt with us...encourage us.... Then ......they get cold feet. Then all of a sudden all their past comes flooding through them..they start to freak out.....beating us with their past marital or relationship baggage... they start running backwards... Then they come back...after their rant....after they calm down...only to do it all over again...over and over and over... Fishing us in...then throwing us out...then fishing us back into them then throwing us back out... What the heck is going on? I have read where this happens to many MEN..I know it has happened to me too these last few years.... Why do these WOMEN get on dating sites? We MEN are here looking for real meaningful relationships.. If you GALS on the internet dating sites do not want a viable relationship...then go to the bar and pick up a MAN there..He's not expecting anything from you...Justa fun evening.. Just my humble opinion Sucks, doesn't it

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