There seems to be something pretty funky going on here in MatchDoctor. Besides not showing me how many characters I am using in writing these blogs, it threatened to post my blog I had previously written just before these two 'Great Expectations' ones.
Moving forward on this blog.........................
Respect your partners as living, breathing, beautiful individuals. Treat them as you would want to be treated by them.
Respect your partners enough to return the love given to you. If you don't feel the same love toward your partners as what they have for you......as difficult as it may be, let them know. Life is becoming shorter and shorter for us to be unhappy in any relationship. Let me tell you, though. If you've got a good person in your life that loves you and respects you, what the heck is wrong with you? I'd say you have the problem! Those partners in your life deserve to have their love reciprocated, and if you can't do it, leave them to find somebody worthy enough of their love.
Respect your partners, in general. Above all.....if for some reason things do not work out between the two of you, do not broadcast it to the world for others to read about it. We are adults here. There are not any good reasons at all to put somebody else down because things just didn't work out for you. To try and make a laughingstock out of anybody else is just wrong. To blog about the size of a man's penis or a woman's hooch is not in the slightest bit comical at all. Perhaps the problem in the sex department was because of YOU! The only reason I can think of why one does this to another is to try to deter anyone else from looking at that other person. Guess what? It doesn't work! You are the one who is going to look really, really bad. Others will flock to your 'ex' partner, if for no other reason than for sympathy. After all..........haven't you heard? It's not the size of the bait. It's how you wiggle the worm.
These are a few of my ideas on what respect means to me. They are things that I look for in a potential partner.
I'd be interested in knowing what others think and what they expect in their relationships. Do you expect your partner to cater to your every whim? Do you expect your partner to go out once or twice a week to sit on a barstool? Do you expect your partner to take you out dancing every so often? Do you expect your potential partner to help in the housework and or yardwork? You just never know who may be out there looking for the same thing.
One more song from the first Queen of Soul for that very last respect issue.
THINK-Freedom
We do have that freedom to respect others and to think about what we do and say.
Have a splendid Sunday evening, and have a Safe and Happy Memorial weekend.
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