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posted 5/29/2009 10:49:52 PM |
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  Snappygoddess

Oddly enough I cannot be bitter about losing my hair to chemo because even more odd is the reaction I have had to my "new" hair cropping up!

I look at "before" pics with my long, dark and curly hair and think to myself.. that was a long time ago..I do not even feel like the same woman anymore.
It's been very interesting watching my new "mane" growing.. at first very fair, almost blonde-like.. and just this week becoming more salt and pepper looking with some lovely highlights of silver! ( I now know where my son gets his cowlicks from )

Sure, I can dye it but I am not sure I want to anymore.. I am really starting to like this new short, sassy and silver look. It suits me

Funny how a thing like hair style and color can change your entire way of thinking.. well.. actually.. the cancer/chemo thingee started it all off. I view life differently these days. Simple things have taken on new meaning and those things once thought important have suddenly faded into oblivion .... odd how that works!

It's somewhat difficult to explain unless you have been where I am now....I am the same woman but at the same time, I'm not the same. I feel much freer.. not worrying about my hair. When I was bald I had some moments of feeling like I was on display and at the same time, really having fun watching peoples reactions to my lack of hair. People are quite amusing at times Now that my hair is growing back in in full force I have decided I LIKE who I am even more then before. I look in the mirror and tell myself how lucky I am to even have hair.. indeed to even be alive to celebrate my new silver look! Coming face to face with the possibility of death really puts a new swing on things, wouldn't you agree?

So when life gives you silver.....embrace it .. not everything has to be about the gold ...silver isn't such a bad state of mind

~~Thanks Fender... for inspiring me to post my silver blog.. I don't mind one bit letting you have the golden(or red) one

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Comments:
butterfly943

May 29 @ 10:55PM  
So when life gives you silver.....embrace it .. not everything has to be about the gold ...silver isn't such a bad state of mind
You are such an awesome woman with a wonderful outlook on life
scorpiogirl36

May 29 @ 10:58PM  
Snappy ....it is such an honor to know you!
You are an incredible woman and your ability to see the beyond the surface of life circumstances and come away smiling, gives more meaning to the Goddess in your profile name then you'll ever know.
Tremendous blog.....I wished I could give you all 5 kudo's!
Hugs to you girl!
BandTMom

May 29 @ 11:02PM  
I want to see pics!

Thanks for being an inspiration to us all.

plowman

May 29 @ 11:34PM  
chemo changed my hair too, snappy...it'll be cool!
gunn12fan

May 29 @ 11:47PM  
All is good im glad to hear your doing well


I went and got my haircut the other day and the lady cutting my hair said " You have a lot of Gray Hair for such a young man!" I said Thanks a lot ma'am then said a few choice words under my breath
oceanlover734

May 30 @ 9:06AM  
What a great way to look at yourself.
Simple things have taken on new meaning and those things once thought important have suddenly faded into oblivion .... odd how that works!
~*~
Fender

May 30 @ 9:10AM  
Aw Snappy....I wuv you.

Your so freaking great.
dizzydoll

May 30 @ 9:43AM  
not only will you look younger (cos fair hair does that) but you will also look wise

mystery2u888

May 30 @ 12:33PM  
Snappy...........your a wonderful lady no matter what...........your strong....... and loving..........I know you know .......how much care.........

It's always about the inside
pamdemonium

May 30 @ 3:54PM  
Post a photo! I'm sure you're gorgeous!
youbetcha

May 30 @ 6:46PM  
missliss78

May 30 @ 10:28PM  
You are just awesome.
Still here wishing you the best!
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