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~~~45 Lessons Life Taught Me~~~

posted 6/1/2009 9:03:15 AM |
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  kywonder

This was sent to me from my sister. I thought there were some very wise words here. Hope you enjoy it as I did.

Written By Regina Brett, 90 years old, of The Plain Dealer, Cleveland , Ohio

"To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me. It is the most-requested column I've ever written."

My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more:

1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.

2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.

3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick.. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.

5. Pay off your credit cards every month.

6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

7.. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.

8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.

9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.

10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.

11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.

12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.

13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.

15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.

16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.

17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.

18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.

19.. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.

20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.

21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.

22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.

23. Be eccentric now.. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.

24. The most important sex organ is the brain.

25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.

26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words 'In five years, will this matter?'

27. Always choose life.

28. Forgive everyone everything.

29. What other people think of you is none of your business.

30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.

31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

33. Believe in miracles.

34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.

35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.

36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.

37. Your children get only one childhood.

38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.

39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.

40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's,we'd grab ours back.

41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

42. The best is yet to come.

43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

44. Yield.

45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift."

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Comments:
dizzydoll

Jun 1 @ 11:01AM  
Loved it

great reminder

CHARLIgurl1

Jun 1 @ 12:13PM  
If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's,we'd grab ours back.

This is such a good one.
Jacksonboy

Jun 1 @ 1:38PM  
Dang why didn't we think of all of these?
lovestobake

Jun 1 @ 3:11PM  
luvshorses644

Jun 1 @ 6:31PM  
I got this today in an email too!~!!

Though they all are great lessons, these hit home with me:

#3
#4
#8
#12
#14
#20
#22
#33
#34
#37
#39
suthrn_belle

Jun 1 @ 7:31PM  
All that truly matters in the end is that you loved

My favorite and soo true.
summerbreeze916

Jun 1 @ 7:36PM  
32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

They don't? Oh no! NOW you tell me!


45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift."

I absolutely love this.............


Thank you for sharing. That 90 year old lady is one smart cookie.


sweetxy

Jun 1 @ 8:07PM  
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11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present
29. What other people think of you is none of your business.

30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.

31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

I like 13 and 16 too
45 lessons ,they all all good but just too much so i take some of them above Thank you Ky for sharing..
Tiramisu4u

Jun 6 @ 11:11AM  
Such wisdom!!!!

TY, for this reminder, hon...
mystery2u888

Sep 19 @ 9:33AM  
shoot now how did I miss this little treasure





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