This question or comment, is mainly for the men but I would like women to give their input also if they choose to. There are those who send a wink,or an email and after awhile ask for your email address or phone number because they have an interest in you (me) . Their profiles are interesting and perhaps a spark is generated. Time passes and thats the last you hear from them without any sort of communication. I'm sure this may happen to men as well because no one is perfect . Is this a normal happening for those of you who may read this? Or is it unusual. Is this a game that some play of both genders? Just curious.
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Sherrybaby412
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Jun 7 @ 1:10PM
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This is very common unfortunately. Both genders. It's happened to me and to my best male friend. Not sure why people play these games.
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dizzydoll
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Jun 7 @ 1:13PM
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hmmm the games people play, and if you gave him photos of yourself he has sold them to someone else, and loaded them on some other site claiming to be you. 
move on, you will get many more winks and emails.
my advice, be selective
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Detach
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Jun 7 @ 2:14PM
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I get that often. Women who write me, express an interest in me, then I never hear back from them after submitting a reply.
The last time I did that to a woman who winked at me, the reason was because I decided the distance between us would be a hinderance to any permanant relationship.
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luneib
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Jun 7 @ 2:20PM
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I think it's a game men play, they just want to see who is interested, how many women they can rack up on their interest scale, it's an ego boost for them.
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ElmerFudd445
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Jun 7 @ 2:38PM
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I don't feel this is unusual.. 
I think many do it for the same reasons..
Wink = could mean a darn many things.. Could be "Whoo Hooo .. hubba hubba... "Hey baby.. let's hit the sack!".. Or apprehension.. "Hey.. I like you.. But I not sure I'm your kind of guy" .. .. Could be "If you respond, then I know I'm going to meet some one I might have a real interest in".. Kind of a filtering system?? A way to possible create a curiosity..
I've seen a lot of profiles that say.. "I don't respond to winks"..
Hey.. once in a while, don't you do it just to see what will happen?? 
Tell you a secret... I even got a "thanks" back once.. Now, did that mean she had an interest? 
Anyhoo.. I wouldn't take a received wink that seriously.. It could mean just about anything..
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Thomas7140
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Jun 7 @ 3:10PM
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Hello Serenity: Iam new at this also,and it seems that if you are interested in a match that matchdoctor says is a match for you you check out there profile.Or if you are searching and come across a profile or someone that looks interesting to you you can send them a wink to let them know your interested or send them a message and if they reply it means they read your profile and they are interested also now that they know about you so its a possible match or if theydont reply to your message or wink its means they are not interested in meeting you or they might reply to you and tell you straight up not interested.Or put you on block so you cant message them again.And it goes both ways if I get a flirt or a message, it just tells me someone read my profile and is interested in making contact with we.Then I will read there profile and If I decide to reply Ill send a wink or a message and take it from there and If Iam not interested Ill put them on block so they wont be able to message me again.Be aware that there are all kinds of people on these sites and some might even lie on there profiles and the pictures might not be there own.You dont have to reply to every message even though it seems polite to do so.Too much b.s. going on if you ask me..Different strokes for different folks applies here for sure.In what you said something about giving them your e-mail and phone numbers.Giving out your e-mail or phone number is a decision that you make ,its your choice,be careful.Talkingon the phone is much like chatting on line.Perhapos a web cam would be helpful.. I have noticed alot of scammers here at matchdoctors.com andother sites also. So I would be careful on who you put your trust in on this site and others like it.Its easier to meet with someone using matchdoctor from your own home town, if you can find somebody there that interests you, if not then the closet city etc.How can one date some one thousands of miles away,it seems it would be a hassle.Ill catch the next flight and rent a car and pick you up at 8 have our date and then catch the next flight back, what a hassle..In every state every city there are singles looking for some one.Using this site and others like it makes it easier to meet some one with close to the same interest etc.So there are people finding there,dates,friends, soulmates,future wifes and husbands useing these macth maker online sites..Like I said Iam new at using these sites Iam just trying it out to see if I can find my miss right. How about you all what are you looking for. using these sites.Note: Beware of scammers and husslers.Must meet face to face,.As matchdoctor.com states they dont screen the people using there free service..P.S. there are some on this site that if you dont agree with there ways od doing things or there statements on the blogs etc they get upset and some will even lie about you to others.. Some take offense and will insult you because you dont believe on the what and how of the way they think things should be donehere online at matchdoctor some have been here for years and they apperently are still looking.Sure dont want there advise unless they found someone.and then they should tell us the how they did it and if they are still together..To each there own.
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lovestobake
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Jun 7 @ 3:30PM
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WINK. Many reasons why this is done. I don't send winks, ( or get many ) I am the type that if I am interested I just come out & say so & including why. I only have so many days left on the planet, no time to waste.
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