Obtrusive: Tending to push self-assertively forward; brash: a spoiled child's obtrusive behavior; Undesirably noticeable...
Just a few of my very own personal observations on meeting someone for the very first time after "chatting" on the net and via phone. Some of you may relate to these and others will disagree.. I value each of your very own right to your very own observation, but I think with all the hubbub from quite a few blogs and people I overhear daily about how stymied men are about women... I need you to know, it is very much mutual.
Say you "meet" someone on one of these dating sites. You exchange emails for a bit, IM each other, talk on the phone and when you feel comfortable, arrange a meeting.... and I approach these meetings with hope... perhaps not all do. You see, my profile clearly states that I am looking for a long-term relationship with someone that would first be my best friend. Someone I am most comfortable with, who will look at me and see beyond the exterior into who I really am and enjoy being with me.
For a good deal of the time, I have met several people who I believe are very out of touch with what is OK and what is not on first meetings someone.
Here are my observations:
DO NOT .. look someone over from head to toe, wink, and say: "I really like you.. you are hawwwwttt!"
My suggestion: "Hi, I am "______", nice to finally meet the person behind the emails and chats. "
And if you have to say something because of their appearance, how about: "Gee, you are prettier than your picture." AND LEAVE IT AT THAT!
DO NOT make smug innuendos at the slightest chance of doing so.. when someone says, quite innocently..."it was hard, but I managed to ...", frik.. DO NOT reply, while lech-like winking: "well, it isn't quite 'hard' yet, but if you move closer...."
My suggestion: talk about something that means something to you.. your family, your dreams, your hopes...
DO NOT lean in to whisper something, grab ahold of your date's head... and lay a big ole .. "cuz I couldn't help myself" slobbering kiss upon them.
My suggestion... listen to your date.. ask questions about something you heard them say, make comments that are relevant and show you care.
and lastly... when you are parting, and it is very uneasy for the one saying .. "I don't think we are exactly a fit..." (but they never get to finish that statement)
DO NOT grab them .. pull them in close, put your hands on their azzz and say.. "now THAT's what I'm talking about"....
My suggestion: lean in for a small peck.. listen to what they are saying and leave as gently as you arrive.
And speaking of talking via the phone.. under no circumstances ask on the 2nd phone call if she is a morning person and when she innocently thinks you are asking if she wakes up glad to be alive and happy, you say .. "no, I mean do you enjoy morning wood and sex?????"
My suggestion, if you need to ask this, then you aren't looking for a relationship.. you are just one frikken horney rat bass turd.
And men say women are hard to understand.. yeah, right...
Thank you... and Peace Out.
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