Ok...this just happend like...about and hour ago. I did it again..like always. When will i ever learn that no man actually wants or needs me for life.I must be boren stupid. -- Today...he and i whent to a fair...with rides and games and lots of food.we had fun..i mean we both were just kicking it!! Then as soon as he took me back to his place... and i was getting a bit of email...he told me that he has no attraction to me..and thinks we should just be friends!!He also said that he wants to find me a boyfriend that will love me. WHAT??!!!
Then I started to cry...and he took me home while telling me shit about how i could make a life..and he could help me.I mean he was chatting away like he was a GOD or somthing..acting like he can help anyone.
when he took me to my driveway, I gave him his stupid stuff back... and that jerk found the nerve to say.. 'I'll call you.' How STUPID is that?!!!
Man...we only been out for a month, and i gave him my trust,love and heart. I should have knowen.
I quit, I no longer want a man anymore or anyone else. I'm done. 30 years old...and i Q-U-I-T!! Men are scum...well in the USA that is. UGGG!!!
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ILgal_

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Jun 15 @ 12:33AM
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You didn't mess up .. he's the one who messed up ..
I'm sorry he messed with your heart .. you deserve better
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Bdragon477

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Jun 15 @ 12:37AM
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thats what my little brother told me. But,but... I messed this up..i know i did. I should have knowen..i mean...i donno.
can't trust anyone anymore with my heart. I guess when it comes to it...IF a lifemate is out there..he will come to me. I got to STOP going to them. WHAT is my problem??!!
I just feel like im running out of time, is all.
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kjac

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Jun 15 @ 12:49AM
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I usually hear about women giving up on men after I go out with them.
Seriously, you're a long way from running out of time. So don't give up. You're an attractive woman with a good head on her shoulders. But I think it is a good idea to not be actively searching. When it happens, it happens.
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Bdragon477

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Jun 15 @ 12:56AM
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*sighs* I'll be waiting forever. My heart aches for my beloved... wherever he may be.
Yeah,I think i should hide in the shadows, and if hes really the one for me... whoever it is..he will find me anyplace ..anytime...and win my heart.
I just hate waiting.
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plowman

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Jun 15 @ 2:05AM
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well, bdragon, I can't figure it out...you dress totally sexy, hey!
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kjac

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Jun 15 @ 3:14AM
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As much as I hate posting twice on the same blog, I have to agree with plow. I'd totally hit that.
Waits for hate mail.
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chevymn

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Jun 15 @ 3:16AM
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First. You are beautiful. Second. You are smart. Third. You are sexy. Fourth. Thats every mans nightmare. Fifth. You aren't a whore. You have my respect. Sixth. Yes! We men are scum. Learn to deal with it. Chevy.
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PrettyGreenEyes578

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Jun 15 @ 5:35AM
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I am sorry that you are hurt.
I look at it this way, and hope you do not take offense.
Don't rush into anything or get your hopes up before you really know a person or know the person's intent.
Dating is about getting to know someone and sometimes that means people are better off friends.
I value honesty, and at least he was honest with you, you know where you stand, you can brush yourself off, and begin again.
Honesty, is a gift.
Honesty stings sometimes, but it is better than guessing.
You have a lot going for you and have fun and enjoy life and don't be in a rush to meet "the one." He will come when the time is right.
In my opinion, you did nothing wrong, but things worked out in a different way than you had planned.
When the wrong man exits, there is room for the right man to enter.
Believe in yourself!
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Fender

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Jun 15 @ 7:25AM
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Your beautiful...
I know it hurt's...Oh God do I ever know...Imagine that happening after a few years together...
When will i ever learn that no man actually wants or needs me for life.I must be boren stupid. This, it's not true. They are the idiots who are missing out on something wonderful, trust me...And hey, if I went that way...I'd hit that up too
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keepher

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Jun 15 @ 7:40AM
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Dating is not only getting to know the person, but is also learning and growing yourself as a person yourself . Don't let anyone take advantage of you just because you are looking for love and they aren't. Get to know and love yoursefl before seeking someone else to love you. When the right person comes along they will love you for the wonderful person you have evolved into. You will love yourself more, too
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silksox

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Jun 15 @ 8:43AM
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Hey Hey Bd Sweetie
Just look at it this way...YOU got out cheap!!! What if he stayed around for a year and then laid that on ya? (like Fender said)
You are Bad to the Bone with a great soul inside..Don't you dare accept responsibility for what that dood did! Kick it to the curb. And when he gets to missing ya & dials your number...tell him you don't live there anymore
Silks
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imlost2

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Jun 15 @ 5:22PM
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How could you possibly have known, you were looking past his faults and flaws because you are a good person. You didn't see what an idiot he is. It only leaves the door open for someone else in your life more deserving. Keep looking he's out there. I know that's the same old story, but it's true. Take care and good luck, Lost
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