You can lie to them, but you can't fool me.. You can tell the world, that your happy and doing just fine, Living without Love, all alone is so much easier and kind, and you like it this way! No Committment, No Risk, No one waiting at home for you, No one to tell you when its time to go to bed, No one to wake up with, No one to get inside your Head.... You can tell your self your better off this way, but we both know, thats a Lie.....  you miss all the little things, that brought you love and happiness, the sorrow, the tears, It was the hard times and the good that helped you overcome the fears....
I was their for you, to help you grow, overcome the pain from yet another blow! All the making up and saying your sorry, setting aside your foolish pride, was how you expressed the love from deep inside....
Your heart was meant to love, and to share with another, you cant tell me you dont miss having a lover..... Someone who loves you just for you, we both know that being in Love is truly the thing to do....
Yet your living a lie, telling your self, you dont miss it, that it didnt mean that much to you, You say true happiness comes from within, yet your mind cant help but wonder, will someone be there in the end? You keep telling me, that you will be just fine, Falling in Love is a waste of time..yet everytime you look in the mirror, all those lines keep getting clear, Those were the days when smiles were always on your face, Let it go...it was a different time and place.....
So you go on Living a lie.....convencing your self, its not even worth a try! after all your Heart has been mended from promises once spoken, the promises that were made and are now broken...you tell your self you dont miss that soft voice that use to talk to you at night, or ever think about those arms that use to hold you so tight....But you think its easier, to go on Living a Lie, telling the world you dont miss it, yet deep inside, sometimes ya just break down cry..... Because we both know its just a Lie...So you fill your time with work and friends, getting lost in the day to day, playing that game...that it really doesnt matter anyway! You can Lie to the world and everyone you meet, But you and I know when your mind drifts back it was love that made you feel complete...
So who are you really lying to me or you? I know the real truth, and so do you! So lets not play games with each other when it comes to matters of the Heart... You can Lie to them, but you cant lie to me, I've been with you from the start...You know who I am, I'm no stranger, This is me, I'm your Heart... 
Just another thought from the chronicles of Popo 
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debbz32
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Jun 16 @ 2:39PM
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I don't have any words.....so i will just leave a  and a kudo
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dizzydoll
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Jun 16 @ 3:04PM
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yup... my Heart guides me too
special blog as usual
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tentfire
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Jun 16 @ 3:27PM
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Excellent blog again!
Although I didn't have those things in my marriage, I would hope that most do/did.
If I did, I don't think I would have left.
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lovestobake
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Jun 16 @ 3:31PM
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Different stages in life for some. I seem to be in the stage you elude to. However, I wouldn't trade the 28 years of bachelorhood I have lived. The insights, delights, experiences and adventures ladies have brought to me kept my heart in a wonder filled state. Nice blog.
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hart_of_gold64
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Jun 16 @ 3:36PM
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Once again he wooes me till I melt.
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dizzydoll
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Jun 16 @ 3:43PM
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thats so true hart... we shouldnt analyze things, cos it spoils all spontaneous-ness, whatever.. you know what i mean doll. 
popodoll
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butterfly943
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Jun 16 @ 5:04PM
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Awesome 
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Timber52
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Jun 16 @ 5:56PM
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I know that I don't like being alone..
I would give up being single in a heart beat..
if I could find a man like POPO.. 
you get a kudo from me!!
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1frantastic
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Jun 16 @ 6:33PM
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such a truism...we should listen to our heart...before it gets to hard to speak to even us...... 
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leprichaun_magic
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Jun 16 @ 6:47PM
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.a writing from a Big Heart!
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Fayvorite
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Jun 18 @ 7:55AM
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My heart can certainly relate that to probably most people, however for me my heart sings a different song. I love my space and living with myself. I haven't lost faith that someday someone will excite my heart again but I'm enjoying the hell out of taking care of myself until then.
I guess that comes from having spent too long in a marriage feeling lonely but for the last 3 years of being single has resulted in feeling vibrant, alive and happy for the most part. Rarely does lonliness sneak a peak and is washed away by remembering what lonely felt like when I lived in my marriage.
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POPO
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Jun 18 @ 9:55AM
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I am over whelmed and humbled by the responses from so many wonderful sincere people here.. I just wanted to take the time to personally Thank you all.... Sharing your thoughts with me and stories, has been very heart warming, and restores my faith that their are still so many great people around.
Sometimes we only hear of the bad that comes from the internet, how people lied and mislead others or used people for selfish gain. They haven't met you..
Thank you for your love and kindness and making me feel so welcomed here, I only hope I'm able to give back what I'm recieving..
Popo
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oklacheri
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Jul 21 @ 6:34PM
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Okay...so you made me cry 
But you made me admit alot too.
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POPO
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Jul 21 @ 8:50PM
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Hola Cheri,
Okay...so you made me cry
But you made me admit alot too
See Popo knows....  Men and Women aren't so different, Women are just more willing to express their true emotions, then most men are..But not Me.. 
Popo just keeping it real....real honest.. Thanx for reading..
Popo
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