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posted 6/21/2009 5:17:47 AM |
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  ragtopcookie

Its been a strange one......thats for sure......first of all.....theres something going on with my daughter.....not sure what yet.....she left out of here friday nite in the middle of a storm to take her friend home.....said she was comming right back....but ended up down at indy at her boyfriends house....got up early saturday morning to go see my dad...and there was a voice message on my cell about having a migrain headache and she was going to the emergency room....tried calling her back....no answer......so on the way up to see my dad...i stopped by the grocery store to get corn on the cob that was on sale...but then they didnt want to give me the sale price on it.....even thought i gave them their own adverisment from the paper to prove it was on sale....they tried to say that it was printed wrong.....but there it was.....and i had to argue with three people before they gave it to me at sale price.....got to my dads house and he was still in bed......he woke up pissed off at the world......his health is going down hill fast.....but i went up to see him cause its the right thing to do......my brother and his wife showed up.....with pulled beef and honey buns for sandwitches....and my dad pissed off my brothers wife.....but i did get ahold of my daughter on the phone.....she went to the wrong emergency room in indy.....and my insurance will pay for only a third of it .......cause thats how it works.....shes looking at around four hundred dollars worth of co pay now......plus the cost of the EEG they did on her.....my hospital...where i work at down there was just as close as the one she went to.....and she knows how it works.....normally.....i would be mad about this......and at first...i was......but then i told her over the phone.....when the bill comes in.....she can pay for it herself.....and she hung up on me and ive not heard from her since.....well.....after we ate at dads house.....dad wasnt feeling good so he went back to bed.....and i told my sister in law that dad didnt mean what he said to her....but the damage was done......and its my brother that has to pay the cost of this as hes ridding back home with her......so i come back home to my air conditioned castle and watch free movies this weekend on my directv.....got a call from my son last nite asking about his sister......and i told him what i knew....what had happened.....and that ive not heard one word from her since.....well...hes comming over here this morning.....wanted to take me out for breakfast for fathers day...cause he has to be at work at noon today....i told him to come over here and save his money....ill make up sausage gravy over toast for us and we can sit and visit till he has to go to work......and my daughter?......im not sure what to think about that mess.....not even sure shes even going to be here for fathers day this year.....for now....she still lives here...her stuff is still here.....but who knows whats gonna happen......like i said at the beginning.....its been a strange weekend......and being my day......im not going to let whats happened bring me down......ive done everything that im suppose to.....and this day will be my own.....and im gonna kick back and enjoy it.....even if it means spending alot of it by myself......as far as im concerned.....all the drama has past.....its time to relax and think of the better father days ive had in the past......cause so far......this one sure has sucked.........cookie

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Comments:
gunn12fan

Jun 21 @ 5:38AM  
enjoy your day bud things will get better
Tanikogirl

Jun 21 @ 6:39AM  
Its tough being a parent at times,we always seems to get the brunt of it when things go wrong in our childrens lives, but I think thats part of the role. I am sure when she has had time to reason and cool down she will be back to her Dad.All we can do is be there and pick up the pieces. Do try and have a lovely day with the knowledge that deep down your children love their Dad. Happy Fathers Day Cookie
Angel178

Jun 21 @ 7:27AM  
Awww....I do hope it turns around for you.
silksox

Jun 21 @ 8:44AM  
Hey Cookie

You have been a WONDERFUL Dad...with all the RIGHT stuff. Your daughters going through a growth stage emotionally..mentally and exerting her "basic" independence so-to-speak. Sometimes my children act like strangers that I barely recognize and then it passes as if it never happened..Used to make me angry. Now I just live my life and allow them to live theirs. I love them BUT they reap what they sow and teaching them accountibility is the best thing I coud do.

It is hard sometimes for me to remember they are adults responsible for their own decisions..I still want to be Mom in authority.

You've done a fine job Dad...kudos

Silk
chevymn

Jun 21 @ 12:23PM  
Happy Fathers Day, Cookie. Had to work all weekend myself. Atleast they gave me today off. The bossman asked me if I would work today. I told him HELL NO!
DRACULA_VwV

Jun 21 @ 1:53PM  
Don't think of it as sucks, after all, you're a father, and if fatherhood was easy, then it wouldn't be all that much fun. The father is the strong one in the family, always has been, and always will be. So hold your head up, smile in the face of atrocity, and kick ass, Father.
dizzydoll

Jun 21 @ 4:09PM  
HAVE A HAPPY FATHERS DAY COOKIE

and dont worry about they youngins, they have to learn responsibility so its good you made it clear

when the bill comes in.....she can pay for it herself

now you kick back and enjoy the rest with your boy alone if thats the case

here is some flowers for you cos i know you love roses, but MD only has Busy Lizzies


summerbreeze916

Jun 21 @ 4:26PM  
Cookie......if your daughter HAS forgotten that it's Father's Day, she is going to feel AWFUL! I hope you hear from her soon. She's growing up. Kick back and enjoy the peace and quiet. We all know you're a good dad...and a good son to your dad.

Happy Father's Day!
marchartist

Jun 21 @ 6:40PM  
Oh Cookie, sorry things haven't been so great this weekend, but look at your comments; you even got a normal, supportive message from DRAC. That never happens! So count your blessings and enjoy the rest of your day.
Fender

Jun 21 @ 7:03PM  
Your a good Dad Cookie...Don't worry about it...She'll come round.
missliss78

Jun 21 @ 10:56PM  
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