Body Language will tell on you...  Now I'm no expert, but...I know it when I see it...  This is something I have studied most of my life..Because it fascinates me.. 
Body language will tell on you..... it will give you away! 
Sometimes we want it too...Sometimes we don't? 
Lemme start with the "eyes" (the window to our soul)
If someone is paying attention, the eyes will speak volumes we can often times see, what's on someones mind, just the way they look at us! It's all in the look....at first glance! often times it doesn't matter what their lips may say, their eyes give them away! A Man can tell what a woman has on her mind, by her look...and a Woman can tell what a man has on his mind by his look and especially where his eyes roam to... 
Our eyes are like a video camera they miss nothing, yet record everything down to the last detail...
We know within seconds if we would or would not be with someone, based on what our eyes see now don't get me wrong some can grow on us and change our thinking, but we all have that first impression That's right I'm talkin to you! Say what you will, but you know I'm right.. 
Next...."La boca the mouth and lips" ooooooh la la they work together in conjunction with our eyes, depending on what we see, and our reaction to it? our mouths can get dry or we wet our lips, or even our lips can form a pucker not even realizing it, as our eyes are sending a message to our lips and mouth, telling us this looks good...ummmm The problem with this, if we are not aware of what's happening our expressions give us away Women tend to be more aware of this...Which is why they (many) take a fast glance and turn their heads to register what they just saw without giving away their reaction to it! I know how you are and you know I know.. when you turn back around for the second look, your expression and "Body Language" confirms it!
Some can hide it to a point, but even if you try to turn a way I can still tell, whether it was good or bad it's even funnier when you know, I know and you didn't think you wanted me to know! at least yet! Oooooooh I'm having fun with this..
I have often wondered why men or women ask each other whether or not they can kiss each other or not? I couldn't even imagine how embarrassing a No would be... If your paying attention...the answer is clear one way or another I have always prided my self on, and consider my self to be quite the Gentleman, but I have never asked for a Kiss on the other hand I never had her turn away not because I'm so good looking but "Body Language" is something I pay very close attention too... her eyes and lips and the way her body responds to me, tells me everything... 
So I rush nothing....but pay close attention to everything... that's right every little detail..even when she thinks I don't see! POPO knows... I know some women reading this may think POPO...yeah right!! I could fool ya! No you couldn't.... your hands your legs even the way you sit...tells on you! especially the way you walk, a woman has a certain walk when she is "Thinking" ...I like him!! another tell sign is in our voice we all have that talk...you know the talk.... talk... it's almost like pillow talking...  sometimes were aware of it and other times we don't even realize the changing of tones and they way we come across... but our voice can give us away too.... maybe we mean it? and maybe we don't?...but it is what it is...
Have you ever caught someones tell signs? I have sometimes it's been a total stranger, sometimes it's someone I know but either way, I know it when I hear it or see it.... sometimes I just smile and think to my self....caughtcha!!! Body language has been studied for years, even how we hold our arms crossed or not, expressions and so on..I personally find it to be quite sexy at times.. even a little challenging reading it, but once you get a read, it unfolds like a novel..
I like it.... 
Popo
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CHARLIgurl1
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Jun 23 @ 12:24PM
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Ive studied this for a long time too.
People lean away when they want to distance themselves from a conversation,
tap feet when they are either irritated or feeling on edge in a situation
Theres so much more.. but it something I like to study too.
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POPO
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Jun 23 @ 1:06PM
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you are absolutely right...their are so many aspects to Body Language, it's quite fascinating.. Thanx...for your thoughts
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dizzydoll
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Jun 23 @ 2:05PM
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you forgot to add:
From the Chronicles of
Popo
good blog
today i was at a restaurant and while a gent was walking out he passed my table . our eyes met, now usually when this happens its just a fleeting glance but for some reason he didnt look away... it happened so fast, next thing he was standing at my table waiting for me to say something. i was stuck so i asked him for the bill.... it was only then that he realised my "look" was nothing more than an observation. i honestly dont know what he was expecting, but this is the first time this has ever happened to me... we exchanged pleasantries and off he went like the wind, one minute here and the next gone.
one thing is for sure, he misread my body language
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POPO
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Jun 23 @ 2:26PM
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you forgot to add:
From the Chronicles of
Popo
Point to you....you got me on that one....
Wow....there's an awkward moment...  yikes...he mis-read that one big time, if you don't mind me asking? Why were you looking at him for more then a fleeting glance? Was their something about him? or just one of those stares that get locked in, in what seems like minutes, yet only seconds..?
What I find ironic is when I was married I never noticed or paid attention to it much, My then sweetheart was always point out who was starring at me and give me that look.. I'm like I didn't do anything.. I didn't even know, but since you told me, point her out to me.. I'm kidding of course...
Now that I'm single, when I walk in somewhere that's the first thing I look for..who's looking and what are they thinking.. you see the looks, women are even more aware of this then men, as women have the eyes of men on them all the time.. Good or bad it is what it is...
Thanx for sharing your story and thoughts..
Popo
sssssssst...if you tell me I won't tell anyone... 
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dizzydoll
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Jun 23 @ 2:44PM
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Why were you looking at him for more then a fleeting glance?
you know how it is, everyone else is seated... the one who stands and walks everyone notices... i looked at him as i would anyone else, no other reason... a thoughtless action. and thats right it was awkward him standing there waiting for something. lucky for me, i thought of the bill and this opened the door to excuse himself
wow, its true tho... it was very awkward. he was good looking too, so maybe thats how he meets women... he takes more from the glance
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Fayvorite
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Jun 23 @ 4:37PM
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I wish all men were as receptive as you Popo, sadly they aren't. Countless times a plain and simple smile has been mistaken for flirting but that falls under presumptions.
Like I said I wish more people were as perceptive. I take great pleasure in eye contact and go out of my way to smile to see who responds. I do this with strangers all the time and 95% of the people will crack a smile to my grin. Little kids will usually hide behind their Moms and peek out at me not sure how to react to that grinning stranger.
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kywonder
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Jun 23 @ 7:37PM
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Tis a true statement that says, "Actions speak louder than words."
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BandTMom
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Jun 23 @ 8:56PM
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Come closer and I'll give you "The Look".
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POPO
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Jun 23 @ 10:35PM
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Ms.Doll,
wow, its true tho... it was very awkward. he was good looking too, so maybe thats how he meets women... he takes more from the glance
Thanx for sharing ...you may be right, many people both men and women can sometimes feel looks alone is all they need.. That will often times be enough to get someones attention, but it won't keep it, charm and personality keeps their attention.
Popo
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POPO
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Jun 23 @ 10:53PM
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I wish all men were as receptive as you Popo, sadly they aren't. Countless times a plain and simple smile has been mistaken for flirting but that falls under presumptions.
Like I said I wish more people were as perceptive. I take great pleasure in eye contact and go out of my way to smile to see who responds. I do this with strangers all the time and 95% of the people will crack a smile to my grin. Little kids will usually hide behind their Moms and peek out at me not sure how to react to that grinning stranger.
Hola Ms.Fay,
If their not, it's sad.. because we all have the same information and ability to pay attention, Your absolutely right "presumtions" can make any man look and feel foolish.. Like you I love the "Eyes" they tell us so much, especially if we get the right read and just simply pay attention..
As usual thanxx for your thoughts..
Popo
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POPO
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Jun 23 @ 10:54PM
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Tis a true statement that says, "Actions speak louder than words."
Very true Ms.Wonder.. 
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POPO
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Jun 23 @ 10:57PM
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Come closer and I'll give you "The Look".
Awwww Ms.Band...you are to kind....
Oh wait just a doggone minute....what look? that could go either way..
Popo
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Angel178
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Jun 29 @ 7:27PM
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Come over here....closer....
tell me what I'm saying....
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POPO
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Jun 30 @ 6:39AM
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Angel,
you think your so cute....telling me to come closer and then the smack.. that ain't right.... secretly we both know you kinda like me..
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mystery2u888
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Jul 2 @ 2:05AM
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Actions speaks for themselves, most definitely and .........it is about body language I have also studied it in many situations .......it's very interesting....
Great blog 
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POPO
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Jul 2 @ 9:08AM
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Mystery,
We agree.... the tell signs will give someone away, even when their lips are saying something different, their body has a way of telling on them..
Since you have paid attention to it, you know exactly what I'm saying.. your absolutely right, once you understand it and look for it, it becomes a language all by it's self.
Thank you for reading and for your thoughts
Popo
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