I have been on dating site on & off for years and have never yet met one decent man yet. They are all full of XXXX or looking for miss body, & beauty what a waste as all the beauty is held within so ok you old guys be dirty old men.
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kjac
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Jun 23 @ 11:01PM
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I suggest you read your blog slowly 5 times to yourself alone. Do this and you might figure out why you're reading it to yourself.
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luneib
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Jun 23 @ 11:04PM
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I met my bf on a dating site, have you considered looking for guys who are a bit younger, like say 50-55? My bf is much younger than me, by 17 years.
There are also Senior Dating Sites online which may be another place to find someone. They looked pretty good to me, plus, the guys may be more willing to settle down, not just out for a fling as many seem to be.
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chatillion
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Jun 23 @ 11:10PM
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Kathy... I scanned your profile.
You are: 64 years old.
Opening line: Looking for an adventure
About myself: I am sexy... Life is meant to be lived & not held accountable to past sins...
the person I would like to meet: sensitive, sexy sensual...
So, let's recap. You are blogging about the inability to find a decent man on a dating site and your closing comment: ok you old guys be dirty old men.
Did I leave anything out?
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Schmoopy
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Jun 23 @ 11:11PM
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I KNOW!! what the hell is wrong with these guys? they chat with you for a few days and then just drop you with no explaination..or they are just looking for one thing, or really hot chicks..at this rate i may never find a guy! so don't think you are alone girl!
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snidegrass
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Jun 23 @ 11:15PM
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most of the men are waiting to make the 900 septillion swiss franc
score. then they might be able to afford to get married
or date someone. until then, we kinda are thrown for a loss.
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jcarolina
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Jun 23 @ 11:17PM
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I don't know why. It's possible that you attract unsuitable men. I certainly seem to attract mainly unsuitable women. Are we messed up, or are they messed up?
I'm too young to be considered a dirty old man, but I'll give it a shot......
pee.......crap........dog dookie........
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Jacksonboy
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Jun 23 @ 11:17PM
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yeppers all of we men are like that 
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RightWingRepublican
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Jun 23 @ 11:21PM
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Ive met a load of great guys on here. They are only friends but they would certainly make a woman happy. 
Maybe looking into yourself will give you the answer youre looking for.
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Bdragon477
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Jun 24 @ 12:21AM
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I met someone on here,
and we were a couple for 3 years..
but then ended in hate and anger..cause he lied to me
all that time and become someone else.
I have met alot of thoes as well other sites..
and always ended in sadness and hate.
I always get the old dirty men,
but leve them in my 'blocked' list...
and the good ones are really the bad ones.
so..what do you do?
I donno...stay single forever.
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HopelesslyHopeful
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Jun 24 @ 1:18AM
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You can!
I've known several women who have met decent guys, several guys who have met decent women - and some of them made very lovely couples, together! lol
I met several decent guys. I met a lovely, decent, funny very tall guy on here, just the other night, and recently got an email from a decent person of the atheist persuasion.
I suppose it all boils down to what you mean by decent and what you want to meet them for.
But, if it's true that your profile says stuff about wanting to meet sexy, sensual men, like that one person's comment says, and then you are complaining about them being rated X, well .. maybe the problem is in interpretation. Sometimes when a woman is jsut being honest, friendly forthright and all that, and is not shy about expressing her sexual needs along with her other needs, to guys it doesn't sound so much like confidence as like an invitation to get down and dirty.
So, maybe you might want to emphasize that a bit less on the profile, and save that sort of talk for a guy who sparks your interest in other ways, and do it more privately.
Or, maybe just reword it .. or .. well, you know. Obviously, for you to meet the sort of guy you want to meet, something has to change, as it's not working for you as it is. You can't change dirty old men, but, you can change your profile.
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HopelesslyHopeful
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Jun 24 @ 1:28AM
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Bdragon????
met someone on here,
and we were a couple for 3 years..
but then ended in hate and anger..cause he lied to me
all that time and become someone else.
Eh? You met my Ex on here? 
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belladonnaberte
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Jun 24 @ 1:58AM
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Well Kathy, we all come to this site or another because we are looking to find the right person for us. You have an idea of who that person is supposed to be, you go through the profiles and it's either yea, or nay. And just like you look at them, they are looking in the same way you... Perhaps you may even fall into their catagory of being full of XXXX or looking for Mr. Body & braun. Your right, what a waste of time when all you're looking for is arm candy. But that isn't everyone. Those who are serious about finding someone, and not just filling time and space until the next best for now comes along are on here too... No one is perfect, but one persons "ex" is another persons "dream come true"... you just have to keep going. But to say to the men... "ok you old guys be dirty old men" and you yourself are not in your late 20's, you say your "sexy, sensual and looking for an adventure..." just possibly isn't that putting yourself out there? you might as well add to your intro "come play with me" because that is what guys who are out for only one thing just look for... "sexy" (yup, there's a flag), "sensual" (ooOOoo, there is flag two, looks promising...fingers crossed, could it be, will it be???) "looking for an adventure" (Paydirt!!! definately this dirty old man needs to check this hot little number out)...
Read over your profile, if you've gone through so many guys and you haven't met a decent one, perhaps you are drawing the wrong kind of men, maybe you need to look at how you are putting yourself out there in the introduction.... Then again... maybe you don't. I'm not you.... all I know is that in order to find the right person, you need to keep an open mind, trust your instincts, and remember, no one is perfect, not me, not the next person, and not even you. Perhaps it's time to step out of the comfort zone and have an adventure... the right person may be waiting there waiting if you will ever show up!!!
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ragtopcookie
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Jun 24 @ 5:46AM
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This is a dating site?......could have fooled me..... ...of course...ive been fooled alot on here.....but....one who fools first...fools best.......words to live by.......cookie
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ttomtarr
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Jun 24 @ 5:42PM
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I would say that the secret to success is getting your expectations to line up with the expectations of the kind of guy you want to meet.
Keep trying. 
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