Headgames....Why do we do it..? Foolish Pride maybe? 
Its a down right shame.... it happens all the time! I think the older we get the easier it is to see, just how distructive this can be. 
This is one aspect of a Relationship, that I just dont understand? Two people who are in love, and can have everything going on and on.....Ole cupid has taken aim....  When you make Love its right on time, some would say it can be like magic..  Okay....that was me who said it.. 
You cant wait to see and be with each other and when ya make love, you want to hug and kiss each other all over and over again! but some where along the way something goes wrong?
You both love each other, theres no arguing that! Its so easy to see and feel! So you pull out your life planners, and say to each other.....I wanna spend my life with you! Your everything I want in life, my heart pounds and my pulse races, everytime your near me, I'm so glad that I found you!  Now the Relationship is going along just fine! your in love, their in love, shyt it must be Love
*************Now thats Exciting***************
But somewhere along the way, someone says or does something, the other doesn't like......
Do ya sit down and talk it out, and work it out??
Oh...... No! No! No!  Why its time to play Head Games!.........you know what I'm saying!
You start looking at each other and thinking.....I musta been outta of my ever living loving, freakin mind  to have went this far with you..! What was I thinking I could of been with your friend, instead of you..I'm playing..
Now look atcha......Oh you think your cute! Well two can play this Game! Now the relationship that was so right! just went so wrong! If it doesn't get a grip! its headed for destruction.....Now it's like a round trip ticket on a run away train! Trying to beat 3 aces with a couple of Kings.....like water to a drowning Man.......Awwwww yes, we know what time it is......Walking on Eggshells! passing each other by with nothing to say! Going hours on end without a word to each other!
Maybe even letting it get so bad, that hours turn into days, maybe even longer......Ya both know if this keeps up.....Its Over! Now is when all the Love is put to a test.....That's right! every Relationship gets tested somehow! someway!.......someday! its gonna happen!
Now heres the kicker............
Many times you blame each other...you started it! No you did ya crazy mofo! I can't believe you said that or did that!..  and your like did what? Oh you know!!!!! Often times its starts out over something really silly that got blown outta purportion! it really was nothing at all.....Cuz ya both have been through so much more before! But its the little things that get magnified into more then it really was!
So who's to Blame????? I hear some say sometimes, Love is not ever having to say your sorry! yeah right! Anyone who has been in love knows sometimes I'm sorry needs to be said! its when its not said.......the HeadGames begin! yet both of you together .......who built this thing on love and understanding, are now willing to just walk away! I learned early on during a 25 marriage, each morning when I woke up, the first two things I said was..yeah your right! and I'm sorry, because I knew somewhere during the day this was going to happen..  I'm playing ..well kinda  okay back to the post..
For what!!!!!! For What!!!!!!!! Foolish Pride? Having to be Right? Stubborn?
As though everything you built together and everything you have waited for, for what seems a life time, suddenly it's treated as it were nothing! nothing at all........
What a shame! To watch something crumble right before your eye's, the more the headgames, the deeper the cut and damage that's done......especially when you look at what a Relationship is in its totality, allowing something so small, to become so big.
For those of you whom may think it's no big deal...just look at the intro's and profiles, so many say No Headgames! Headgames come in many forms, in dating it can be troublesome, in relationships it can be devastating..
In looking back at the time and energy spent to get it from Hello! to The First Meet, and all the way to Were in Love! It's sad to see this happen.
That takes alot of time and effort, to get a relationship to the point where two are in love yet some are willing to throw it all a way.....because neither one has anything to say! or feels the other should say it first! Crazy huh? HeadGames........it Blows My Mind!
Popo
sssssst........ disclaimer  I know no one here has ever experienced this personally.. but you may know someone who did.. 
pssssssst Ms.Doll is this gentle enough?
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Angel178
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Jun 28 @ 12:05PM
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 I'm sorry....
I didn't mean to be such a bitch
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dizzydoll
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Jun 28 @ 12:22PM
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yes thats more like it POPO
however i must add, if its real LOVE it will endure anything. on the other hand INFATUATION is short term and will not last. this is why people should wait at least 3 months before allowing the relationship to become physical. If you wait this time, its very possible that you might separate... but thats a whole lot better than bearing unnecessary heartache, anger and drama. It it lasts those 3 months it should last long enough to become real LOVE.
this has always worked for me. and no its not because i dont like sex... its cos i like my heart enough to protect it and that makes me a better lover.
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POPO
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Jun 28 @ 12:24PM
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It's okay baby....I know how you truly feel about me.. and it's okay I understand... as you know, I'm a very forgivng and understanding kinda fellow...
I really didn't want our break up to come out on the message boards.. 
but since you brought it up...
No need to say your sorry.. Now can we make up.. 
you know how I am Sweetheart..I'm all about the make up... 
So come here Girl.....you know you wanna....
Call me......we can work this out.... 
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dizzydoll
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Jun 28 @ 12:44PM
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now look who is playing games?
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dizzydoll
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Jun 28 @ 12:45PM
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i am gonna find myself a decent caring gentleman........ you are just a con artist you!!!
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Angel178
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Jun 28 @ 12:47PM
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Don't feel bad dizzy...I fell for it too!
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POPO
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Jun 28 @ 1:06PM
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yes thats more like it POPO Good...
however i must add, if its real LOVE it will endure anything. on the other hand INFATUATION is short term and will not last. this is why people should wait at least 3 months before allowing the relationship to become physical. If you wait this time, its very possible that you might separate... but thats a whole lot better than bearing unnecessary heartache, anger and drama. It it lasts those 3 months it should last long enough to become real LOVE.
this has always worked for me. and no its not because i dont like sex... its cos i like my heart enough to protect it and that makes me a better lover.
Why does their always have to be a but or however? Just when I thought we was bonding...
Now wait just a dog gone minute.... First of all, I get the hold off on the physical aspect until, you actually have something worth working for....I get that really I do.. Of course sometimes with me a womens will gets weak, and her resistence, just can't hold out any longer... I don't blame her... as a matter of fact, I understand... I'm hard to resist..... are you buying that? 
Okay....lemme say this, I had real love, I did 24 1/2 years out of 25 years together, She regrets it's now especially after being out in the dating world, she told me this morning, it was the biggest mistake she ever made. She's not happy right now, the newness wore off and the men she has met and dated, according to her, they are very shallow and self absorbed or only have sex on their mind..
The way the conversation was going I ask her, are you hitting on me? and she said, yes I am.. Now you must understand, I loved this woman with every breath and every beat of my heart, she was my reason and only desire, she was the kind of woman and love I talk about, that could make my pulse react everytime she walked in the room, I would have never spent 25 years with her if she wasn't.
But it didn't last....I knew the day would come when she would see, the love she found in me, wouldn't be something she would find so easily, reality has found it's way to her door step. I told her then, if you walk away, there will never be us again.
My point is this...even True Love can take a turn for the worse, and when the damage is done, and we have blown out the flame where love once burned, When it's over, then it's over. When that happens, all we can do is pick up the pieces, learn from it, and move on. After awhile when you don't look back the feelings start to fade away. I have given love allot of thoughtful consideration, and think I understand it, I was a good husband and father, not because I'm so great, but because I wanted to be...I like it.. but we can't control the thoughts of another, we just have to live with the outcome.
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Angel178
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Jun 28 @ 1:11PM
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Wow 
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POPO
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Jun 28 @ 1:14PM
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now look who is playing games?
You got the wrong guy I tell ya... it wasn't me....
does this mean were breaking up? are you leaving me..
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POPO
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Jun 28 @ 1:18PM
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i am gonna find myself a decent caring gentleman........ you are just a con artist you!!!
But.....But .....baby can't we talk about this? I told you I loved you... Oh wait I said I love what you do to me.. my bad..but I still meant it minute oops! word of it..
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Angel178
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Jun 28 @ 1:23PM
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2timer
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POPO
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Jun 28 @ 1:26PM
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Don't feel bad dizzy...I fell for it too!
Angel baby....what are sayin? I thought we were workin through things? Don't let Dizzy come between us...she is crazy..can you say crazy...
don't tell her I said that.. she scares me sometimes..
I told you I had this effect on women, but oh no...you wouldn't listen to me.. I can't help it.. once a woman is POPORIZED, they can't but love me... but enough about me, what about ju? What must I do, I mean what Must I do....to get witchu...
Hollar atcha boy.... 
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POPO
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Jun 28 @ 1:32PM
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Wow
2timer
Say what you will.....but you know you still love me....
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Angel178
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Jun 28 @ 1:35PM
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Let me chat with dizzy....maybe we can work something out amonst ourselves with you
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ragtopcookie
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Jun 28 @ 1:37PM
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The newest drama......right here on the doctor.........As the stomach turns........... ..........cookie
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POPO
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Jun 28 @ 1:45PM
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Let me chat with dizzy....maybe we can work something out amonst ourselves with you
Okay just to prove to both of you, I am a good guy, And not for selfish reasons of course..all three of us can work this out.. No he did.....nt, yes he did.. Now come here girls, I think I got some talk for you.. notice two sets of flowers..see how thoughtful he is..
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LJRite
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Jun 28 @ 1:49PM
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ya know whats even more fudged up is when the person doing it can not take responsibility and be honest, they portray themselves as someone else so they cant be accused and can deny any and all such actions.
head games suck big time and can be mean and hurtful, especially to the unknown they become paranoid and feel like that no matter what they say or do they are helpless. And the person playing the games will use and all means to to get to the person they playing such as using friends and family as tools to lead them in other directions so that they arent found out.
good blog, thx.....
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Angel178
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Jun 28 @ 1:50PM
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all three of us can work this out ..
 That is what I meant!
Sheesh...I can't even be trashy...nobody gets it!
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POPO
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Jun 28 @ 1:54PM
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The newest drama......right here on the doctor.........As the stomach turns........... ..........cookie
I'm doing this for the guys...Women say men don't communicate with them..so I'm working the crowd... Hang in there guys, I think I'm starting to soften them up a little...
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dizzydoll
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Jun 28 @ 1:55PM
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thats it......... its either me or Angel, you two timer.......... and you talk behind my back to here....... we had a chat you know, on the tellllllleeeeephone... she told me what you said about me
ITS OFF I NEVER WANT TO SEE YOU AGAIN IN MY LIFE 
YOU MAKE MY SICK
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dizzydoll
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Jun 28 @ 1:57PM
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I come back here for a peep and to let down your tires and i see you have surrounded yourself by more women...
thats it, i am going to destroy your vehicle now
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ragtopcookie
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Jun 28 @ 1:59PM
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And the plot thickens.......two against one.......being ganged upon......what will become of our hero?.........stay tuned dear readers.......stay tuned...........cookie
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dizzydoll
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Jun 28 @ 2:00PM
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head games suck big time and can be mean and hurtful, especially to the unknown they become paranoid and feel like that no matter what they say or do they are helpless. And the person playing the games will use and all m
thats it, who is SHE?
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POPO
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Jun 28 @ 2:01PM
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ya know whats even more fudged up is when the person doing it can not take responsibility and be honest, they portray themselves as someone else so they cant be accused and can deny any and all such actions.
Ooooooooh I understand this all to well.. But it gets to a point where you just say, look I don't care who was right or wrong, can we just right the wrong and move on.. But some people love to play headgames..what do you do? 
head games suck big time and can be mean and hurtful, especially to the unknown they become paranoid and feel like that no matter what they say or do they are helpless. And the person playing the games will use and all means to to get to the person they playing such as using friends and family as tools to lead them in other directions so that they arent found out.
good blog, thx.....
That's when the damage starts becoming more then anyone should be put through, then it's time to walk away, even if it means breaking your own heart.
Thanxxx for your thoughts
Popo
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POPO
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Jun 28 @ 2:05PM
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That is what I meant! Sheesh...I can't even be trashy...nobody gets it!
OOoooooooooh baby I get it... and I like it, that why I said the three of us.. I'm workin witchu girl.. you can be trashy all you want..as a matter of fact I insist on it... Now that's the truth and a dare..
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dizzydoll
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Jun 28 @ 2:05PM
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and now you ignore me........... where is Angel? i am going to tell her too. you are so cruel, you said you loved me. was that a lie too? 
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POPO
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Jun 28 @ 2:10PM
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Yikes Dizzy....[quote]thats it......... its either me or Angel, you two timer.......... and you talk behind my back to here....... we had a chat you know, on the tellllllleeeeephone... she told me what you said about me
ITS OFF I NEVER WANT TO SEE YOU AGAIN IN MY LIFE
YOU MAKE MY SICK
Oooooooooh I just love it when you talk dirty to me....
Bad Angel......I told you not to tell her....
Dizzy are you playing headgames with me?
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Angel178
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Jun 28 @ 2:11PM
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Come on dizzy...we will both leave his sorry spanish speaking ass!
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POPO
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Jun 28 @ 2:16PM
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I come back here for a peep and to let down your tires and i see you have surrounded yourself by more women...
thats it, i am going to destroy your vehicle now
Oh it's like that now huh? Okay meet me at the bus stop and I will show you my bus....
I didn't surround myself with more women, their just friends ..you know your the only one who means anything to me.. psssssssst don't tell Angel I said that
I think your starting to scare me now...you went from Doll to Dizzy, and now a slasher..
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POPO
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Jun 28 @ 2:18PM
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thats it, who is SHE?
Uh....she is just a friend.... Aye dios Mio..I think I'm in trouble now..
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ragtopcookie
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Jun 28 @ 2:20PM
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Looks like curtains for our hero........certain doom......as the two become one and start the process of taking away his manhood once and for all......i for one was hopping they all would end in bed together.....but this being a family channel.....the best they could do is head to the bedroom door as the picture fades.......and the credits roll.....but i for one have not givin up on our hero just yet......watch him pull yet another rabbit out of his hat.........watch now as our boy takes control..............
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dizzydoll
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Jun 28 @ 2:21PM
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yes come Angel, lets go.............. i see there is someone else who is good-lookin on this block....... shall we check HIM out, his name is death of a planet . Come doll, lets leave this looser to all his other dolly birds............ of course we can still take a peek here, there are no laws against stalking on MD i believe....
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POPO
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Jun 28 @ 2:22PM
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and now you ignore me........... where is Angel? i am going to tell her too. you are so cruel, you said you loved me. was that a lie too?
No baby...I'm not ignoring you, I'm giving you some time out...
Wait just a dog gone minute I thought you had her number? see popo catches things like that...ju can't play me..
Oh and no I didn't say I love you, I thought I did, and remembered I said I love what you do to me... so it wasn't a complete lie..
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dizzydoll
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Jun 28 @ 2:24PM
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i for one was hopping they all would end in bed together.
wot, cookie.......... i thought you were my friend so i see you are no better than this spanish speaking ass!
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POPO
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Jun 28 @ 2:26PM
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Come on dizzy...we will both leave his sorry spanish speaking ass!
Ahhhhh see now you pull the race card...por que Mamicita that ain't right..
you told me you love it when I talk like that...Ju are gonna miss your latin Lover...
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dizzydoll
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Jun 28 @ 2:27PM
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see popo catches things like that...ju can't play me
i got Angels number, i stole it from you cell phone before i threw it down the toilet, dont you remember?
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Angel178
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Jun 28 @ 2:27PM
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 You cannot treat dizzy like that you cad
She and I are both leaving ju!
We have other men to stalk...it's not just all about you! 
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Angel178
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Jun 28 @ 2:29PM
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por que Mamicita
Aww, sorry dizzy...I can't help myself when he speaks to me like that....I don't even care what he says
Ok baby...lets dump this dizzy chick.....call me!
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ragtopcookie
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Jun 28 @ 2:30PM
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Im just the narrator to this unfolding drama....i take no sides......but i do wish for a happy ending us readers can all live with......by the way...pulling the race card was one heck of a move.......but his responce was a nice volly as well......now....on with the game.........
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POPO
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Jun 28 @ 2:31PM
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yes come Angel, lets go.............. i see there is someone else who is good-lookin on this block....... shall we check HIM out, his name is death of a planet . Come doll, lets leave this looser to all his other dolly birds............ of course we can still take a peek here, there are no laws against stalking on MD i believe....
You will miss me.... besides who you kidding anyway, you can't resist me you'll be back... besides we both know it's not my looks that keeps you coming back, that just got your attention, it's my charm you find hard to resist I'm just sayin..
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dizzydoll
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Jun 28 @ 2:34PM
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nope, i wanna come back....... , i just noticed his age and it would be cradle snatching...... i wanna come back now Angel must go....... otherwise i am gonna go mad and burn the bloody place down
YOU GO NOW ANGEL, i dont like you anymore
PS no malice intended to death of a planet... he is my friend
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POPO
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Jun 28 @ 2:38PM
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so i see you are no better than this spanish speaking ass!
Tu Querieres.... Aye Dios Mio..Que Pasa Aqui? oh by the way it's not mi culo that speaks spanish loca, es mi la boca..
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Angel178
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Jun 28 @ 2:43PM
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Too late dizzy...he kicked you to the curb
He is all mine now!
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POPO
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Jun 28 @ 2:45PM
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i got Angels number, i stole it from you cell phone before i threw it down the toilet, dont you remember?
you can throw my phone down the toilet, but not all those memories we made when the light were turned low....ju remember now? 
but no no......lenne tell ju sunting...That's my spanish accent, for those following along....lol
anyway you'll be back...and you know will... I leave the light on..
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Angel178
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Jun 28 @ 2:49PM
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I leave the light on..
Fine you SOB....you have ignored my last few posts of undying love for you...
I can't go on like this anymore...my heart is breaking and I'll never find another like you. Good luck to you and dizzy. I'll suffer for all eternity.
Hey Cookie....how u doin? 
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ragtopcookie
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Jun 28 @ 2:51PM
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A changing of sides.......a betrail......and zoro takes off his mask and exposes himself in this triangle of lust........will the third in this party of love come to her sences.......or will she be left out in the cold..........
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POPO
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Jun 28 @ 2:52PM
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You cannot treat dizzy like that you cad
She and I are both leaving ju!
We have other men to stalk...it's not just all about you!
Go play, you'll both be back... mean while Papi es aqui..
See I told you....
Aww, sorry dizzy...I can't help myself when he speaks to me like that....I don't even care what he says
Ok baby...lets dump this dizzy chick.....call me!
Aye Chulita, Mi Amor...Yo de Amo por vida..
psssssssst Cookie you catchin this? I told you Bro, I got this under control..... I should write a book...
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LJRite
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Jun 28 @ 2:58PM
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That's when the damage starts becoming more then anyone should be put through, then it's time to walk away, even if it means breaking your own heart.
so does that mean one cant ever trust anyone again? I mean life goes on and yea, but when behind a screen who is to say that 10k screen names isnt the same person? believe me, I have experienced it and after a while you just know by the way a person writes or talks that is them.....
and WOW, you are LOVED and being fought over..good for you
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POPO
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Jun 28 @ 2:59PM
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Fine you SOB....you have ignored my last few posts of undying love for you...
I can't go on like this anymore...my heart is breaking and I'll never find another like you. Good luck to you and dizzy. I'll suffer for all eternity.
Angel baby....what are you sayin? you don't mean it.. calm down and come here....closer.....a lil closer....don't play hard to get with me...jus a lil closer.... lil more...oooooh just like that there...now call me? Holla atcha Latin lover..
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dizzydoll
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Jun 28 @ 3:04PM
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now i am confused , i dont know what i want anymore.... let me think in silence please...... shhhhhhhhhhh, i cant think
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ragtopcookie
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Jun 28 @ 3:05PM
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Yet a third enters in turning the triangle into a square of lust and sexual desire......what will our hero do now.........maybe making that saying...three is a charm.....a reality?.........i hope hes been taking his vitamin E........this story is taking on an R rating fast.....kids...please leave the room now.........its about to heat up fast.......
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dizzydoll
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Jun 28 @ 3:07PM
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and WOW, you are LOVED and being fought over..good for you
nope, not true doll....... you can have his ass with pleasure!!!!
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dizzydoll
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Jun 28 @ 3:09PM
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Hey Cookie....how u doin?
Angel, leave Cookie alone.......HE IS MY FRIEND
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POPO
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Jun 28 @ 3:12PM
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so does that mean one cant ever trust anyone again? I mean life goes on and yea, but when behind a screen who is to say that 10k screen names isnt the same person? believe me, I have experienced it and after a while you just know by the way a person writes or talks that is them.....
Absolutely not...Trust, but just take your time, trust is something we earn, it's not a given, nor is Love..Don't ever make the mistake so many do, and that's take a past relationship into the new one, each relationship neees to stand on it's own merits, what someone did to you a week month or a tear ago has nothing to do with the new person, they have committed no crime. Baggage is for flying, not carring into a new relationship, we all have a story, I just don't want to be accused of living another man's story, when i'm not him, you know what I mean?
You may be right as far as some of the names, we all have a certain cyber DNA, anyone who reads me knows exactly who I am, no matter what name I would use. I wrote about cyber DNA one time it's very real..so yes becareful.
and WOW, you are LOVED and being fought over..good for you
These are two very wonderful women whom I adore and we play some times, and right now they are trying to give me a hard time...but I'm on to them...
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Angel178
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Jun 28 @ 3:14PM
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pffft...whatever dizzy lizzy...
I'll leave cookie alone....there are others  I'm a professional stalker
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Angel178
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Jun 28 @ 3:15PM
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I'm sorry lj...we were just playing with him
Kind of a cat smacking a little mouse around
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POPO
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Jun 28 @ 3:20PM
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now i am confused , i dont know what i want anymore.... let me think in silence please...... shhhhhhhhhhh, i cant think
you told me you worked well under pressure? what happen..
Angel, leave Cookie alone.......HE IS MY FRIEND
Dizzy...Cookie is working on a story right now, you can't talk to a man when he's doing a play by play... you better leave Cookie alone, he's working on our story for cryin out loud and he's doing a great job of it I might add.. 
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LJRite
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Jun 28 @ 3:27PM
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I just don't want to be accused of living another man's story, when i'm not him, you know what I mean?
I completely understand that and can def be accused of carrying crap and having a bitter taste for some things men do and women as well in relationships, and it doesnt mean in romantic ways either, even in friendships but that is what makes us who we are as individuals, isnt it? And why others either loves us or hate us......
Cyber DNA, that is an interesting way to put it.......
I see you have wonderful relationships on here and that is good...
Angel, no need for sorry with me I enjoy the banter and reading, find it amusing
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dizzydoll
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Jun 28 @ 3:27PM
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this is so much fun, but i must bow out..........till tomorrow, got to get this nose back into these books. i shouldnt even be here.
Angel, please be a sweetheart and look after POPO... make sure he doesnt try to come onto LJRite or any other MD lady on this site... i trust you
goodnite
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ragtopcookie
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Jun 28 @ 3:28PM
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And with that comment cookie turns in his hat as the storyteller......got to go and start the grill for our cook out......but i will say one thing......its been a blast watching this play happen.....i couldnt write a better one myself..... ....two thumbs up my friends......cookie
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Angel178
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Jun 28 @ 3:30PM
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You got it dizzy
Hee Hee Hee...she trusts me
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POPO
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Jun 28 @ 4:03PM
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I completely understand that and can def be accused of carrying crap and having a bitter taste for some things men do and women as well in relationships, and it doesnt mean in romantic ways either, even in friendships but that is what makes us who we are as individuals, isnt it? And why others either loves us or hate us......
The romantic aspects were greatful for...lol it's the other things that can tax and push two people to the limit. I have had to say a time or too, I'm sorry he did what he did to you, but I'm not him. I have never done you that way.. I don't compare you why are you comparing me? that ain't right?
Cyber DNA, that is an interesting way to put it....... that's exactly what it is...it's like a finger print.
I see you have wonderful relationships on here and that is good...
They love me even if they don't know it yet..
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musicianfriend
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Jun 28 @ 4:32PM
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OMG!!!!
This is the funniest blog ever!!!
I have been freaking cracking up!
Thank you to the actor...  It was impressive how you handled those two babes....You posess such incredible negotiation skills...
Thank you to the actress's...Women!...you just cant trust them, even your best friend, when a sexy man is involved!
Thank you to the storyteller! You narrating skills are beyond brilliant!
We will be anxiously awaiting your next play !
P.S....Guess what girls....hes mine! I saw him first....
Weve been talking on the phone now for months .. We talk all the time..late at night..his sexy Latin lover talk..ooohhhh so sexy!.
Oh ...by the way...has he layed his English accent on you yet...Or perhaps his 'Hillbilly' Bob accent? HHHmmm???
Check it out...P P is a very talented man..
Hes just playing with you...Hes not serious about you...especialy after seeing you two sneak behind each others backs...
Hes mine!!!!!
Hey Cookie.......lure those hussies away for me...ok?
HHmmm hes kinda cute too.
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LJRite
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Jun 28 @ 4:42PM
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You are right, it isnt the "new" persons doing but I guess some people has been betrayed, mislead, left or cheated on so many times they no longer trust anyone or they trust to much and get duped anyway. I really dont know the answer, I know me and how I feel and what ticks me off about relationships and know that I can def be a pc of work...maybe that is why I am still so single..LOL
I think it is very hard not to carry some exp from past relations into new ones whether it be used in a negative or positive, in new relationships people tend to get to one another by talking of the past in which can mean good or bad relationships they have had, now it is not to say later in that same relationship that same info doesnt get used or "thrown in someones face" but hey, that is just what some do.
I am glad you are loved
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Angel178
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Jun 28 @ 5:45PM
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Look muscian ....he is not all yours...
You have to fight dizzy and I for him.....
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musicianfriend
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Jun 28 @ 5:57PM
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I dont know if I can do that Angel...
Im from the south..and when he talks to me with that Hillbilly accent....wow..I just melt...
I guess I'd better start lifting weights and do some jogging if I have to fight...
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Angel178
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Jun 28 @ 6:24PM
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Awww forget it music...you can have him
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musicianfriend
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Jun 28 @ 7:01PM
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Ok...thanks Angel!
Now that just leaves Dizzy .....
Is she taller than me?
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leprichaun_magic
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Jun 28 @ 7:08PM
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..**Time ..OUT** the Bell--------------rang!!................... 
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edthepoet
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Jun 28 @ 8:26PM
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Great blog, very very clever.
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POPO
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Jun 28 @ 10:42PM
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P.S....Guess what girls....hes mine! I saw him first.... Weve been talking on the phone now for months .. We talk all the time..late at night..his sexy Latin lover talk..ooohhhh so sexy!. Oh ...by the way...has he layed his English accent on you yet...Or perhaps his 'Hillbilly' Bob accent? HHHmmm??? Check it out...P P is a very talented man.. Hes just playing with you...Hes not serious about you...especialy after seeing you two sneak behind each others backs... Hes mine!!!!! Hey Cookie.......lure those hussies away for me...ok? HHmmm hes kinda cute too.
Okay calm down Girls....we can work through this.. first of all... Can we all just getta long.. work with me now..  Cookie is my witness, I have tried so hard to be good, even when I'm bad I'm good.. But seriously, I have been kicked to the curb on this blog so many times, I think I almost got ran over once..okay it was a close call..that's how many times I was curb side.. and every time when I tried to walk away....they pulled me back in...
Sure this maybe funny to some...be do you realize how hard it is to be me? it's not easy I tell ya.. it's a jungle out there.. I refuse to be passed around like a piece of Prime Rib... well lemme re-phrase that...If it's for the good of all women, then who am I to deny you me... Hey it's what I do...I'm a giver...
here's the plan i'll be a.....
A English bloke for Dizzy, she rather fancies that you know..
A Redneck for MF...Come on Girl u kno u wanna, u aint foolin me non...
A latin Lover for Angel...Como Estas Chulita..yo de Amo Por Vida Mi Amor.
Now when I talk to each one in their assigned voice...it ain't cheatin..
You see how Popo's mind is always working to solve problems.... schitt I wish I would have thought about this when I was young...I could have been working all the angles, shoot I could have date three at once and even if they knew each other they wouldn't figure that out.. we didn't have cam phones in those days, what am I sayin, we didn't have cell phones..
Anyway....ladies Thanx for the fun and laughs, MD is truly blessed to have you here.. 
A special shout out to Cookie for narrating and callling the play by plays.. you da Man ....Stud!
and to all... for your thoughts and contributions...to Headgames, that nearly became Dating games...
P P
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POPO
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Jun 29 @ 9:22AM
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You are right, it isnt the "new" persons doing but I guess some people has been betrayed, mislead, left or cheated on so many times they no longer trust anyone or they trust to much and get duped anyway. I really dont know the answer, I know me and how I feel and what ticks me off about relationships and know that I can def be a pc of work...maybe that is why I am still so single..LOL
Rebound love can sometimes be a factor, when people are going through a break up and someone comes along to help lift up their courage/self esteem or even be a kind ear who listens, can often be confused as a new love or someone who understands. Sometimes people can mislead themselves, by thinking this new person is their answer, There's an old saying that goes like this...The best way to over someone is to get under someone.. sadly it doesn't last and only serves as a bandaid, taking a break and making sure you get someone out of your system is the only way, I personally have found that truly works. We all need a mourning process, a time for bereaving the loss. it's the death of a relationship.
I think it is very hard not to carry some exp from past relations into new ones whether it be used in a negative or positive, in new relationships people tend to get to one another by talking of the past in which can mean good or bad relationships they have had, now it is not to say later in that same relationship that same info doesnt get used or "thrown in someones face" but hey, that is just what some do.
Carring the experience into another relationship is a good thing, carring the baggage into that relationship is not a good thing. I agree we bond with someone new by learning of their story, especially if we sympathize or can relate to it. Far to often we fail to set the ground rules of what we expect from a future relationship, meaning....before feelings develope, we talk about all the do's and don'ts, the wills and won'ts of what we find important, along with what will make us stay and what will cause us to walk away, then it's much easier to give a friendly reminder, letting them know we talked about this and you know how I feel, and be prepared to be firm about it.
Far to often we expect other people to just know what it takes to make a relationship work, the do's and don'ts and so on... It's easier to talk to someone as a friend, before it's a relationship, which is why taking your time is key, and not allowing it to move to fast..Take time to know each other, the flags and the good will surface over time, you can then decide with your mind not your heart. Atleast that's how my simple mind works..
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mystery2u888
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Jul 2 @ 2:03AM
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Very nice blog indeed
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POPO
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Jul 2 @ 9:11AM
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Mystery,
Thank you for reading and the compliment..
Popo
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