First, you must understand the difference between come and cum,lol
If your trying to make a women come closer to you and I mean in a relationship way.
You need to make them feel totally comfortable, with humor, great conversations, being honest, expressing your your thoughts and listen to her with sincerity, be openminded, don't hold your your past baggage like a badge of honor, don't constantly talk about her looks, spray compliment like perfume,lightly.
Take the time to actually learn her, but not just in one e-mail,phone call or first meeting, rather by listen to her and sharing your mind with her, so that there can be a beautiful meeting of the minds.
Think about it, 95% of the time, you not having sex with your love one, so you better truly enjoy this 95% part a lot.
Let thing flow naturally, rather then force them. Inspire her with your personality and allow her to inspire you as well.
It's not that women don't love sex, I can assure they do, big time.
Just make them feel adored,loved admired and comfortable and they will come closer to you sensually and in all ways beautiful, mind, heart and soul.
I may be wrong here, but it's how I see things.
P.S, Nothing I wrote here is anything special, it should be the norm.
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Naraku
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Jul 1 @ 9:44AM
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The human "meat bag" rots. One must look beyond the flesh to have an actual relationship. In 10 years neither person will look the same, In almost all cases, look worse form wear and tear. Unless you have millions of dollars for plastic surgery and a personal trainer. Without getting to know a person in the beginning, one cannot build anything solid. The time taking to do that brings each other closer to the other person. Just being yourself around them is the best way. That way, if they arent compatible, they can go their seperate ways before any major damage is done. A relationship based soley on attraction is doomed to fail.
I'm not doctor Phil, but ive watched people like him on TV. 
*bows*
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dizzydoll
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Jul 1 @ 10:14AM
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jcarolina
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Jul 1 @ 10:18AM
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I was chatting with a lady here, I asked her what activities she enjoys the most. She replied "Wow, no one has asked me what I like to do in so long, I'm not sure how to answer. I usually just go with the flow and don't ask questions".
How sad. I say stop being a cro-magnon control freak and treat your lady like you treat your male friends, who won't bow down to your bull****.
And hopefully you don't hug and smooch your guy friends.
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Fayvorite
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Jul 1 @ 12:06PM
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My experiences haven't been too pleasant just meeting some for coffee. I walked away knowing an awful lot about the men that met me, yet didn't get a chance to share much about myself. I heard too much flattery (all except the first one I met who is still my friend), heard about all that they wanted in their future and in their relationship, heard some of their past, their wants, their wishes, desires and why they are so ready to have that fulfilled.
Mostly I wished I had a stiff drink instead of coffee but I leave being a bit glad I didn't get to reveal to much about myself because now they will never know. I leave knowing I won't look back.
Wish more men in my area read your blog.
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Josuha
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Jul 1 @ 12:33PM
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I never had a problem getting a woman to 'come'.
It's getting rid of them that gets sticky.
Buy a dog..it's safer.
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john49887
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Jul 1 @ 12:41PM
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How to make a woman come Jewelery? 
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CHARLIgurl1
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Jul 1 @ 1:46PM
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Just make them feel adored,loved admired and comfortable and they will come closer to you sensually and in all ways beautiful, mind, heart and soul.
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misschoos
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Jul 1 @ 1:46PM
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Ed, my memory serves me badly, but I'm not a goldfish.
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ladyvampire
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Jul 1 @ 3:37PM
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Hi Ed,
Of all the years you and I have been on md, the thing I regret most is not meeting you. If more men shared the way you think, there would be a lot of happy women in this world. Good two sided conversation is a good way to get a woman interested. And showing that you are interested in her, and not what is between the legs, go so very much further than just sex.
Add consderation to the mix, (calling if you are going to be late, etc.) and that would be the start of a long lasting relationship. I have seen couples that have been together for more than 40 years act like they are still honeymooners... and then couples at each others throat, and they had only been together for about 7 years. Its all in the communication and consideration, that makes a relationship great or as some would say perfect. With the two above, you have less arguing, less worry and frustration, etc. Most men should think about this before putting their foot in their mouth. Obviously they haven't learned the way you have Ed!
Great blog and kudos to you!     
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ragtopcookie
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Jul 1 @ 5:28PM
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A few years ago.....i was dating a woman and we got along great.....so i ened up moving her in with me and the kids......with the thought...that if it worked out...that i would most likely marry her one day......three months of bliss.......and then she got into it with my daughter......refused to work something out......and then...it just got worse......got to the point where i hated to see her come home at nite......so after about 8 months ...she gave me a choice......her or my kids......guess which choice i made.......so i guess the point im making here is.....its easy to get them to come......but damn hard to get them to leave......case in point......  ...cookie
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butterfly943
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Jul 1 @ 11:43PM
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HopelesslyHopeful
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Jul 12 @ 6:59AM
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don't constantly talk about her looks, spray compliment like perfume,lightly.
Absolutely! Constant remarks about eyes, lips, smile, laugh, or - heaven forbid - legs, breasts, buttocks and/or what you'd like to do with them, do NOT equal conversation and they are not flattering. It's insulting!
Plus, quite frankly, if we don't know who you are, if you can be at all trusted not to try wearing us as a skin suit later, why would we care?
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