This might be just me but i think i may be going crazy  But I have this fear of being alone! and I don't like it at all Do you think im loseing it? maybe I am but i have had this for a while now, its just not a good thing to have
Oh well
Jason
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Bdragon477
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Jul 1 @ 10:38PM
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we all have that fear.Even people who want to be alone.
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hpylady_
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Jul 1 @ 10:38PM
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hmmmm let's see .. what are you afraid of .. the peace and quiet or being able to make as much noise as you want and not bother anybody or not having to share the remote or knowing everytime the phone rings it's gonna be for you.
This is the first time I've been alone .. it's liberating .. course I was raised an only child so maybe that is what I've been wanting all these years ..my own space. 
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butterfly943
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Jul 1 @ 11:20PM
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A lot of people are scared of being alone for many reasons...I love being alone I guess because I hardly ever am 
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ceecee1952
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Jul 2 @ 12:39AM
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sounds pretty human to me
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mystery2u888
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Jul 2 @ 12:41AM
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 hmmm......I think alot of people have that fear......at one time or another......I am not worried.......you have many friends...... and it helps alot 
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Herodotus
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Jul 2 @ 12:51AM
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There are a lot of people on here, wo are either like that or experienced similar fears but some instead of doing something about it and discussing it with others, as you have done, they externalise, the fear and turn or reflect their anxieties and psychoses outwards on to others.
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mystery2u888
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Jul 2 @ 2:15AM
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100th blog there 
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musicianfriend
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Jul 2 @ 2:17AM
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I find that the times in my life when I am alone..I grow spiritually and mature ....no distractions..a time to get to know yourself without other influences...
Its a good thing..for a time..
Embrace it...use it...because it wont last forever ....
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ragtopcookie
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Jul 2 @ 2:29AM
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Years ago.....when i was going thru divorce.....i was told lonleyness was just another way to drive yourself nuts....dont allow it to creep in on you.....or to take over your thinking.....because it will and thats when mistakes happen.....tring to fill that void with somebody rather than finding something to do and keeping yourself busy.....once you understand this simple fact.....its easy to side step this silly emotion......  .....cookie
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CHARLIgurl1
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Jul 2 @ 7:41AM
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All you have to think of Jason, is that sometimes people would do anything to be alone!.. strange isnt it.
The grass is always greener on the other side as they say.
But dont worry.. its just a feeling.. it will pass.. and when you feel lonely, just go on to the internet.. go on MD and there you are!.. all your friends there ready to see you!!
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luneib
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Jul 2 @ 9:01AM
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No, you're not crazy, when I was in my 20s I had that same fear, I feared not being able to find someone to be with me, that I may never find a husband, I felt my time clock was ticking and I was just 26 years of age. Go figure.  When I moved to my condo 4 years ago I was alone and yes, I had that same fear again of being alone. The thing is, you don't need to have the fear, you just have to accept you are alone and love yourself. When you love yourself and say to yourself, "I'm OK", I'm happy with whom I am, I have freedom to do all kinds of things, there is no one to hold me back, well...you get the idea, then you will be alot happier and not have the fear so much. I got to that point as I was living alone in the condo. Once you can accept the situation, then you can forget about being by yourself, you will feel much better. I am more of the independent type so I guess I could handle it. Also, if you feel that alone, you could always buy a cat, they are great company.
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dogtrainer4
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Jul 2 @ 9:25AM
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If you feel alone, you need to get out of the house. Go out meet people, they will not come to you. You have to find them. Stay away so long that you are very tired and need to rest. Then , being home alone won't be so bad. Don't just sit there DO SOMETHING ! K 
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sybnann
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Jul 2 @ 9:56AM
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I think as someone mentioned, we all have that fear from time to time in our lives, but you are way to young, in my opinion, to have it begin already. Many people your age are just finding someone, so please don't worry.
With as good of a heart as you have, I am sure Ms. Right will wander through your life at some point. The key is to one~ don't be so hung up on the "whens and hows" and two~ to get out there and be visible, for Her to find You.
Good Luck my dear friend! 
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Sassybird
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Jul 2 @ 12:06PM
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That is very normal. I am an only child so know what it's like to not have people there all the time. Also when I was in my 20s I had the fear of growing old alone but now sorta like it. You can do what feel like it without having to explain to someone why. :)
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leprichaun_magic
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Jul 2 @ 5:53PM
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ah you re only human .. humans can get lonely :)... 
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