Take control?.. we’ve always had it.
People whine and moan about stuff, all kinds of stuff, TV programs, politics, people, blogs and life in general, complaining like they never had control of whatever it was that had upset them.
Don’t like the TV program? =change the channel.
Need to lose weight?=go on a diet
Don’t like a blog?=don’t comment.
Don’t like the food in a certain establishment?=Don’t go back
Don’t know stuff?=research, ask.
We have control of everything in our lives, if we just act upon it.
To sit and do nothing about all the negative things in our lives, things we hate or dislike or just merely disapprove of, can be changed with a decision to act.
We never lost control of our lives, we’ve always had it, its just that sometimes we are swept along by life itself, outside influences and distractions.
For to be true to ones self,….
To truly hold what we believe in is right..
To hold out ones hand to others and search for knowledge,..
To never dismiss another idea, because that would mean stagnating mentally,….
To always search for the truth, the good and peace of mind…
To ignore the poison,… and accept the clean honest goodness of mankind…
To strive for the best in us, to be all what we can truly be…
The triumph in knowing that we have strived, we have challenged bad over good…
For there are no them and us in anything….
We are all together in this world…
But it’s the ones that act… the ones that strive, the ones that are true to their own beliefs that make a difference to themselves and everyone around them….
To do nothing about anything, leaves us in the same state we were in the first place…
To change wrong to right, calm where there was chaos, happiness where there was discontent..
We don’t need to search for control in our lives..…................
..............................................................................because we’ve always had it.
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Tanikogirl
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Jul 4 @ 4:31PM
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Oh so true,makes you stop and think! thank you for sharing  
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luneib
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Jul 4 @ 4:38PM
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You are right, we have control over our lives, we just have to take that control and change the way our lives are.
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gunn12fan
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Jul 4 @ 4:45PM
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hear hear Awsome blog! I have done enough griping and complaining i reckon i could stand to change things
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legacy1
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Jul 4 @ 4:55PM
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Damn...I wish I would have read this blog before I gorged on 4th of July goodies..brats, chicken, hamburgers, potato salad.....double damn!   
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ceecee1952
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Jul 4 @ 5:05PM
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alrighty then...
onward and outward
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dizzydoll
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Jul 4 @ 5:14PM
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To do nothing about anything, leaves us in the same state we were in the first place…
exactly
enjoy ya day doll
here, have some buzy lizzies
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leprichaun_magic
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Jul 4 @ 6:17PM
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..we just need Harmony 
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Borty
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Jul 4 @ 7:43PM
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I like this blog because it demonstrates that we do have choices and those choices determine our well being.and those around us. Thanks for stepping up to the plate Charligurll....
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misschoos
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Jul 5 @ 3:26AM
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Laughing at the ones who do nothing, yet make an issue over it.
~*~
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imlost2
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Jul 5 @ 11:28AM
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Yup, if you are sitting there with an empty cup, fill it. Just don't sit there, everyone has more power than they know if they only try, it's the not trying that is the problem. Great blog as usual Charli.  Have a great day Lost
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summerbreeze916
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Jul 5 @ 2:34PM
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Fantastic write, CHARLIgurl!
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mystery2u888
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Jul 10 @ 3:10AM
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little words so true to be..............just mind over matter and absolutely take control..........and go forward..........
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trickydick55
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Jul 25 @ 9:15AM
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add to that even if you can't do anything else, you can smile and make a difference with that. I woke up this morning and first thing I did was smile, at another day, and it made a difference to me................you've got a kind spirit about you charli
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