So many people I see, being horrid, cruel and demeaning, is it really necessary? No, of course not, and all the while, they forget to stop and ask themselves.. IF……
If the spiteful words I have spoken were said to me, would I be hurt?
If the unkindness I have strewn around was directed at me, would I feel it was unjust?
If the unforgiving way I deal with others mistakes, would I want my own to be forgiven?
If the nasty mail I sent was sent to me, would I feel it was rude and unnecessary?
If the unkind comment I left on a picture was left on mine, would my feelings be hurt?
If the way I treat others as if they had no rights to think differently from me, would I want my own right to my opinion too?
If I have been unfairly judgmental, would I myself wish to be judged?
A home, a community, the world itself, is made up of people from all walks of life, all of us living and surviving the best way we can…
And not one person leaving legalities aside, has the right over another to condemn or judge.
Let he who is without sin cast the first stone.
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BionicCouple
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Jul 6 @ 2:15PM
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Well said, gf ... the trouble is these people just DON'T think at all. They forget most of the people on here are actually real, not just pictures in boxes.
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john49887
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Jul 6 @ 2:21PM
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Redwicket
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Jul 6 @ 2:27PM
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I think it's time to start thinking in terms of solutions instead of pointing fingers and casting blame. There has been more than enough of that, and it only has a negative effect.
Of course if negative people watched "What the Bleep" they would realize that the more they think negatively and react negatively...Guess what, their Brain gets Hard Wired to respond in that manner to EVERYTHING.
Not Only that, but their body cells are bombarded with bio-chemicals when they have these feelings...Eventually after dividing so many times their cells can only accept these chemicals and may not even be able to take in nutrition...In Other words They are Killing themselves basically.
True Story 
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dizzydoll
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Jul 6 @ 2:40PM
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yup, i must take yours and Redwicket's advice.... i find i react to nastiness and that makes me no better than those who spew this vile nonsense... i must learn to back off and leave them to their own devices.
excellent blog as usual doll
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IB4U
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Jul 6 @ 3:20PM
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Reminds me of that old saying :
"One should put mind in gear before putting mouth in motion"
Just saying 
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leprichaun_magic
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Jul 6 @ 4:22PM
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yes think before you act:) true 
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HUGS4UANDME
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Jul 6 @ 4:56PM
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my mom always said .."if you cant say nothing nice dont say nothing at all...........good blog g/f ..thanks 
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imlost2
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Jul 6 @ 5:52PM
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You know what I find amazing Charli, is everyone thinks this blog "isn't" about them. Now I'm not exactly pointing fingers here, "but" one must re-read their comments sometimes "BEFORE" posting and see if they are trying to steal someone's joy. If they are being rude and hurting someone's feelings and trying to steal their joy, then maybe don't post the comment. I love a good debate, and picking on a politician or someone like that doesn't count in my book, but being insulting and personal does count. So people please think before posting, we all live on Matchdoctor together here, so lets be thoughtful. Take care Lost
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butterfly943
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Jul 6 @ 6:09PM
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I was always taught to sweep the dirt away from your own front door before sweeping some else's good blog
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edthepoet
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Jul 6 @ 8:10PM
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people who do these things you mention, never give a crap about if because they are about who cares.
Only the good people actually ever care, ironically they are the one's who would worry about the If's.
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ElmerFudd445
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Jul 6 @ 8:36PM
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well said
Now... where's my rock!
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misschoos
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Jul 7 @ 3:48PM
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I waited 24 hours to say 'Thank you for being my friend.'
See you soon. X
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