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Well i have come to a simple conclusion, it is fairly obvious really. The people who are the real fakes are the very ones who accuse others of being a fake. It takes one to recognize one, dont you think? It just dawned on me now, i just hadnt realized it before. Only people with self esteem issues, those who are threatened by someone else or who need to take the focus off themselves would have any reason to classify others as a fake. 
When i first signed up on MD, i was accused of being a fake  This puzzled me as i had never been accused of this before, but then i had only used the internet for emailing prior to signing up on this dating site. I loaded 4 photos, people analyzed and scrutinized them as well as my profile. I was told i was a fake. I was also told my photos were all over the net. I suppose this could have been true because i did stupidly email copies of my photos to some guys when i first signed up here.
And even if my photos are all over the net... i dont care as i told those who attempted to unsettle me with this news. In fact i recall informing them i was flattered. All this was annoying so for a while i deleted all my photos and reduced my profile to mere skeleton because i was sick of all the accusations. Just recently i added one photo... since then only one idiot told me he thought i was fake 
Anyway, i see the gossip continues... fake? or not fake? that was the question. All the while i am thinking, this is such an oddity. Again, this is the only place i have heard this nonsense. So let me reiterate, it takes one to recognize one... Finally i know who all the fakes are. Its YOU, the very people who accuse others of being fake . It should have it me like a ton of bricks before now, but i had forgotten all about this BS until it reared its ugly head again today when a friend (Lucy) was accused of the same.
A piece of advice: To all those fakes, DO NOT judge others by your own standards. You have unwittingly exposed yourselves, and for this i am truly grateful. Some of your profiles are definitely fake, you know who you are... tell me, where do you live? Is it Antarctica, or the UK, or perhaps the Virgin Islands? ...oh yea, i know who is fake. Just remember we are all as different as our thumb print, and there will always be those greater or lesser than yourselves... just accept it  .
And before you shoot your mouths off so quickly in future... remember this, it takes one to recognize one
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gettingahead
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Jul 11 @ 9:56PM
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Well, I know i'm the real deal...although i have never been accused of being fake.
I agree with you on everything you said. High five.
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Redwicket
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Jul 11 @ 10:12PM
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You a Fake Doll Never in a Million Years!
Kudos for Being Real... 
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Borty
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Jul 11 @ 10:16PM
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I was accused of being a Flake...which is partly true due to the dandruff I had when I had hair.
Actually I just a little old guy in a one bedroom apartment constantly looking for his dentures...found them in the fridge once.
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Death_Of_A_Planet
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Jul 11 @ 10:17PM
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We're all fake...this is all just a dream...we're not really here. We never were. We cannot be. Where is here? What is this place? Have any of us ever touched this "here"?
George Carlin summed it up best. "There is no now..."
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Naraku
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Jul 11 @ 10:18PM
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This name is a "fake" one. I chose it after something happened to me and to deal with it, I created another me. Granted my cynicism and contempt is the same as my "real" profile. I just needed to do this for my own sanity. Go figure huh? Sanity through insanity, I should write a book.
"but the hill that we climbed were just seasons out of time" Terry Jacks
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Redwicket
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Jul 11 @ 10:28PM
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Oh Borty...Now I have to adjust my mind's eye whenever I envision you prancing around your kitchen in those frilly red panties... 
Mr Planet...What the bleep do we Know...There is no out there, out there Do you know the movie?
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stark_raving_sane
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Jul 11 @ 10:40PM
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At the risk of sounding like a "bubble burster", I have to disagree...
I'm a somewhat introverted person usually, but I'm completely genuine, and I've earned every last bit of my cynicism! How? By encountering "fake" people - both online and in 3D. In some cases, I've been involved quite deeply before seeing the reality of the forest through the trees.
Sometimes it's easy to recognize fakes simply by having the experience of dealing with them. It doesn't always take one to know one. Sometimes it's easy to recognize them simply by observing patterns and in/consistencies... with or without ever mentioning suspicions.
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missliss78
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Jul 11 @ 10:46PM
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 I respectfully agree to disagree with you on this point.
With regards to the story you've presented here about yourself & your early MD experience....That may well have something to do with some prior issues that occurred & held over here on this site for quite some time.
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ttomtarr
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Jul 11 @ 10:52PM
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I watched the online membership of this site plummet from about 1200 at night to its present 350.
That was done by people insulting each other and imitating a dog eating his own vomit, only to spew it again in another blog or comment.
If you want to continue to enjoy this site, just pass by those who you dislike, and move on. One more big blog war, us against them, and your blogs and comments will be to an empty site.
JUST LET THE DAMN THING GO ! ! !
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sweetxy
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Jul 11 @ 11:01PM
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IF faking doesn't hurt anyone ,if they just fullfill their dreams I don't want to bother them .
I have learned to accept them all , fake or not as long as they can get Md moves and they don't hurt anyone.
when it's time to get to reality , out of this fantasy world you will see who is who who is what and what is who 
What matters to me is I have some very nice and caring girlfriends and some male friends too.they are very nice people and not faking at all from our communication in public and private mails.  heh 
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iglooo101
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Jul 11 @ 11:16PM
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Borty,Actually I just a little old guy in a one bedroom apartment constantly looking for his dentures...found them in the fridge once. 
I did not reach that point
I am always looking for my glasses and sometimes they were there sitting on my face helping me looking for themselves. So, it was like living in a quasi twilight zone.
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lovestobake
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Jul 12 @ 12:15AM
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I don't know or care who is fake or real. Guess I am 15% fake, cause I only show about 85% of me here.
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wstang69
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Jul 12 @ 12:57AM
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Doll, I would have to rub all over your body to tell if you were fake or not ;)
Ok, so I would just enjoy doing it.
I have never been called a fake, either. so, it is puzzling to me
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texasblues
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Jul 12 @ 12:58AM
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If I where fake I would have certainly made up a more interesting person to be I'm more like Borty I fall under the heading of "Flake". I can vouch for you be a real "Doll" 
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ElmerFudd445
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Jul 12 @ 1:10AM
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DD.. to know you is to love you..! 
DO NOT judge others by your own standards
This is all we have to make judgments by. We do judge people by our own perceptions. Our perceptions can only be changed as we get to know people better. Over time, we do learn the "fakes" from those who reveal the truth of who they are.
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ceecee1952
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Jul 12 @ 1:13AM
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real or fake
"are they real or fake?" asked the young man
The voluptuous woman slapped him.
but now the REAL? fakes.
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lucy8
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Jul 12 @ 1:36AM
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http://videos.matchdoctor.com/54827/Your_Morality_is_Not_Real.html
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lucy8
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Jul 12 @ 7:33AM
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If ,eye for eye then head for head and ...............face for face and etc.etc.?
barbarous society.
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dizzydoll
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Jul 12 @ 7:34AM
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 what a pleasant surprise with such thoughtful diverse responses, thank you!
i am loyal to a fault, my friends know this of me!... i guess this is what wars are all about.
at least now i know i can don a black wig and shades as a moonbat, while running the risk of being accused of being a fake .
but there is something, i would like to add....
Where we're all stuck
no, no this is way too easy! ....the magic of life only comes when we step out of that box (filing cabinet) we call our home (mind), to savor our growth in the many special ways.
peace to y'all !
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