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posted 7/31/2009 1:53:21 AM |

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burnslikethesun

I am so used to being a single parent, that dated, but now that I'm engaged, I'm wondering when do i drop the "single parent" term?
i mean whats mind is hers and hers is mine and all, I mean that what a marriage is about isnt it. Sharing and caring and all over it.?
Wooh this is kind of freakin me out.
How do you transform from a single parent to a what the hell do ya call it anyways?

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77starshine	Jul 31 @ 2:14AM
	When you get married. Congratulations, btw!

katydid438	Jul 31 @ 2:49AM
	How do you transform from a single parent to a what the hell do ya call it anyways? ,,,hopefully you will get this figured our BEFORE you get married........things can go for a sh*t after you tie the knot if you don't have this figured out firsrt .....voice of experience

mystery2u888	Jul 31 @ 4:58AM
	I think your just getting alittle cold feet........and it happens to everyone......Burns.......you will do just fine......take your time........don't rush........when you spend enough time as a family which I am sure you do already now............you will not be called a single parent.........you share responsibility .........children are always going to come first and they are going to effect everyone's life.......... I had been in that situation before...........and I was not the one with children.......but.....it never crossed our minds........because I love his kids like they were my own..........they called me mom........long ago .......it was soo sweet......children are precious.......and even though they had a mother.......they wanted to call me mother as well.......which was nice............ You will know just take it day by day you will know

daisy315	Jul 31 @ 6:31AM
	when you are no longer single.. congrats hon !

RainSongSpirit	Jul 31 @ 7:55AM
	it's called "we" you can do it

eastham	Jul 31 @ 9:38AM
	I'm old-fashioned. You are single until you are married. If you are divorced, you are divorced and not "single". If you are dating, unless you have moved in together, you are still single.

Tiramisu4u	Jul 31 @ 10:27AM
	Burns, hun...you call it they way YOU feel !! Shared parenting for now, maybe..then when married>>>HAPPILY MARRIED!!!

MARI372	Jul 31 @ 10:44AM
	As single mother i often thought the samething if was your shoes,but I believe now that you are in a relationship to get marry, she should know that your kids are valuable and she should show you 'her value' to the kids. you will always be daddy but you need to see how she is around to accept your beautiful children as they are.if you see, we will always be single parent, our kids needs to see mom add or dad happy..be careful! they learn a lot from us, in their own eyes and their heart you be the only one matter to them, as to your spouce she will know their part of her to.. is it term work..my point.. we always be mom or dad, drop the world single father as you and sponce will work together as a term...good luck

Loreli	Jul 31 @ 10:58AM
	Married couple with children? Congrats. Don't worry about the name....enjoy the love!

hellosue2009	Jul 31 @ 2:38PM
	You have a few options...I prefer "blended family". CONGRATS on your engagement!

luvshorses644	Jul 31 @ 7:29PM
	Ah, J... you call it.. "loved"... she is "loved" by you.. and you are "loved" by her now and always and after the wedding you call it "home in your arms always"... I wish you only the brightest and happiest future..U-dA-chi

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