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posted 8/13/2009 10:05:37 PM |
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Champions never fight for country boys. I can remember as a young boy trying to tune in the AM radio to hear the really big heavyweight championship bouts. I remember a fellow from my home state being a fighter in those bouts and I recall when my dad stopped liking him when he changed his name. Those fights were for the Las Vegas folks and upper-class people who had access to close circuit TVs. And although it was a given that they would replay those contests on ABC's Wide World of Sports at some point in the future, I eaves dropped through the AM static to hear the contests that were never fought for little country boys and the chants of my fighter's new name.

Boxing was, by far, my favorite sport when I was young. As I grew older, I broadened my interest in the sport by following weight divisions other than heavyweights. I became a fan of a lightweight boxer by the name of Ray “Boom Boom” Mancini. I suppose I identified with Mancini because we were about the same age and both of us were products of the working class. I was 20 and Mancini was 21 when he defended his WBA lightweight title against a South Korean boxer named Duk Koo Kim. It was televised live on CBS and I recall watching the match in its entirety. It was the greatest match I'd ever seen. It was my last week as a boxing fan.

I spent the next couple of days recounting the great match to anyone who would listen. I recalled how surprisingly even the fight was all the way up to the 14th round when referee Richard Green stopped the fight during a Mancini flurry.

It wasn't until the next week that I learned that Duk Koo Kim died four days after the fight from brain injuries. I was done with boxing. I felt complicit and ashamed that I cheered while a man was literally beaten to death. I later learned that Kim's grief-stricken mother committed suicide four months after the fight. Mancini stated he felt responsible for Kim's death and was never the same fighter after that. Richard Green, the referee, also felt responsible for not having stopped the fight sooner. Richard Green committed suicide seven months after the fight.

It's a tragic and extraordinary story. I think about the mother and what she couldn't live without. I think about the referee and what he couldn't live with. But that's where it ends. I get no farther in my thinking.

Moments before the fight began a reporter interviewed Duk Koo Kim in his hotel room. As the reporter was packing up after the interview, he noticed some Korean writing on a lamp shade. He asked Kim what it meant and Kim simply replied “Live or die”. I suppose that's plain enough. Even for a country boy.

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Comments:
missliss78

Aug 13 @ 10:13PM  
I've never been a fan of boxing.

I still enjoyed this blog, though....it's a good'n.
unionman154

Aug 13 @ 10:52PM  
I have always been a big fight fan.

When I was 8 I watched my dad knock a guy out cold with one punch for taking his new car to Chicago for the weekend instead of doing a tune up on it like he was supposed to have...



I got my nose broke in my first fight at the age of 13. Never again, it was time to learn to fight.

I have handed out a few black eyes and bloody noses over the years. I am now retired from the fight game.

I now hand out Peace and Love to all.
lovestobake

Aug 14 @ 12:29AM  
I am no longer a fight fan, but; for a different reason.
ragtopcookie

Aug 14 @ 4:11AM  
I use to be a big fight fan.......then came don king......and the rest is history....... .......cookie
Tunes4u

Aug 14 @ 11:10AM  
I have never been in a real fistfight in my life.

But!

Smoke filled den, and a black and white tv, and the Friday Night Fights.

My Grandfather watched them, and through him I was sweep up in the wonder of it all. I never did understand how they could get punched in the nose. That just seemed awful painful to me.

Ali, Sugar Ray. "Manos de Piedra", Patterson, Hearns, and so many more.

And like Cookie says...along came Don King....

It was an era alright....

~*~
sophie313

Aug 15 @ 2:15AM  
I loved that story the first time you told it. Enjoyed reading almost as much.
ceecee1952

Aug 15 @ 8:16AM  
Boom booms wussy brother was Henri.
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