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posted 8/14/2009 8:00:15 PM |
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By request from two special friends.


She lost her daddy when she was 3 years old so without a
real breadwinner around she had a very hard life growing up
in the twenties and thirties. Her mother did a lot of
sharecropping as she was growing up so she had to help too.

She played basketball in junior high but was a defensive
player as she could not shoot the ball. She was valedictorian
at her 8th grade graduation. When she was going to school 8th
grade was the end of junior high and then some would go on to
high school, some did not. She went to work.

She is not very touchy feely just like her own mother. Instead
the way she really shows her love is to cook for you. You cannot go to her
house without her offering you something to eat. If someone comes
to visit unexpectly she can have a big and varied meal ready to eat
in twenty minutes or so and man can she ever fry a chicken. One of her son
in law's has eaten lunch with her every work day of the week
for 25 years. I have seen her get up from her lunch to make him
an instant cup of coffee and have it ready for him by the time
he finished eating. Now that is some good service.

She had 7 children and one passed away at 6 weeks from
heart problems. This was in 1952 when medicine was not
as advanced. She raised 6 humdingers, three boys and three girls.

Every time there was a grandchild born there she was taking
off from work to help for a few days.

Each time some extended family member was in the hospital she was
the first one there to sit with the sick one. She told me years
later how she hated doing that but she always did it.

She loves working in her yard. I call it a jungle but she
likes it just the way it is. If she had 5 dollars left to last
her until her next Social Security check came in and azaleas
went on sale three for five dollars she would go buy them.


She used a regular push mower to cut her own grass until she started
having heart trouble. She developed a leaking heart valve and she had heart valve repair surgery at 75.
They took her to surgery on Thursday at 11 am and she went home the
following Sunday at 1 pm. Now how in the hell could she do that?

She resumed cutting her own grass after a couple of months with
that same push mower. She stopped cutting
her own grass not because she could not push the mower but because
she could not crank it anymore. Before she quit she would get her son-in-law
to crank it and away she would go.


She lived with the mental and physical abuse her husband dished out for way to
many years. She of course stayed with him because of her children. One day she
had enough and moved out.


She has put up with some children who treat her like crap one
day and are all lovie dovie the next, always forgiving them for their actions
and hoping they will do better. She always asks me if I have heard from
them if she has not.

She is always saying no one ever comes to see her. More like she is forgetting
when they do. One of her granddaughters told me she told her that while she
and her daughter were sitting there with her.


There was times when she worked two jobs to try to keep food
on the table for 6 mouths. She would get in from work after midnight
and then get up early to cook breakfast and get her children off to school. She never
made much money and they were always hard jobs. She suffers now from
bursitus in her hands from some of those jobs. She once went to the doctor and he put
a cortizone shot into her thumb. She felt so much better that she went home and
raked her yard and it started hurting again.


She woke up about three weeks ago and she could not see anything out of
her left eye. The doctors think she had a stroke in it. Some recovery is expected
but they don't think she will ever get her full vision back in that eye. Part of the
investigation into this was more heart tests and a test on the arteries in her
neck. These arteries are of course clear as a bell. Pretty good for a woman that
ate everything cooked with hog lard the first forty years of her life and then
switched to crisco like that was a lot better.

She was using a walker at times because she was so weak. We found the family
doctor was having her take three lasix (fluid) pills a day. After being off them
she is now walking like she did 5 years ago.

She is cooking again so all is right with the world. She has one good eye
left and she intends to use it.

Man I love this 84 year old hard headed woman, my Mama the strongest person I have ever known.

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Comments:
Fender

Aug 14 @ 8:05PM  
Wow, that made my cry, that's beautiful...She is what a strong woman really is about.

RightWingRepublican

Aug 14 @ 8:10PM  


That was lovely.
mystery2u888

Aug 14 @ 8:39PM  
I loved this blog this is soo sweet...............


xoxo
summerbreeze916

Aug 14 @ 8:53PM  
Sniffle.......sniffle. Okay, so you wrote two great blogs in a row, but I'm not telling YOU that. NO WAY!

Funny......my mom was never a touchy, feely person, either. She would always tense up when I gave her my hugs and I love yous on a daily basis, but I gave them anyway. It was really the only way that I knew how to let her know how much I loved her......and how sorry I was for the trouble I knew I'd be into that day.

Your Mama sounds like a real trooper, Jacksonboy. I can honestly say that I wish I had half the strength she does.

Thank you for sharing........
Heart2Heart453

Aug 14 @ 8:59PM  
I think I can safely say...this is one strong lady!
oklacheri

Aug 14 @ 9:21PM  
It's really nice to read that a man appreciates and understands what his mother did for him. You are lucky to have such a dedicated mother and I think she feels the same about you.
silksox

Aug 14 @ 10:28PM  
I truly wonder what the US of A would be like today if we had a few more women like your Mama around. This country could sure use some of her backbone, not to mention her cooking....

Excellent blog J...thanks for helping me to remember..... ...

Silk
MrPaul

Aug 14 @ 11:17PM  
Ok Jackson, Now you have brought tears to my eyes. You also forgot one part . She raised a fantastic, caring compassionate son who's heart is full of love and caries on her tradition of putting others first . God bless your mom and God bless you for being the good man you are . The world needs more people like the two of you . A kudo for your wonderful mom
It takes a Mother's Love
to make a house a home,
A place to be remembered,
no matter where we roam.

It takes a Mother's Patience,
to bring a child up right,
And her Courage and her Cheerfulness
to make a dark day bright.


It takes a Mother's Thoughtfulness
to mend the heart's deep "hurts,"
And her Skill and her Endurance
to mend little socks and shirts.

It takes a Mother's Kindness
to forgive us when we err,
To sympathize in trouble
and bow her head in prayer.

It takes a Mother's Wisdom
to recognize our needs
And to give us reassurance
by her loving words and deeds.

It takes a Mother's Endless Faith,
her Confidence and Trust
To guide us through the pitfalls
of selfishness and lust.

And that is why in all this world
there could not be another
Who could fulfill God's purpose
as completely as a MOTHER!

Helen Steiner Rice

What Is A Mother?

A mother is someone to shelter and guide us,
To love us, whatever we do,
With a warm understanding and infinite patience
And wonderful gentleness, too.
How often a mother means swift reassurance
In soothing our small, childish fears,
How tenderly mothers watch over their children
And treasure them all through the years!
The heart of a mother is full of forgiveness
For any mistake, big or small,
And generous always in helping her family,
Whose needs she has placed above all.
A mother can utter a word of compassion
And make all our cares fall away,
She can brighten a home with the sound of her laughter
And make life delightful and gay.
A mother possesses incredible wisdom
And wonderful insight and skill -
In each human heart is that one special corner
Which only a mother can fill!

By Katherine Nelson Davis


God bless all the wonderful mothers of the world, for putting up with us





butterfly943

Aug 14 @ 11:29PM  
What a beautiful blog about a truly amazing woman I love your Mama too please give her a kiss from a butterfly I see my own Mama in your blog..I do believe we are truly blessed to have our Mamas and she raised a wonderful son Thank you for writing this...tears are on my cheeks but you know what...they are good tears
stickshiftsally

Aug 26 @ 6:21PM  
I loved that blog! You are so blessed to have had her for so long and even more blessed because you realize what a wonderful woman she is.
RainSongSpirit

Aug 26 @ 6:54PM  
beautiful my friend
Dainty

Aug 26 @ 11:44PM  
There's always a great human being inside of ordinary person.
She is the happiest and luckiest person in her own horizon. She doesn't feel pain. She doesn't feel poor. She doesn't feel unloved. She is lucky without feeling and suffering. Let her be her way so she is happy and content in her own way.
cowboy2x4

Oct 4 @ 7:16PM  
awesome writing there dude...plain awesome.
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