A while back there was a big ruckus in the forums that caused a great deal of hurt to a bunch of people...I am not going to say it was all one sided or deny my portion of the blame for how badly it inflamed...I then posted a blog about my feelings etc concerning it and was far from kind ..even to the point of vindictive.. towards other MDers....since then the rift between a dear friend and my self has been mended SpiritOnery /SpiritEnergy ... we both realized after the harsh words and nastiness that NONE of it was necessary... mainly because it was all surrounding a BAD misunderstanding .. both our tempers flared and the FriendSHIP went down in flames.. luckily both of us are stubborn enough to NOT just totally give up on each other... and we found the life rings and floated to a safe harbor to mend fences and renew our friendship... I am just posting this blog to let others know that it is VERY important to get ALL the facts and if you have questions especially concerning a friendship either step back and regroup and talk to the friend about your concerns...or step back and take a look at the situation from an outsiders viewpoint and see your own part in the fiasco .. best thing is to do both ..  And for certain do not just listen to one side or hearsay go to the source!!
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SpiritOrnery
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Aug 20 @ 6:52PM
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  I love you. And thank you for being there for me.... and listening openly. 
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unionman154
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Aug 20 @ 6:56PM
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Most excellent. 
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Jacksonboy
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Aug 20 @ 7:11PM
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Isn't it great that after a missunderstanding that we can work things out.
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whatagal
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Aug 20 @ 7:25PM
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A lot of people THINK they know what the truth is until they are confronted with the truth and find out otherwise. I'm going thru something similiar right now.
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sweet5red
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Aug 20 @ 8:14PM
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jus goes ta show ya kant listen to chit and hearsay.. or you will be knee deep in it..... i loves ya both.......  as billy currington says god is great beer is good and people are crazyyyyyyyyyyy..Sweet N Louisiana
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SpiritOrnery
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Aug 20 @ 8:14PM
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Yeah, we finally figured out we were both mislead. Whether accidentally or not, makes no difference. The pain was there til we examined things we were both scared to talk about til now. I am so glad we finally found where the misunderstanding came from. Outside of us.  Is good now.
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BandTMom
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Aug 20 @ 8:23PM
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Friends do have disagreements but true freinds know how to get past them.
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SpiritOrnery
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Aug 20 @ 10:06PM
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ragtopcookie
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Aug 21 @ 6:34AM
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Im glad to hear you both kissed and made up......are there any pictures of this for you to share for us that really care to see........  ......it does my heart good to see people making up....and not fighting here.....ill be waiting to see those pics...... .....cookie
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dizzydoll
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Aug 21 @ 1:32PM
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redhairNfreckles
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Aug 24 @ 6:26PM
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Just another example of how we all really do like and care for each other here at MD! I came back with a brand new attitude towards the ones that had pissed me off so much before I took my break. I also know the threads that trigger me and basically avoid them. Everyone has their own opinions, might be different from mine, and as far as I'm concerned, it's all good. 
Becks, you are a good person, and I'm happy to consider you one of my friends too! Glad you two patched things up.
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