On Being Judgmental... F.U. posted 8/21/2009 2:02:52 PM | 3 kudos what's this?     report abuse tagged: mad, venting

SpiritOrnery

I realized after getting totally pissed off at someone here that many people here think whenever I say ANYthing negative, it is about ONE person that I was in a relationship with here.

But then, I bet many people just like her ...and him... keeps thinking everything I say here is about him. Those people need to get over that. After all. I have never had a spouse I lived with. So I have had MANY, MANY boyfriends. Not one or two. I only b*tch about the one's I didn't like. I keep getting accused of speaking about him when I am speaking about another ex or an article I have just read or a stupid scammer I have just read from, or something I have been wishing for for 10 or 15 years or scenes I have experienced over the years that I think sucked. Or liked. It's not all bad.

Many of the people in here come from marriages that they were in for 10 years and MORE. Twenty years and more some of them. I have not. I have had many and varied life experiences. I have not raised children. Mine have all had fur. So, please, just because you THINK you know what is in another person's head, you may be terribly wrong.

Give people a break. If you have not had a varied life experience, don't judge by your life and your beliefs. You have a tiny sliver of life experience and it is not anywhere big enough to encompass EVERYONE. I am not going to stop making comments because some of you get your crybaby panties in a big wad. I have been saying the same or similar comments about what I want and don't want, what I like and don't like for way longer than I have even BEEN here and I have been here since 8/8/2006 according to emails I forwarded to my private email. And I have the RIGHT to make those comments.

Let me tell you how long I have been commenting on what I do not want in a sexual relationship. Let me see...I was in my twenties when I had a boyfriend that was on heavy drugs and could not get it up. His name was XXXX. I eventually saw his pic a couple times on a reality cop show. I won't share anymore because I could get killed for it. Literally. He did lots of cocaine and it got limper and limper with every snort yet he was SURE another snort would get it up. Hence my desire for someone that DOES NOT DO DRUGS.

And my desire for a man that can GET IT UP without drugs. Or a man that can GET IT UP WITHOUT HEAD! It was extremely humiliating having to give head endlessly with absolutely nothing in return for me. (It never got up is why! He was so distressed, my needs NEVER entered into the picture.)

The longer men use drugs, the more it affects their sexual potency. ( nicotine is also a drug,.. hello!) I have had many men tell me they saw their potency go down the more they used drugs, cigs and alcohol...and I have seen it as well. HENCE my desire to have a man that does NOT DRINK! Back then I was hot and sexy looking and was very compliant thinking that was what I was supposed to do. So their lack of hard had nothing to do with my looks which is what ONE man told me not all that long ago when HE could not get it up.

Over the years I have seen many men AND women kill their relationships by the way they talked about their mates IN FRONT of them. Which is why I say good things about the man of my choice publically and why I expect the same respect.

But you bad mouth me and say things untrue, by God, I will respond. I used to not and it sickened me which is why I WON'T SUCK UP SOMONE'S BULLsht anymore. I have lived this for many years. So, I make a comment, it is not always someone I was with or even someone I was with recently (say the last ten years or so) I am commenting about AND I HOPE EVERYONE REMEMBERS that. Because I am not going to stop making comments because some puzzy thinks I am talking about them or someone they think they know.

I formed my opinions, needs and desires before I ever arrived here. Get over yourselves, you crybaby, judgmental, narrow minded people.

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