I am or was dating a man for 2 years,,i have recently broken up with him because he wanted me to have sex with another woman for his 50th birthday present..i am not into other women..men please answer why this turns you on..for women..will you do this for your mate?..please let me know!
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BluEyedQT
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Aug 26 @ 7:32PM
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What is scarier to me is that I have had at least 2 girlfriends tell me that their boyfriends wanted us to have a threesome. I'm not interested, never have been and never will be. They knew that and still they "asked". While I am usually fine with "live and let live", the fact that these women even told me, and left it as a possibility while knowing my feelings, made me question their character (and my choice of friends).
Scary.
And guess what? These women are no longer in a relationship with these men. Now what does that tell ya?
Stand your ground OP. Don't regret the loss of a man's inconstant heart if he asks you to go against your conscience.
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RainSongSpirit
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Aug 26 @ 7:46PM
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nope neva eva  such a double standard with guys eh? mention two men and??????? 
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ColdinWisconsin
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Aug 26 @ 7:49PM
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Because women are beautiful naked and men aren't.
They know it.
We know it.
That's why we allow that stupid fantasy. 
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legacy1
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Aug 26 @ 8:59PM
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I think it is the stigma of being such a taboo is what might turn some guys on...it never did anything for me... 
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chevymn
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Aug 26 @ 9:00PM
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Personally I don't like to see two women together. I like my sex like I like my basketball. One on one with as little dribbling as possible.
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POPO
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Aug 26 @ 10:09PM
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Hola JustK........ 
So far from what I can see those who like that sort of freaky behavior are remaining quite..  It blows my mind that any one, who would profess their love to another, could even consider something like this?  To share something this special and personal with a stranger to the relationship, is beyond my thinking.
If I'm in love with a woman, I have zero interest in sharing her or my self with another under any circumstance, In my simple mind making love to the one your with is our way of expressing physically our emotional feelings and validating the love we share for each other, How can this be special when others are invited in the bedroom?  It makes no sense to me.
It's my own opinion when a man or woman have these thoughts and desires, They are not truly in love with the one their with, they may really like them or may even feel they love them, but their not in Love with them. It defies the laws of God and nature. I couldn't even imagine sharing the one I'm in love with, with another male or female, That, I would have to walk away from. That Hat just doesn't Fit my Head. If he truly honored you and respected you he wouldn't even consider something like this, let alone ask you to give your self to another for his entertainment
Just My thoughts
Popo
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LadyJasmine
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Aug 26 @ 10:10PM
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Yep, heard that one a couple of times and I give the same answer...
I ain't into women however if you want to add another guy ... hmmm will think about ... sounds kinda interesting ... 
funny, they seem to drop the subject pretty fast at that point!!! 
*wicked grin* .... I guess that wasn't the answer they were expecting!! 
Seriously, what a turnoff!!! yuck!!
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sloriver
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Aug 26 @ 10:25PM
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Because women are beautiful naked and men aren't.
Look at Michaelangelo's "David" and tell me that. It just depends on what shape the body is in. The human body without the flab and abuse is beautiful. A few years of fast food, drinking, drugs, and tatoos and you can't find beautiful whether it's male or female.
To answer you in a serious way, men are horny. They have the "twin" fantasy. I'm not sure why but there's nothing horribly threatening about two women together. You can't be harmed by that.......but being with another man????? That's threatening!
(not that I have any such fantasies)
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Sternfan69
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Aug 26 @ 11:41PM
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women are absolutly more aesthetically pleasing looking then men naked..but how does that translate into enjoying watching two people of the same sex ,,having sex?
as someone pointed out,,,the thought of two men having sex together is neither a turn-on for straight men or many women(assuming a great percentage,,could be wrong).
apparently,,and i am a guy who pays attention,,, ,,,alot of men are able to fantasize that those two women,,,who are at that moment ,,,,,very much into each other...are somehow just dying for a big strong virile man to give them what they REALLY want...
or perhaps the thought of two women servicing this studly man,,,,boosts his ego and reminds him that he is indeed,,,king of all he survey's...
or maybe dudes are just horny and one woman is never going to be enough to feed the primitive desire to plant his seed in any and all available females till his balls wither up and die...
just a thought:)
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observed50
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Aug 27 @ 1:12AM
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I always thought it was so when he got his nut, and fell asleep...his partner wouldn't be so self-absorbed, wakin him up so SHE can get HER nut. With another woman there...they'll be so concerned with how the other is feeling he can just roll over and go to sleep and let them get their O as they wish.
Now...I might have been wrong...but that is how I always thought it worked?? 
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Tunes4u
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Aug 27 @ 1:56AM
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And somebody making a basket once in a while.. 
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dizzydoll
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Aug 27 @ 2:54AM
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Because women are beautiful naked and men aren't. They know it. We know it. That's why we allow that stupid fantasy.
oh my, this comment made me laugh so loud .... well now that is open to interpretation. I find a male bod simply beautiful, especially when he has nothing more than a collared shirt on 
back to the point, nope... i dont care for two women together... or two men for that matter
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chubs
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Aug 27 @ 3:23AM
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I'm kinda wondering what exactly that cheezehead in here means when she sez "we alllow that fantasy"? 
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cbond35
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Aug 27 @ 8:40AM
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It's a power thing...........A forbidden fruit, if you will. We always want what we can't have or what we have never had. You can't tell me, that as a woman, you have never fantasized about 2 men pleasuring you simultaneously in every way.
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BluEyedQT
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Aug 27 @ 11:10AM
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You can't tell me, that as a woman, you have never fantasized about 2 men pleasuring you simultaneously in every way.
If the pleasuring involved one of them giving me a manicure and the other one giving me a pedicure, then YES!
Otherwise, Fuggetabouddit!
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