Leave them to weep. posted 8/28/2009 1:59:43 PM | 11 kudos what's this?     report abuse tagged: deception, life, lessons, trust

CHARLIgurl1

None of us like players, or people who mess with our lives emotionally, but they exist and all too many.

Heartbreak can come in many forms, not just because someone has left them, but because they have been deceived, lied to, manipulated in to believing something was real when it was not,with fake promises and false hope.

The culprits move in to peoples lives, seemingly offering a world of honesty, gaining trust and devotion from the victims. Victims a too strong a word? I think not.

Because victims are people who have been damaged, willingly and deliberately by the hands of others.

Many of the perpetrators live themselves within a world of their own making, believing that they in fact have been the victims themselves because they were not understood or their actions were misinterpreted.

They become experts at it over time, reenacting the crime scene over and over with new targets who will eventually fall in to their web of deception and heartbreak.

And as each victim adds to their list, they move on to another, leaving behind a sea of tears to which they hold no responsibility for, mainly because of their world of innocence they have created for themselves.

I have known people like this, people who I am glad are no longer in my life.

But I have gained knowledge from knowing such people, I can sense them much quicker now than before, its like most things we don't understand until we experience it ourselves.

These people believe it or not are usually very popular, they entrap trust and liking, so when anyone says a different word about them, their 'fans' will say otherwise, believing in the magician's smoke and mirror tricks. "Not her or him.. no they wouldn't do that!"
And why shouldnt they believe all whats put in front of them.. they are honest people who think that they have had honesty put in front of them too.. sadly.. not.

They come from all walks of life, there is no stereotype.

Trust should be earned and not freely given, just like respect.

But sadly many trust too quickly, and even when they see the signs they often ignore it because they don't wish to see the other side.

But seeing the other side and recognising it quickly can prevent it going in to total melt down.



Make friends, but choose wisely...


Trust.. but only when they have earned it....


Never be afraid to question when things don't sound right....


Show your honesty, but keep your guard....


Dont judge everyone the same...there are good and bad out there...


Be compassionate... for those who deserve your compassion...


and above all...



Look to the people who have left your life, and know that you have left them with good memories.....


and never leave them to weep.

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