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What does it take?

posted 8/30/2009 9:00:36 PM |

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XeroRains

Now, I'm fairly young in terms of a numeric age. In regards this, something I've come to formulate and accept as my generic opinion is that age doesn't reflect on how mature you are, but often how long does it take for you to learn something?

Life seems to be a series of moments. These moments are a string of opportunities. These opportunities are varied on a set of rules that dictate your consequences. I've dated a lot of girls, and have had a handful of series relationships. In the beginning, I'm calm, cool, and collected. These opportunities are seized and advancements are made.

Over time, my barrier seems to break down. Stagnation becomes a direct result of conflicts that find no resolution. So, what does it take from a guy to make a relationship work? Is success in a relationship a direct result of how compatible you are to someone else? What kind of effort is needed, and more importantly, do you exert the effort over time or right from the beginning?

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ColdinWisconsin	Aug 30 @ 9:25PM
	Stagnation becomes a direct result of conflicts that find no resolution. Bang. The kid may just have something here. Well done newbie.

RainSongSpirit	Aug 30 @ 9:41PM
	wise lad you are

ColdinWisconsin	Aug 30 @ 9:42PM
	Fine. Now that you have posted my comment, you get a kudo (also known as the holy grail and a green cookie) Savor it. They are kind of rare.

Fender	Aug 30 @ 9:47PM
	age doesn't reflect on how mature you are, but often how long does it take for you to learn something? Sadly it takes me along time to learn stuff I should already know... Good blog.

XeroRains	Aug 30 @ 10:00PM
	haha. Thanks Meem. And Fender... I think that tends to be most people. For me personally, when I make a mistake, or I find myself in a predicament, I tell myself "This won't happen again" but sometimes it tends to happen anyway as soon as I let my guard down. It's character building. I usually just wait for a moment where I suddenly realize something... I mean really realize, and it just kind of changes everything, or maybe even nothing at all, but I feel better.

Jankia	Aug 30 @ 11:44PM
	So, what does it take from a guy to make a relationship work? Is success in a relationship a direct result of how compatible you are to someone else? What kind of effort is needed, and more importantly, do you exert the effort over time or right from the beginning? To have success in a relationship from the beginning your first effort should be in the love you dont intend to never lose.

XeroRains	Aug 31 @ 12:33AM
	I get that, kind of. But what about rules of datings, and things of that nature? Can it fairly be said that if you lose the girl you never intended to lose that she just wasn't meant for you? Or can a chain of mistakes change everything because you lacked the vision to see clearly?

misschoos	Aug 31 @ 10:37AM
	What's meant to be, is meant to be. ~*~

sybnann	Aug 31 @ 11:31AM
	I agree with mischoos here..... we all make mistakes in a relationship but I believe they were mistakes meant to be made so that we can learn from them, whether the other person remains with us or not. After all, mistakes are made on both sides...

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