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posted 9/3/2009 9:42:04 PM |

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Misfit

Why is it that after years of keeping yourself fit and looking good, the packaging is all that people ever see or want to see. I have not been on this site that long but it seems to me that the men that have contacted me only see the exterior and don't care to explore beyond that. I don't want to be someone's arm candy, I have worked hard to maintain my looks but the person inside likes to be noticed too!
I have a lot of knowledge and many interesting experiences I would love to share with someone that wants to spend the time to get past the exterior and go deeper and find out what type of person I really am.
When they say that they want to webcam I just tell them I don't have one because they just want to see the outside. I wish just once there would be one person that would read my profile and see there is an educated, intelligent person that needs the experience of intelligent conversation and a challenge to learn more!

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Michael194	Sep 3 @ 9:54PM
	You just have'nt me the right yet.

travelwoman	Sep 3 @ 9:59PM
	Why is it that after years of keeping yourself fit and looking good, the packaging is all that people ever see or want to see. I have not been on this site that long but it seems to me that the men that have contacted me only see the exterior and don't care to explore beyond that. (....) I have worked hard to maintain my looks but the person inside likes to be noticed too! I have a lot of knowledge and many interesting experiences I would love to share with someone that wants to spend the time to get past the exterior and go deeper and find out what type of person I really am. You are so right.... And why do you think there are so many women on matchdoctor who write in their profile "only here for the friends and blogland" or something similar.... Yep.... that's why... Good blog .

mikiebigeyes	Sep 3 @ 11:44PM
	Men are "visual" and sexually driven. Women are.......uh....I still don't know.

LipGlossQueen9	Sep 4 @ 12:03AM
	Everyone is visual at first but that's no excuse to not want to know anything besides the surface.

lazareth	Sep 4 @ 12:50AM
	because you only get one chance to make a good first impression

mystery2u888	Sep 4 @ 4:39AM
	A man that is really interested he is going to take the time to get to know you ..........an look beyong the exterior and want to find out who the person is on the interior..... Just take your time......it's when you want to rush things .....is when you end up in a bad situation

AverageJoe	Sep 4 @ 7:21AM
	Perhaps the pictures you have posted are sending the wrong message. You say that you would like to be appreciated for your knowledge and interesting experiences, as you should. However, when you post a picture of your booty wearing a pair of tight red pants some men might get the wrong impression. They might be thinking... "wow, this girl is proud of her assets and wants to show them". I see nothing wrong with the pictures you have posted... but if you want to attract men who will be interested in your mind as well as your body perhaps you should select some more conservative photos. JMHO

msjo62064	Sep 4 @ 7:35AM
	Amen!!!!!!!!!!!!

WhiteRose1952	Sep 4 @ 5:46PM
	What a wonderful Post for a Blog...It's about time that something was written to "WAKE UP THE MEN" and "TAKE NOTICE" in what Women have to effort to them!!! I know for a fact that this Sweet Loving Lady has alot to give and share with the right Man... You know the saying,"Don't judge a book by it's cover"?...Well, Do Not Judge This Lady by Her outward Looks or what She's wearing!!!!!!!! Now about the comment earlier from someone commenting on what She's wearing in Her Photos, Give Me a Break....She has taken PRIDE in deciding what to wear or not to wear and the picks of what She has chosen are wonderful...and geez, Maybe some of the other Women on "MD" might want to think twice on what they have picked out and also some of the Men too... We Need to Look beyond what one is wearing and get over it...Stop judging Us on what We are wearing, that's all She's trying to say and was wanting to know why Men cannot see pass their nose and what We are wearing and that We do have lots to share and give if they would just go beyond and if they are willing and wanting too that is, there's alot of Men out there and on here that just do not want to do that and that's so so sad!!! I have know "Misfit" for 52 years now, She and I were in School together and We were close Friends in School and have continued Our Friendship and it's a tight bond, in fact Our Mother's were Best Friends and "Misfit" and I are Best Bestest Mostest Friends and Our Mother's nicknamed Us "The Bobsey Twins" because We were so bonded and so close...She watches out for Me and I in turn do the same.. What a Wonderful Great Post!!! Keep Posting!!!!! Just wish I could give You a Zillion Kudos, though "MD" only allows Me to give One, darn it!!! Just know if I could I would!!! Hugs and Smiles to Ya, Luvs Your "Sista", Christie aka "WhiteRose1952"

luneib	Sep 4 @ 7:49PM
	I dated a couple of guys like that, they were just after arm candy. One wanted to marry me but I honestly didn't feel he loved ME, I think he was in love with the outside package not the inside, and I felt as 'though I was walking on egg shells around him. He was quite good looking, but I can't even be with a needy guy or one who is into looks despite how good looking he is, no way, so back into the fish pond he went lol. I think the media has alot to do with why men and women go for the outside package first. They are missing out on some really nice people. I hear your frustration, it is frustrating dating, I'm just glad I'm done with all of that. .

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