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posted 9/10/2009 3:23:04 AM |
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  mopar1999

It seems as though once again, I have been stumped by the oposite sex.
Most ladies I have encountered, who where single, and looking to be in a relationship, have always told me, they wish they could find a nice guy. But do they really? Are they really looking for "Prince charming?" If there really is such a man in this day and age, would he be good enough? or would he be "too good?" I dont believe that woman are looking for a guy that is a "nice guy," because the nice guy always seems to be the one type of guy who really gets the emotional crap beat out of him in a relationship. I have actually heard woman say, "he was too nice" or "he would always let me walk all over him." Huhhhh? What? Wait! What the hell does that mean? If you are looking for a "nice guy," and you get one, why the hell would you abuse that, and dump on him in the first place? If you dump on him, and he told you to go outside, and play a game of hide and go you know what yourself, I guess that would make him not such a nice guy, for standing up for himself. See ladies, men dont have that mentality. If a man was asked what it was he was looking for in a woman, or a relationship, for the most part, he would answer it honestly. Here it is from a man.
What is it I'm looking for in a relationship? Maybe equality, love, affection, trust, honesty, a lady with morals? I dont really know, but I do know what I'm NOT looking for. I'm not looking for a woman thats looking for a nice guy, unless she really does mean it.

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Comments:
mystery2u888

Sep 10 @ 6:57AM  
You have some good points, I think it is chemistry, beliefs, balance, mutual understanding, communication not lacking of........this works for both men and women.... there are alot of nice men an women out there.........some people can't get over things that they overlooked in a previous relationship.......so they carry it on over to the next one, which again this is on both men and women. They need to resolved those issues before they can move forward.

Everyone wants someone in there life but they need to be compatible.

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