My Daughter was in what i thought was a great marriage, that is, untill she finally got her son back. Pj, my grandson has oppositional defiant disorder, along with post-traumatic stress, and ADHD (at age two he was mauled and almost killed by a pit bull in his day care center.) They have been fighting Massachuttes, to get my grandson back from his father who literally stole him from my daughter and lied to the courts, put him in danger, several times. Well, the stress of having this child permanately and some things my son in law did, they just seperated today. My daughter is just a wreck, and who could blame her? I don't know what I can do to take away the pain, but lord knows I would if I could.
It hurts to see her go through this. So if anyone has any suggestions, please help!!!!!! 
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musicianfriend
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Sep 19 @ 9:45PM
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Wow....Im so sorry LadyV...
the world has changed...
Children and divorces...its just not good...
Im sorry for your grandbaby..I hope he will be ok..
Pitbull? In a day care? wow..
My solution is always find God...I dont mean just go to church..but pray and truly find him...ask him to show himself to you..and he will..but you must be alert..
I started by into Christendom throught the Assemblies of God..I learned alot there..stuff that will help your grandson.and your daughter..These people are truly prayer warriors...and stuff happens when they pray...they know how to pray effectivly...becasue we live in a spiritual world..both good and bad..
I will pray for you and your family...for sure..
I hope things work out ok...I feel sad for you daughter...I was her one day along time ago....divorce...loss of family..unity...my best friend...all gone..
...I imagine it was hard for my mother to watch me cry so much too...
Your daughter needs to find somekind of hope..something to do..to keep her mind busy..as if there is some hope for her efforts...a goal...a positive outcome...so she can know why exists.To make some sort of sense out of all the negatives that have happened to her..
Might I suggest...a audio book called 'The Shack" I think she might like this..It starts out sad..but theres a reason for that...a very important one..but perhaps it will help her..
I gave it to a friend that lost his son....He loved it..bought 4 more...and passed them out to people he felt could use the information..
God bless you LadyV..be strong..Im sure you in for some very troubled times...
Old Roman Saying..."This too shall pass"
I said that all the time...and yes...that terrible time in my life where I thought I was crying blood...did pass away...thank God.
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Josuha
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Sep 20 @ 12:51AM
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Well..sometimes having any child suddenly come in a home can be stressful.
I'm just a guy, but men are sometimes strange creatures.
Maybe have your daughter and son spend some time, alittle at a time, with her husband.
Kind of go slow.
Park, ice cream, then lunch..
Give the guy persmission to come over when he wants and let him get used to the idea.
Wives usually have the advantage and know the buttons to push, for good or bad.
Just from a guys point of view.
Hope they can reconcile.
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DRACULA_VwV
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Sep 20 @ 1:29AM
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Tell her to absorb the negative. Because no matter how much negativity occurs, there is an exact equal of positivity that follows. Nothing lasts forever.
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masonfun52
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Sep 20 @ 1:52AM
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the stress of having this child permanately and some things my son in law did, they just seperated today In my opinion the only helpful thing you can do is be a listening board for your daughter, your son-in-law, & your grandson. Everyone will go thru a period of hurt, but they'll also survive.
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mystery2u888
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Sep 20 @ 5:12AM
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 omgoodness I am so sorry.........just try to reassure her and be there......for her for now is the only thing you can do....maybe seeking other help so that she can get her son back....everything takes time.....so just try to relax an take it one day at a time........ 
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