Of course there is....it's Dr.Popo.....
Now we all should be experts by now on "How We Know Were In Love" That's right I said it.... After all the majority of us, have experienced it atleast once or twice Four letters explain it all, now many think it's spelled L..O.V.E. Oh No! No! No! take a walk outside your mind for a minute and work with me on this one.. Love is what it's called, but "As Is" determines the depth of it.
For example I was watching Cops the other night... I know whatcha thinking, Popo have you lost your ever livin lovin freakin mind? No! But I saw a couple caught sleeping in a rental truck for the night with their dog. Now their homeless, no money, yet snuggled up with each other and their dog laying beside them, all they had was their clothes and sleeping gear, yet seemed to be totally in love. That's about as "As Is" as you can get... They didn't let friends family or circumstances keep them apart, Now I don't recommend taking it to that extreem, but it was interesting to see that kind of devotion. That is about as "As Is" as you can get.
I have often seen couples break up under far less circumstances, now I'm not suggesting we go that far, but how far are we willing to go to truly be with someone were completely in Love with? something to think about? How deep is our love really? Can we accept someone "As Is" with out condtion? all their little bad habits or ways we don't agree with? after something about them caused us to fall for them in the first place, was it enough to keep us in love? Or did we or them begin to nit pic or only be with them under certain circumstances? Now I'm not talking about blatant abuse of the relationship, or distructive behavior, but just plain and simple "As Is"
Can ya or will ya stay with them if they gain weight or become ill? Can ya love them for their heart mind and soul, and know the body and looks are only skin deep? I mean none of us our guaranteed great looks or a body our whole life, (except me) I'm playing, but our heart mind and soul are who we truly are.
Now here's my thinking... One way how I know I'm falling in Love with someone is, when they bring me coffee and cook really good meals.... I'm kidding, and obey my every word.... Somebody stop me...
Wake up Popo... Okay back to the session..When they open their heart to me, and I with them and we both could careless about our past, or even current situation, we accept each other "As Is" even more importantly, we truly like the way the other person is, we become friends with hopeful hearts, their Hello, their words of comfort or expression, their ways and all the little things that just keep coming up love.Not only keeps them on our minds, but deper and deeper within our hearts, we long to be with them, and have made up our mind that "As Is" is perfectly find. Were not perfect people, but it's my belief that somewhere we have a perfect match waiting for us..
Thanx for reading... From the Chronicles of Dr.Popo
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POPO

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Oct 18 @ 1:16PM
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P.S...........Go Vikings...... Where's a cute lil Cheerleader when ya need one... that's all I'm sayin...
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summerbreeze916

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Oct 18 @ 2:01PM
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Rah Rah.....shish boom bah!!! WOOHOO! Vikings are in the lead..14 to ZERO! GO, VIKES, GO! And yeah.....I guess I have to consider Favre as a Viking now............
Great blog, Dr. POPO. I love the 'as is' concept. Too many people 'hook up' and then try to change the other person. It's plain to see that would never work......
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POPO

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Oct 18 @ 2:41PM
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What's up Home slice..... Go Vikes.... I need some snacks after that first half Where's a good woman when ya need one... I'm kiddin Girls...I'm all about da Love ..... after you feed me....
Thanx Summer.... As Is baby! that's the way it should be, don't try to make each other over or change them into something different.
I once dated a woman that said I want a man with a sense of humor.. then she said why you gotta be so funny... then she said I want a man who's honest, and then asked me if she looked fat in that dress... oh I knew that was a trick question... so I said it's not you baby! it's the dress...
and finally I told I have a sense of humor after all I'm dating you.... needless to say she didn't love me for who I am..
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leprichaun_magic

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Oct 18 @ 4:30PM
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..well nobody is perfect..Mr Popo ..in fact I would say ,,its fun finding out ..the ..Pro s--and Cons..and if you can compromise--and if you would just eat their cooking ..out of Kindness..or give it to the cat when nobody ,s looking ,,!!
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POPO

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Oct 18 @ 4:46PM
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Hola Magic....
..well nobody is perfect..Mr Popo ..in fact I would say ,,its fun finding out ..the ..Pro s--and Cons..and if you can compromise--and if you would just eat their cooking ..out of Kindness..or give it to the cat when nobody ,s looking ,,!! Come on Girl.....I thought you knew me better then that.. I thought you knew that Popo is about as perfect as they come... but let's not argue facts.. I agree it is fun finding out about someone and how well they blend, as you say the pros and cons, Now the only reason why I have a cat now, Is so many women told me they felt like they had a Tiger by the tail, so to understand where their coming from, I got a cat so I can have a tiger by the tail.
Tiger is my lil buddy... On the other hand, if the woman I'm with isn't so talented in the kitchen, that's when we cook together and I show her all my best moves....oh and cooking too Most women are good at cooking, but should the one I'm with fall short, I'm really good at it and love to teach from behind.. I'm just sayin...
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MrPaul

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Oct 19 @ 1:59AM
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Doc Popo you the man Keep up the good work and good things will come Maybe a couple hotties
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southernlass

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Oct 19 @ 2:49AM
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We love ya, Doc Popo, and yer sexy too!
(grin)
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POPO

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Oct 19 @ 9:27AM
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[quote] Doc Popo you the man Keep up the good work and good things will come Maybe a couple hotties
Mr.Paul, what's up bro..... Awwww shucks...
don't need two hotties...I'm too old but one ooooooh la la..
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POPO

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Oct 19 @ 9:30AM
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[quote] We love ya, Doc Popo, and yer sexy too!
(grin)
Awwwww Southernlass....Come hare and gimme a hug... you know how to make an old guy feel good...
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musicianfriend

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Oct 20 @ 4:04AM
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HOWDY POPO!
Hows it going baby!!!!
Im listening to Strivings Pink Floyd blog thats just after yours..
I LOVE PINK FLOYD! When I was young...we would listen to them. VERY VERY LOUD...totally blasted...Yesterday..when I was young...
Relationships are as individual as people are...
When I was married..my husband didnt like this about me....so after divorced..I did what what my husband said he liked with my new boyfriend...he didnt like what my husband liked..so here i was...again..still at home base...both men...not happy...lol...so I changed again..only to meet man #3...and I became what I thought he would like...again..STRIKE 3....
I gave up on that shit...Im just myself now....I dont care if they like me or not...Have you noticed guys...lmao...I just be myself..and guess what...My husband was lying cause he thought the grass was greener somewhere else..and I really didnt need to change a thing..
Im Mary Poppins..Perfect in every way...at least in my own mind..and thats all that matters...cause when you like yourself..everyone else likes you too...
JUST BE YOURSELF...and find a person who is honest with good boundaries..
It seems..as we get older...looks become less important..and character is the most important thing...
Loveya Babe! Miss ya! Lets do lunch..lmao.. See ya tomorrow...2:30
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POPO

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Oct 20 @ 9:19AM
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HOWDY POPO! Hows it going baby!!!! Im listening to Strivings Pink Floyd blog thats just after yours.. I LOVE PINK FLOYD! When I was young...we would listen to them. VERY VERY LOUD...totally blasted...Yesterday..when I was young... Relationships are as individual as people are... When I was married..my husband didnt like this about me....so after divorced..I did what what my husband said he liked with my new boyfriend...he didnt like what my husband liked..so here i was...again..still at home base...both men...not happy...lol...so I changed again..only to meet man #3...and I became what I thought he would like...again..STRIKE 3.... I gave up on that shit...Im just myself now....I dont care if they like me or not...Have you noticed guys...lmao...I just be myself..and guess what...My husband was lying cause he thought the grass was greener somewhere else..and I really didnt need to change a thing.. Im Mary Poppins..Perfect in every way...at least in my own mind..and thats all that matters...cause when you like yourself..everyone else likes you too... JUST BE YOURSELF...and find a person who is honest with good boundaries.. It seems..as we get older...looks become less important..and character is the most important thing... Loveya Babe! Miss ya! Lets do lunch..lmao..  See ya tomorrow...2:30 Hi TiTi...
I totally agree not everyone is the same or even likes the same things, That's why when some say I know what all guys like or all women like, I'm like no you don't, We are all very different, wants, needs, desires and how they view relationships, were not robots. You doing the right thing, just being you, and waiting for someone to come along who likes you just the way you are...."As Is" trying to change for someone or they for you never works, we are creaters of habits and our real self comes out in time.
When your changing or they are changing, it's like your meeting each other's representitives thus my blog "Best Foot Foreward" It's my opinion the best way to be is who you are, and if you don't like that person change it for your self not for another. Their are enough people out there where someone is going to like you just the way you are. Crazy and all.... I'm kidding TiTi...
I have to pass on lunch today I have to work... but we'll talk...
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butterfly943

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Oct 20 @ 11:37PM
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Hey Doc Popo do you wear scrubs when you practice
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POPO

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Oct 21 @ 8:02AM
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[quote] Hey Doc Popo do you wear scrubs when you practice [quote]
Hey Butterfly..... How ya doin? I always practice safety... but at my age it's not practicing anymore... I'm a seasoned Doctor
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