Murdering people self-confidence isn't a right, a privilege, a sport, especially upon those you love and children.
It sadden me to see so many people walking around dead within because other sought to crush their human spirit down to the core.
Most of the problems we face in society comes from low-self-esteem.
If a person feels great about themselves, they will blossom to the max and share all the lessons they have learn over time.
When a person core is murder, they are most likely to become what they fear the most without actually trying.
There's nothing worst in my mind then to attack and murder children self-esteem, because they don't possess the tools to fight or resist, not the desire because in their mind these are the people who are suppose to love them.
I see grown women and men on here and in real life who are still affected by what their parents and other family members have done to them,sadly.
I been accused of having shining knight of armor complex on here because I stand -up for those who can't and help those behind the scene without broadcasting it.
I stand guilty of those charges proudly.
Remember the only reason people don't sit next to people in pain is because they are afraid if they do they will feel compelled to do something about it.
Our purpose in this life isn't about our selfish needs, rather it's about lifting those who can't rise on their own.
It's a big lie that all people are created equal, that's where our compassion and our inner sense of what is right and wrong come into play.
We should do the right thing, not for praise or glory, rather because the linking system of goodness is what truly makes us shine.
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maggiemae684
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Oct 20 @ 7:50AM
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I see grown women and men on here and in real life who are still affected by what their parents and other family members have done to them,sadly.
Sadder yet....I see 'grown' men and women on here continue to do this to others.... 
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Blaiserboy
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Oct 20 @ 7:53AM
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Some great insights...!!
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edthepoet
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Oct 20 @ 8:03AM
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Grossly unfair is the fact that many people who want to to blog don't out of fear of being attacked, now that's ashame to be to learn from these people and get some interesting and fun insights from them.
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dizzydoll
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Oct 20 @ 8:04AM
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excellent blog 
Our purpose in this life isn't about our selfish needs, rather it's about lifting those who can't rise on their own.
yup, this is it 
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WSOR
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Oct 20 @ 8:11AM
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Wonderfully said, Ed.  
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1RockinDude
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Oct 20 @ 8:43AM
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Great Blog Ed,
We have all have had our up's and down's. We control everything in our life. The past should just be left there. And learn from past mistakes, and not repeat them.
I enjoy being a happy person.but... Those who dwelt with all negative motions..stay that way in life. At least some do.
Myself I choose to to be around...Postive people.
Some never learn because they dont want to. Living in misery..is not living.
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rockerchick1968
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Oct 20 @ 8:46AM
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Very Nice, Ed.
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oct_cat
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Oct 20 @ 9:18AM
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Myself I choose to to be around...Postive people.
Some never learn because they dont want to. Living in misery..is not living
Good blog ed; but I have to agree that I think some people with low self-esteem are more comfortable in staying that way than to try a new approach and 'raise themselves up.'
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edthepoet
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Oct 20 @ 9:35AM
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Hi oct-cat,
Your correct people often hug their pain, rather then step up to the plate and do something about it.
With saying that, other hold onto their suffering because they don't have the tools to overcome them or friends and family members to help them back on the path. While others are so destroy the comeback is nearly impossible because of what happen to them,sadly.
For them, I can only pray for a miracle.
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Wing_Zero_75
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Oct 20 @ 9:46AM
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Sometimes, seeing these people dead help. At least you will never hear another word from them ever. (natural death, not murder) There wont be any fresh wounds, just echos of past words.
Larry
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bardnsage
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Oct 20 @ 11:53AM
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Nice blog,,, nice thoughts,,,, but way too many comments in my head to narrow down without starting some junk. But in general,,, you are right. So many problems exasperated by low self esteem.
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matisse731
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Oct 20 @ 11:58AM
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Wonderful subject. You are very aware. I like that you can see it from several different views.
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CHARLIgurl1
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Oct 20 @ 12:02PM
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Excellent blog Ed.
I was a very shy child, my mother was a business woman and quite forceful. my father was a successful actor and singer among other things.
They wanted me to succeed academically, but my talent was in my art.
In their disappointment they then went on to tell me at every opportunity that I will never make anything of myself, and that art is a wasted talent.
Everything I tried to do they said I would not succeed at.
I eventually became an adult and went on to make my own destiny, I owned 2 businesses, property and went to business school and got a degree.
Yet even now the only thing theyll ever say to people is that Im good at art,
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sybnann
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Oct 20 @ 12:31PM
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Ed, this is wonderful! Kudos to you!! The people that "hold on to their own pain" ... in my view it is because they, as you say, have no one to seemingly care enough to try to lift them up to see life from the top of the mountain.
As a result, they have chosen a slow form of suicide... wallowing in their own pain and becoming addicted to things at times too.
You are correct in saying our purpose in this life.....  Thanks for that..... 
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Wing_Zero_75
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Oct 20 @ 1:11PM
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The people that "hold on to their own pain" ... in my view it is because they, as you say, have no one to seemingly care enough to try to lift them up to see life from the top of the mountain
Sometimes its harder to open up after being forced to be alone. So when someone does try to come along and help them, they push further away from everyone.
Larry
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luneib
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Oct 20 @ 9:55PM
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Perhaps people don't blog as you said for fear of ridicule, maybe they have been mentally abused growing up, told they aren't very good at anything or that they will never amount to much, like you said, it affects their self esteem. I think blogging would be a good thing for them, it would raise their self esteem. It's also a good way to get things off their chest.
Our purpose in this life isn't about our selfish needs, rather it's about lifting those who can't rise on their own.
Great blog btw!
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dizzydoll
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Oct 21 @ 7:35AM
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Everything I tried to do they said I would not succeed at.
I can relate, think about it... they want you to feel inadequate, in the hope you keep coming back to seek approval. It also makes them feel better about themselves when they put you down. Dont ask me how this works but its fact? 
It is easier to just stop taking things personally, and also know this... the garbage is in their heads. Sometimes you will have a dog in the fight when it gets too much, but most times you can just smile, knowingly.
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ladyvampire
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Oct 21 @ 10:14AM
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Great blog Ed, and so very true
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SpiritOrnery
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Oct 21 @ 6:43PM
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I believe in reincarnation. In my understanding, we PICK what we experience so we can grow. If you do everything for people instead of encouraging them to have their own strengths, you too are 'murdering' people's self confidence. They become dependent on you and on being RESCUED. Now, rescuing people is wrong. Encouraging them and educating them is good. Teach people how to FIX THEMSELVES.
It is stealing THEIR glory and strength by you taking their lessons away. Be sure you are not enabling their 'victimhood'. They will never accomplish things when being a victim gets them HUGE attention and they don't have to work at succeeding nor do they pay the consequences for poor desicions. They will continue in those poor behaviours if they benefit from it by being always 'rescued' from the folly of their choices.
If every time they fail, they get rescued and lots of attention, why should they change the way they choose? They won't. They won't grow, nor will they learn how to act differently.
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