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posted 10/22/2009 9:29:38 PM |
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The people that have explored their minds to learn who and what they are seem to at least know enough about their self that they can express thoughts that explain the type of person who will best fulfill their desires for a partner. Words are never the best medium to explain most things and not a good medium for finding that elusive partner either. Jut some random thoughts.

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gypsy29

Oct 22 @ 10:08PM  
True. I tend to be attracted to guys who have at least some formal education. They have the verbal skills to tell women what they are really like and what they want, Not to mention they have the braincells to have a conversation with.

You have to know what is important to you, otherwise you end up moving from one meaningless person to the next.
travelwoman

Oct 23 @ 12:36AM  

It does help.
It does help to know oneself and it does help to know what I'm looking for.
But... it is no guarantee.

Because the OTHER person needs to - also - know himself AND be honest about it...

And THAT is the hard part in finding a match.
Generally, one of the parties lies for a number of things.
Or doesn't know themselves.
I've heard men telling me stuff about their behavior, when I could see and hear with my own eyes and ears the exact contrary of their claim. Yet, they seemed to believe what they said...
This is not a phenomenon reserved to men.... it's just that I've observed mostly men in that situation and relationship...
dizzydoll

Oct 23 @ 3:35AM  
Words are never the best medium to explain most things and not a good medium for finding that elusive partner either.

this is true, but if you read the blogs of the gal you fancy, you will get a good idea of who she is because she writes from her heart. dont look for love otherwise you will make a mistake through desperation. write and read and have fun, and when the time is right... love will come along

oct_cat

Oct 23 @ 8:17AM  
but if you read the blogs of the gal you fancy, you will get a good idea of who she is because she writes from her heart.
Agree & disagree . . . some people truly write from the heart, but people who are really good writers can 'alter' their personality while composing . . . so you may not really be getting the 'real' person in their writings.
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