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posted 10/23/2009 9:42:42 AM |
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Sometimes, if you stand on the bottom rail of a bridge and lean over to watch the river slipping slowly away beneath you, you will suddenly know everything there is to be known.

The acquisition of knowledge according to A.A. Milne, is a complex, cognitive method indeed, and had I been aware of that process, I could have saved myself an awful lot of trouble over the years.

Losing the family home, amongst other ‘things,’ back in 1998, then turning up four months later to a cold and damp house, with three children and a few boxes, may quite easily have been avoided.

This wasn’t the first time in my life, I had felt so little towards material goods, but it was the last time I ever gave any value to possessions. Every object that had ever meant anything to me, was taken from me in one way or another, but I was here with all the people I loved the most, and that was the only thing that really mattered.

I still need ‘things’ though, some things; like a table and chairs to feed my family. So I have had to purchase these items. They were cheap, but not shoddy, they are functional and there is no sentiment towards them.

Almost eleven years have passed and in that time, I didn’t die, not even the once, I’ve survived. I may not have had Alex Alexander’s great insights to help me, but I’ve done it and I am here.

I didn’t need to learn that I need nothing, I already knew that, but I’ve picked up a few handy hints along the way. There was a point when I wanted something, but it wasn’t a possession, it was more than I already had, but that too, is now somewhat laid to rest.

I have gained strength, and by my own means, knowledge. I’ve come a long way and there is still an extensive stretch left, but, had I known everything back then, I would still be left, standing on a bridge.


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Comments:
gunn12fan

Oct 23 @ 9:49AM  
good blog
moon_watcher53

Oct 23 @ 10:08AM  
Very inspiring indeed, in fact I believe I might find myself a river bridge to peer over to get a better concept of what you have expressed.
You may have just created the next new fad ! Thanks Misschoos
teddybearr48

Oct 23 @ 10:17AM  
Better to be staning on the bridge
than leaping headfirst
and drowning in the muck.

SimplyImp

Oct 23 @ 10:53AM  
Good blog!

I could actually "see" the times I have stood on a bridge and watched the river flow (sometimes churn, boil, bubble and race) beneath me!
1frantastic

Oct 23 @ 11:38AM  
yep..and a decade is but a few short years.....only a long time when taking life ...one-day at a time...

and love this comment...
1frantastic

Oct 23 @ 11:41AM  
oops...hit comment post instead of quote....

Better to be staning on the bridge
than leaping headfirst
and drowning in the muck.


sometimes the river overflows though...and drowns us where we wait for inspiration to go onward.....if we can even find a bridge to be inspired on....



beckyiv42000

Oct 23 @ 11:49AM  
Choosey you and I have led similar lives...and have been at the bottom of life and at the apex of it.. and we both have found that the most important thing is not worldly possessions.. altho having the essentials is nice.. its the people in our lives that mean the most to us.. the rest is fluff and bother.. you stand and look over bridges I stand and stare at the stars at night.. both brings us to a realization of how small we are in this world and how vast our potential our greatness can be. I shall peer over a bridge with you and revel in the beauty of the rushing waters.. such strength such power so swiftly flowing ... ahh beauty in the movement ...I see it now ....huggs dear friend
Fender

Oct 23 @ 11:59AM  
Blaiserboy

Oct 23 @ 12:06PM  
Sometimes our lack of riches brings us wealth...!
CHARLIgurl1

Oct 23 @ 12:28PM  


Been there with ya honey.

Starting again from nothing when I had everything.

Good blog.
blkfoot1954

Oct 23 @ 11:20PM  
I see we are not alone in that world you are writing about.I know what you have lived through for I did also.Material things are not the worth we place on them,Family and Friends are.
Great blog!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Borty

Oct 24 @ 6:26AM  
ragtopcookie

Oct 24 @ 6:47AM  
Reflections of a face i see........cookie
Roverboy

Oct 25 @ 1:31AM  
Reminds me of something a good friend of mine (Ferris Bueller) once said:

"Life moves pretty fast: if you don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it."

Truer words have never been spoken.
misschoos

Oct 25 @ 5:52AM  
This blog wasn't about material things, it was about being left in the same place, without ever having gone anywhere.
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