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Last night was just like any other evening. Picked presley up from school, came home started dinner as he finished up some school work. After dinner i cleaned up the kitchen and got some stuff together for presley's halloween party at school.

Presley is in charge of feeding and giving fresh water to chep { my 13 year old bullmastiff }, well he went out to the barn and got her some food and changed out her water. I watched him running around out in the yard calling and looking for chep. A few minutes later he came inside and told me chep was asleep and that she wouldn't wake up.. Right then, my heart raced, had a bad feeling deep inside of me,fear,panic set in as i raced up to the back of the barn.

Found her beside the barn, she had passed away. Losing her is painful, had her for 13 years..She was/is my friend, always stood by me no matter what. Presley is just as upset about losing chep as i am, he has loved that dog since he was just a baby himself. Him and i said many prayers and shed many of tears as we put her to rest.

You will be missed my friend..............

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Comments:
luneib

Oct 30 @ 8:58AM  
(((Hugs))) I know what it is to lose a dog, it broke my heart. I'm sorry to hear about your loss.
Wing_Zero_75

Oct 30 @ 9:01AM  
I am truely sorry for your loss. I lost my baby girl of 13 years on june 29th. She died from anti freeze poisoning. Ive had a few people say, "shes just a cat", but she was more than that. (no one from here said that, just the dicks in the real world.)

Larry
luneib

Oct 30 @ 9:09AM  
Sorry for your loss as well Larry, my dog died from lead poisoning, I know how you feel.
edthepoet

Oct 30 @ 9:13AM  
I am sorry to hear about your great loss, over my lifetime I have loss many friends.

Yes, they are like family passing away.

HUGS4UANDME

Oct 30 @ 9:14AM  
I am so so sorry
jerzygrl328

Oct 30 @ 9:22AM  
I am so sorry on the loss of Chep. It's so difficult to lose one of our "four legged" family...they bring us such joy and unconditional love....My heart goes out to you and Presley ......
magnolia57

Oct 30 @ 9:57AM  
I too can understand the pain you feel....I've had a couple very special friends in my life I lost.....they will meet yours at the rainbow bridge ...... just try to remember the good times you shared and it will help...Magnolia
CentsofHumor

Oct 30 @ 10:53AM  
You have my deepest sympathies...we welcome them into our lives, just lilke
children..

.."Until one has loved an animal, a part of one's soul remains unawakened." It was written by Anatole Frane."
pinkypaula2

Oct 30 @ 10:56AM  
im so sorry to hear about chep they become a big part of our lives, had to have my at boo boo put down three years ago he was age 14 he is missed a lot to
1frantastic

Oct 30 @ 11:06AM  
So sorry for your loss......My Baby is my 4 legg'd child and companion.....she does talk to me...outloud too....

Our "pets" are just family not in human form....


gunn12fan

Oct 30 @ 11:18AM  
Sorry to read about this..I lost mine in june and I miss her every day
sweetxy

Oct 30 @ 11:41AM  
I didn't take a look at any blog before i post my blog.
sorry ! to hear about your friend ,I know how that feeling would be like, i experienced some before.
bluewind37

Oct 30 @ 11:41AM  
Losing a pet is like losing a family member.

Condolences to you and your son on losing chep.
cbond35

Oct 30 @ 11:50AM  
All dogs go to heaven........Where there is a never ending supply of bones, treats, hugs, toys and lovinz'.
CHARLIgurl1

Oct 30 @ 12:11PM  
Im so so sorry.

I lost my namesake Charligirl my German shepherd last year, had to put her to sleep after she'd lost all function from the waist down.

Its a very painful thing, and I know what you mean about losing a best friend.

If your dog wasnt ill, then it must have been sudden which is a blessing of sorts.

Condolences.
missliss78

Oct 30 @ 12:17PM  
Awww, scratch. I am so very sorry.
My thoughts are with you as your mourn your loss.
But in the end, you will, of course, receive comfort in the wonderful
memories you have made with Chep over the years.
tentfire

Oct 30 @ 1:10PM  
I am so very sorry you have lost such a wonderful, devoted friend. My heart, sympathies and prayers go out to you and your son. And comforting hugs will be with you each time of the day when you come to that time when she was included in your routine and that moment feels empty and hollow. May you and your son's hearts heal quickly. Any may chep remain with you always in spirit.
Snappygoddess

Oct 30 @ 1:21PM  
So sorry about Chep..
fromscratch

Oct 30 @ 1:26PM  
you mislead by your blog title It was just a dog, get over it.


I was just gonna remove your comment, but i want all to see what a heartless bitc h you are
Sherrybaby412

Oct 30 @ 1:34PM  
Wow anyone who could say it was just a dog, cat, pet, get over it, has never known the unconditional love of a pet.

I had 2 dogs pass away this year and one cat disappeared. I think about them everyday.

sweetxy

Oct 30 @ 1:54PM  
my heart was once touched by the dog,,japanese name as his gene is mixed wolf and japanese dog, I know he guard me as his race is guardian dog.
From his eyes and the way he shows me love ,clinging to me kissing me,,,wanting my affection in return.
Yes he is just a dog but he has love and very loyal to the person who love and taking care of them.guarding....and my other experiences are good lessons to change my wonder of Why many people so in love with their pets.no doubts to me then!
none of them are my dogs but i love three of them.,they desreved to be love especially loyal and faithul I love very much in dogs
Snappygoddess

Oct 30 @ 2:00PM  
It was just a dog, get over it.

Pets become family...your comment was rude and cruel.. perhaps you should go back to what it was you were doing before you decided to comment on a blog that you could have just passed over instead of stopping to make nasty comments... nickelbag...kinda says it all, doesn't it *snicker*
lazareth

Oct 30 @ 2:00PM  
Lordy Scratch... I know how it feels.
I lost my Lazareth almost 2 months ago after 11 years together.... so very painful..
sometimes I still think I hear him walking ( or thumping with only three legs) across the floor.
He was my best buddy.... I wrote a tribute to him here at MD...

Hoping the pain eases for you and your family.... it takes time
jowi369

Oct 30 @ 3:11PM  
i am sorry
dizzydoll

Oct 30 @ 3:26PM  
She was/is my friend, always stood by me no matter what.

I am so sorry to hear this and i didnt know till today. I am so sorry my friend. It took a long time for me to get over the death of my pets.

I will and so will you see them again in heaven... in the mean time read and add your bit to:

THE RAINBOW BRIDGE ON MD

It will be ok. When you feel sad blog about it.

raquel3

Oct 30 @ 3:29PM  
I too am sooo sorry Scratch....I know the pain of losing a loved dog especially after having her for so long. She is with U in spirit now, and knows your sorrow...She is in your memory.... in your heart.... and so She will be with you forever!
BUSTED616

Oct 30 @ 4:08PM  
I am so very sorry for your loss. It is a pain like no other to lose a beloved pet. My heart truly goes out to you and your son and I hope Chep is over the rainbow bridge, pain free and playing with all the others. She will forever be in your heart and memories.


SpiritOrnery

Oct 30 @ 4:12PM  
misschoos

Oct 30 @ 4:13PM  
I am sorry.
BandTMom

Oct 30 @ 5:01PM  
I'm sorry for your loss.

They are never "just animals".

It's been over 4 years since I lost my little Cracker dog. After 17 years together, i still miss her. She can never be replaced.



dizzydoll

Oct 30 @ 6:03PM  
Santo007

Oct 30 @ 6:21PM  
i am so sorry for your loss

AngelLight

Oct 30 @ 6:53PM  
Animals can feel like or be a soulmate of a different nature.

I too am sorry for the gravity of your loss

Peace to you, your son and chep.
ColdinWisconsin

Oct 30 @ 7:10PM  
Well, at least that one chicks comment should move along your grief nicely. We are all in the anger phase with you.

Thinking of you sweety.
Fender

Oct 30 @ 7:17PM  
I am so sorry for your loss...Your little boy and you must be devastated
kywonder

Oct 30 @ 7:23PM  
you mislead by your blog title It was just a dog, get over it.


It is ok that she doesn't like dogs, but someone should have told her the definition of the word "tact." It is the ability to shut your mouth before someone shuts it for you. Some things you just have to overlook Scratch. I remember when my mom lost her doberman, she cried for months. They become a part of your family and you love and care for them. They are not like some people who are fickle and have no sympathy. At least you know that this is not someone to put on your friend's list or ask out for a date.

I am so sorry for your loss. While you can never replace your dog, you can get you another one to love. Love you my friend.
Tiramisu4u

Oct 30 @ 7:30PM  
I was going to post my sympathies before I went to work this am, and ran out of time, so decided to do so after work. THEN I read *THAT* comment! I went back and read everything to see if I mis-read something...and my reaction turned to anger, and disgust.

I am in a way glad she showed her true colors right away, before she did something even more malicious...and obviously she is capable of it.

My heartfelt condolences and hugs go out to you and your son over the loss of Chep...
Josuha

Oct 30 @ 7:41PM  
Sorry about your loss.
lucy8

Oct 30 @ 7:51PM  
Condolences.
rockerchick1968

Oct 30 @ 8:55PM  
I'm very sorry Lawrence.........my heart goes out to you and Presley. At least you can take comfort in knowing she's not suffering anymore.
summerbreeze916

Oct 31 @ 1:22AM  
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your beloved Chep. My condolences to you and Presley. I'm a firm believer in treating your pets as a part of your family when you have them. When you can't do that, you shouldn't have them at all. I know Chep was loved. Thank you for making her life a good life, Scratch. I know you will miss her always, as I miss my little Lacy every day. We can always get another 'pet', but the ones we have had can NEVER be replaced. May your Chep Rest In Peace.

One more thing.......I pray to GOD that that 'bag' up above never has a four legged family member in her household. I know it would never be treated as it should be......with love and compassion.

Again........I am truly sorry for your loss.
EternalFlame

Oct 31 @ 1:40PM  
<----for you

I'm so sorry for your loss.
beckyiv42000

Oct 31 @ 8:05PM  
Aw Scratch my heart aches for you and Presley ...praying your grief passes quickly and is replaced by nothing more than happy memories...

And man I cant believe someone would be so rude.. IGGY THE TWITS SCratch its the best way to handle them
1stsignofspring

Oct 31 @ 8:29PM  
I am very sorry for your loss Scratch. Chep can never be replaced but his memory will live on in your hearts. Hugs to you!
Daisy67

Oct 31 @ 11:32PM  
"Heaven goes by favor. If it went by merit, you would stay out and your dog would go in". - Mark Twain

"You think dogs will not be in heaven? I tell you, they will be there long before any of us." -Robert Louis Stevenson


Sorry for your loss!! ~

Daisy67
butterfly943

Nov 1 @ 3:32PM  
so sorry for you and your son
philly67

Nov 2 @ 1:09PM  
so sorry to hear the loss of your wonderful friend Chep may his memories bring a smile to your face.......shame on those who make rude comments who don't understand the unconditional love of a pet GRRRRRRR.....
PrettyGreenEyes578

Nov 2 @ 1:25PM  
I am so sorry to hear about Chep.

We lost our dog and our oldest kitty within 3-4 weeks of each other earlier this year. We had them both close to 17 years.

Our four legged family teaches us plenty about unconditional love and companionship.

Sending heartfelt hugs your way.

Give Presley a for me.



angeliavenus

Nov 8 @ 6:47PM  
Oh! I am sorry for your loss. Animals can be our good friends. I watched my beloved Sandy Woo, (german shepherd, chow mix) go down hill at age 15 and pass. We knew it was coming for three days, as for two days, she would not eat, and on day three she could not hold her head up to drink from her bowl, her face fell into it, and I had to pull it out and dry it off. We called the vet. the next morning and carried that big dog in in her sleeping bag, she lay there moaning and we were all crying, even the vet., and he gave her the shot to put her to sleep. She's buried in the family pet cemetary with a nice stone. Yea, I am crying right now. I don't get people who can treat living things as if they were some object to be used for amusement and then thrown away. I even say thanks to Heaven for the meat I eat and ask that the animal's spirit be blessed. My Shara Wolfenstein is getting gray now, and I am dreading the day when she will pass on, too.
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