Who would have thought... i was cheated on again? " Nothing happenng with me and her" he tells me. But he goes out at 10pm and doesnt come home till the next day and if he does come home he showers right away. Everything he says is a lie. He spends more time with her then he does me. but nothing is going on he says. 4 years and this is how it ends. i spend me night being so upset i can scream... but so angry at him i hope he doesnt ever walk back through that door. When he is home he is always texting her. She is his world now.. thats fine with me... just get outa my life then and stop putting it in my face. And when he finally walks through the door its a constant fight with mean words being shared. U can have her.. i dont want u after she had you. I hope she is worth it to u. I hope u are happy throwing 4 years away for that lil whore.... and u say there is nothing going on. Just stop walking through my door when are done with her and pretend like everything is okay... because its not!!
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dizzydoll
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Oct 31 @ 7:26PM
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you are too young to waste another day on the asshole
turn around and dont look back 
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beanie68
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Oct 31 @ 7:31PM
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Amen Dizzy!!!
NEXT ........ 
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dachsiemom35
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Oct 31 @ 7:35PM
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There are better fish out in sea of life ! Move on there is better out theres! 
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1frantastic
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Oct 31 @ 7:38PM
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sooo..who's paying for the apartment you share? him or you?
You evidently like something he...er...gives you...else you would either have left or kicked him out...
Blogging about what he has...done to you...is only blogging about how stupid you are...since it has been 4 years and it is not changing...are you that slow of a learner?? or just that desparate to hang on to a GUY?
Wise up! If you are not blogging for attention, the do something about the situation...
I think you may need some counseling on your self-esteem....You are young enough, ambitious enough to NOT be anyone's door mat....
We "older" women know......don't waste your youth!
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Heart2Heart453
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Oct 31 @ 7:39PM
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I"m very confused....you seem to say you've been with this guy for four years however your blogs and profile say otherwise....either way, people should never have to stay with someone who cheats. I understand there are those who have "open" relationships but if that's not the case he/she needs to hit the curb!
You know, it takes two to cheat and if women and men would STOP. You know the old saying...if he cheats with you, he'll cheat on you!
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velvetfreez
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Oct 31 @ 7:40PM
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Both of our names are on the lease. I cant lock him out... as much as i would like to... he pays half and i pay half... locking him out is not an option though it has been tried
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beckyiv42000
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Oct 31 @ 7:48PM
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Then make a CHANGE.. if you share an apartment then move outta the bedroom and then outta the apartment ASAP.. You are not married are you?? THEN LEAVE!!! Talk to your managers of the apt and tell them the situation and ask for a way out of your lease ... that way your credit rating wont go to crap.. in any case get the Eff out ...and good lord do NOT have sex with this man.. you dont know what hes been up to and what hes bringin home 
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WhiteRose1952
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Oct 31 @ 8:07PM
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Well this is probadly the only place She feels like She can let Her hair down and be able to talk about it without being hit over the head!!!
If Blogging about it helps her need so be it!!!
We are not the ones to say otherwise!!!
We all need to be able to "vent" at some time or another...
Plus I am ""PRAYING"" that She can figure out a way for him to get out of there ...
I know about having a hard time in getting someone out, it's not all that easy sometimes!!! It took Me 5 years on one of Mine...
Velvet If You need to "Vent" then come blog and "Vent"...
I'm pulling for Ya!! Hang in there!!
Oh, have You talked with the Landlord? Well, it's a thought...
Take Care, Hugs to Ya,
Your Texas Friend, Christie aka "WhiteRose1952"
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1frantastic
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Oct 31 @ 8:11PM
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you can STOP thinking of him as a...er...boyfriend...lover...or whatever then and think of him as the other 1/2 of the rent payee!
You go ahead and date! Bring someone over for dinner with all of you...
You don't have to be a girlfriend...sex object...or whatever...if it is NOT consentual..it is RAPE...so you decide...
And if he beats you..call the cops...
You will be the only one who can change the situation...do something besides "writing".....
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gunn12fan
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Oct 31 @ 8:16PM
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Run like the freaking wind
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luneib
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Oct 31 @ 8:30PM
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Some men are such dogs. You deserve better.
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noor406
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Oct 31 @ 9:37PM
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Hes awful n cheater  ..It s not too late......kick him out of your life ..! n dont look back or take him back even if he beg u on his knee. 
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1frantastic
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Oct 31 @ 11:29PM
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you can STOP thinking of him as a...er...boyfriend...lover...or whatever then and think of him as the other 1/2 of the rent payee!
You go ahead and date! Bring someone over for dinner with all of you...
You don't have to be a girlfriend...sex object...or whatever...if it is NOT consentual..it is RAPE...so you decide...
And if he beats you..call the cops...
You will be the only one who can change the situation...do something besides "writing".....
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