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Another relertionship ended part 2

posted 10/31/2009 11:51:19 PM |

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velvetfreez

Thanks everyone for the comments... i dont think any of my blog have ever goten that much attention. I am here to vent... this is my "safe place" he is there on facebook and on myspace.. this is my safe place. Well another night just like the rest. Cept he came home tonight and there was no shower. He is "asleep" on the couch behind me... so he wants me to think but he is texting her. i am on his computer too...I do really need to get outa here. For people that said mean things to me before. I think it is ok to date around until u find someone u want to live with. and i did. until a few weeks ago. I had just relized that this is the only safe place I can vent anymore. But the same thing happened tonight. he was gone since 2pm and tried fighting with me thro text. then came home and tried making me goout side. and i refused and he left and slammed the door. back 10 mins later... gave me a dirty look and started texting her. I am not to sure what he has to offer this other girl because it just hit me a few days ago... he is unemployed.. has a kid cant take care of... any many many more... WHAT AM I DOING HERE!? So i am geting out first chance i get i can say that for sure. I am not geting this everynight!!! No one should have to!!

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texasgirl8585	Nov 1 @ 12:13AM
	Nothing is worse than a lying cheat, especially if your heart gets broken. btdt.

southernlass	Nov 1 @ 5:12AM
	I haven't read through all of your blogs; I don't need to. I recognize the pattern. Yup.. not all that many years ago, I was locked into the same type of cycle. I hope it doesn't take you as many years as it did me to wake up. Stop now. Get away from this jerk and ask your mom or your dad to help you get into some good counseling with a woman therapist or a licensed professional counselor of some kind who is reputable. Stop dating. Don't date for at least a year. Stop dating until you're capable of picking a healthy partner who treats you like you know you should be treated. Learn what that looks like. Google codependency and start reading. Start loving yourself. When you love yourself, you'll probably draw healthier dates to get involved with and I assure you, you won't be sitting there while your boyfriend texts some other woman all night off and on. Next and finally, don't give your body away anymore. Men are only going to burn you out and use you up. They won't marry you and you'll be numbed to the core by the time they finish up with you. When you're forty, you'll have given your heart away and tried to trust God only knows how many times until you can't do it anymore. And you'll be darn lucky if you don't have an STD to boot. Please don't give yourself again until you find a man who really loves you who will marry you and treat you decently; that means holding out and not giving out sex. I know that's hard but you'll be sorry if you keep doing it. I hope you aren't so hard headed and young that you can take advice so you don't have to get burned anymore. Best wishes, hon.

Fullstopstart	Nov 1 @ 5:53AM
	You think you have a problem. Had mine for 8 years till she left for the other guy. She lost out though. I got the kids. You won't want to know the rest.

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