Me
SWM/BHM/37/5'9"/260 lb./Glasses/Brn. eyes/Shvd. hd./Drss casually/wear size 13 shoes/Lt. tan skin/Hairy chest & stomach/Very cln./No tatts/No kids/Live alone/No bdy. prcngs./D&D-free/Rnt. an apt./Honest/Polite/Caring/Kind/Affect./Humorous/Quick-witd./Creative. I happen to LOVE BBWs. (Big Beautiful Women)
My favorite color happens to be blk., & I like the 'goth' look. (With that said, please do not piss & moan to me, that it's too "morbid", & "depressing". The fact of the matter is, that if a specific color makes you that depressed, than you may need professional help, before you approach me, for a relationship, alrighty then? Lol) On that matter, I do not mind, nor do I care if you dress up in blk. frequently. That's your choice, & if that's whut makes you happy, then well, have a field day. But I will not be judged by what I wear, OR how I wear it, by anybody ... P-E-R-I-O-D. That's just the way that I feel about the matter.
I cannot stand those types of women who's hell-bent upon tryn'a change their man. I AM NOT seeking a woman like that. It's not going to happen, hon, so um ... either you accept me for who I am - for me ... for my personality & perhaps other qualities, -- or not at all. I would not try to change you, so please don't do it to me. It will make me very uncomfortable, & it WILL drive me away from you. I happen to be a real ball-breaking expert at distancing myself away from people who try hard to change me. I am who I am, just as you are, who you are. We're not able to change people.
I Am Very Stable
I assure you, as my potential partner, that I am very emotionally-stable, very polite, & I am very easy to get along with. I appreciate your putting your faith in me for a new relationship, & you will see that I am telling you the truth in whut I have said. Emotionally stability is a very important part of what is to be a healthy relationship. I understand that we all have problems ... we all have hidden things that we do not want people to know of. I will tell of little bits of that type of my personal history, & I do not expect you to tell me those bits from your past, either. I do however ask that you please be yourself. Please seek out the types of help that you deem best on your own path that will bring you peace ... that will bring you stability on the inside, that we may have a very good relationship. There must be a solid emotional foundation, if you & I are to enjoy a healthy relationship, hon. Nothing will be perfect all of the time, but please take proper care of yerself to be stable, & if you have trouble with it in our relationship, I assure you that I will help you, to the very best of my ability, to be there for you, & help you, in attaining stability, OK?
You Are
...a SWF/SHF/BBW (Big Beautiful Woman)/23-45 yrs./160 - 260 lb./5'4" - 6'4"/Pref. long hr./Pref. very independent/Pref. you drive/Pref. Christian, but are flxbl./Pref. no kids but flxbl./Pref. you know how to cook, but it's OK if you don't.
If you have any turn-ons, tell me, I do care about yer feelings. I seek no less than a good woman, with a very good heart, who will go out of her way to want to be with me; someone who is NOT mean, arrogantly impolite like so many city-women are, or utterly selfish. Any1 like that who worms their way into a relationship with me, will be mercilessly ignored, & snubbed to no end. I do not react well to people like that, in a relationship.
My Favorite Type Of Woman
My favorite type of woman is a BBW. (Big Beautiful Women) I would like to say that I love the fact that you have a fat body. I tell you that there is no need to feel bad about it, & you should be content with the way that you are. Everyone is made differently, & we are all here the way that we are, for a purpose. This is the way I feel. Whut good does it do, to look at some woman who looks like she's a bag'a bones, or just a little bit skinnier than you are? I'll tell you. It does NO good. It's not healthy to continuously covet those who look different than you. There's no point in it, & it's very destructive to your self esteem. Sometimes people have to learn this first hand, but I'm one of those people who prefers to learn hard lessons, BEFORE they happen.
You Are Not (!PLEASE PAY ATTENTION!)
...here in this country, (the USA), on a "temporary VISA". -OR- on a "Temporary work permit", in the USA. I will NOT attach myself to ANY1, who is legally-limited to the time spent here, in my country of the USA. It would be some hassle, tryn'a get you to stay here, & I could not possibly begin to believe that you would be willing to leave yer friends & family in some other country, just to be here with me. --
IF you desire a Long Term Relationship with me, then I'm sorry, but you will need to live here as a permanent resident of the USA. That's it, P-E-R-I-O-D. So, if yer emailing me from another country, do not look forward to attaining a relationship with me, because you could not possibly begin to offer me the type of relationship that will suit MY needs, as a man. Yer not that good. --
In a relationship with me, you MUST be willing & able, to travel over here to see me, at yer own personal free will. I do not do good in long distance relationships, & quite frankly, I never have. With that said, I am not strong enough to bear the pressures of a long distance relationship, as it is impossible to have sex in a long-distance relationship... it is impossible to be able to do anything else up-close, while mired down, in a long distance relationship. -- Not good enough. I have specific physical needs from you as my woman, & if yer not here, then I'm sorry, but um ... THAT'S NOT GOOD ENOUGH. I'm glad that you understand my feelings on this matter.
The 'Look' I Prefer
I tend to go for women who have long hair; at least down to yer shoulders. I would prefer a woman between 5'4", & 6'3", but slight variations with that, are fine by me. I normally do not mind the use of makeup. A little is alright, but I don't find it appealing to slop it on like bozo the clown; ya know whut I mean? Hahaha ... A little bit is alright by me. I normally go for the more 'natural' look.
I generally do not mind whut color hair you have. I would say that I go for darker hair, with alittle blond mixed in there. I am flexible with that, though.
My Spiritual Path, & You Who I Am NOT Seeking
The type of woman who I am NOT seeking, are those who as a prime example, automatically view my spiritual path (my believing in JC) as my being: "too religious" for them. This is primarily why I would prefer to have a woman who is a believer in Jesus, that they will not react so dumbfounded & get so offended & prideful at my belief. 1 of my goals happens to be to attain my pastoral certificate, so I am studying the bible, but also because I have in fact experienced psychic & physical miracles which He performed in my life, 1 night in early 11/2006. I explain in great
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