I have always been fascinated by human behavior. We are so complex on so many levels.You have on one end of the spectrum those who are purely motivated by bringing happiness to others, and those who are determined to control and manipulate at the expense of others. Stalkers are at the lower end of the spectrum. As we know Stalkers are individuals who follow another obsessively. They are people who thrive on hurting and abusing others.There are online stalkers , phone stalkers, and those who take it to the next level and physically follow you. Regardless of how they go about it, they all operate at the same mindset.STALKERS CAN BE VERY DANGEROUS!
Stalking is a matter of one person trying to control another. Controlling you brings them pleasure. If they can force you to react this gives them even greater pleasure.If you scream, rant and rave they win. If you panic. They win. If you make empty threats to them, they win. If you argue with a stalker, they win. I have a stalker, He will not win.My Stalker makes threatening phone calls , he E-mails, He has his children call me. He has others calling me. I refuse to react. I do not answer the calls nor respond. He willl eventually get bored and go away. For Safety sake I have phone records of all of his calls. I have saved all of his phone messages.I have kept a journal of each event.
A single act of stalking/harassment is now a crime in most states.In every state in the country, harassment by telephone is a crime. If the calls continue I will file a police report and I have all my documentation ready. I do not need his negativity in my life.I would love to hear from others who have experienced the same. Thank you for reading my blog.
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