I got my feelings hurt. I'm still nursing the hurt. Who did it? What did s/he do?
Well, in spite of trying to keep low expectations, sometimes I decide how I want other people to behave -- particularly toward me. This was one of those times. I told this person how I wanted to be treated very specifically, but s/he took a different tack.
I don't like the tack. S/he hurt me. Especially by choosing something other than my suggestion, after I had pointed out that I was sensitive and my feelings could easily be hurt. No, this person has not expressed any remorse.
I have long defined hurt as a selfish unwillingness to forgive. And I know that as soon as I choose to be over this, choose to forgive, the hurt will be gone.
Let not the sun go down on your anger. Hmm...Sundown's not too far away. Dinner might digest better too. I just don't know if I am quite ready. A little remorse would go a long way. There go my expectations again.
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