I know that it's to be expected on any dating site that there are married people looking for some "fun" on the side. I just haven't figured out why the hell they seem to think I'm a good target.  Maybe it's because I'm not looking for a relationship. Maybe because as a fat chick, I should be more likely to accept "less than".  In any case, I'd like to make it known to the married men that contemplate contacting me:
Even if I were looking for a relationship, or a f*ck buddy, I would not even entertain the thought of having one with a married man.
If you're looking for sex, or a side relationship, you're gonna have to find someone with quite a bit less in the way of human compassion and values, and quite a bit more gullibility. I don't care how awful you say your marriage is; that's what divorce is for. I don't care if your wife cheated on you, if she never cooks, if she takes all your money, or puts ipecac in your morning coffee. Divorce her and move on. Don't act like a nutless wonder and sneak around on the internet trolling for strange.
If you are confused about what you want and need a friend to give you some tough love and a reality check, then I might do that.
But if you're just another cheating asshole looking for some on the side, then I hope your wife puts a keylogger on your computer, busts you, and boots your sorry ass out of the house. 
Copy & paste to friend: (Click inside box; Ctrl + C to copy; Ctrl + V to paste)
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sable57
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Jan 30 @ 11:42AM
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well put.i agree with you.
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WelshWytch
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Jan 30 @ 12:12PM
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saide
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Jan 30 @ 12:26PM
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Wow!!! you said it all.Good for you.
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BluzAtHeart
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Jan 30 @ 12:39PM
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To all the married men and the single ones looking for "benefits". You can bypass my profile too.
Thanks Christy and kudo to you gf.
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christy74
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Jan 30 @ 12:41PM
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Thanks for taking the time to read and post nice comments. 
But why didn't y'all tell me I had a typo??? 
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christy74
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Jan 30 @ 12:42PM
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 Thanks for my first kudo ever Bluz!
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EmAvail
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Jan 30 @ 12:54PM
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I don't think that it is anything about you in paticular that makes you a 'target' for these types of morons. They simply play a game of numbers. I watched my father do it for years as he was the biggest troll I have ever known.
I have to say that I am glad that these people exist though. It makes it easier for those of us who are genuine.
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eaglespirit519
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Jan 30 @ 12:54PM
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Exactly.. and your not the only one who gets those.. But I state straight out that NO MARRIED OR IN RELATIONSHIPS, Yet they still get through... Filters must not be working.. But they don't read anyway just "Press Your Luck" and hit that damn e-mail button.. But so do I "Delete"... Thanks, well said and put and another Kudo...
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cuteguy_006
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Jan 30 @ 12:58PM
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[B]Hmmm ... you would think that REAL MEN out there would get a clue ! After all these years , we all have been roaming around the planet like dogs prowling for food, and hunger for a mate. And, men can be so cruel when it comes to real life issues , such as Marriage ! It's no wonder why people don't want to get married anymore ! Men just seem to ruin it for the rest of us ! And, that sort of stinks to high Heaven !
Hey guys , SMARTEN UP !!! Sheesh !
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bunzikitty
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Jan 30 @ 1:08PM
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Well said.
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firefly32
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Jan 30 @ 1:36PM
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first of all ! Great blog!
Even if I were looking for a relationship, or a f*ck buddy, I would not even entertain the thought of having one with a married man.
Does that mean married women are in? 
kidding!! I'm not even married. LOL
Your blog just made me laugh thanks!
Oh yeah one more thing! YOUR NOT FAT! As a big woman myself. I am tired of us thinking we have to be a size 5 to matter! You are beautiful!! OWN IT!
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christy74
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Jan 30 @ 1:49PM
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Wow, thanks y'all.
Firefly, I'd have to say that married women are out too. Although, I've never been approached by one on here, there's a first time for everything, right?
Thanks for the compliments Firefly! I'm not using "fat" in a derogatory way--I just see it as a descriptive word, like "tall" or "brunette". And It's quicker to type than "overweight" or "full-figured".
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Alana595
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Jan 30 @ 1:56PM
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Very good post. I'm glad to see a woman with some principles still. Some women are so desperate for attention they will even entertain married men.You do not look like a "fat chick". You look like a very attractive young lady. And I'm sure you look a lot better than the married men who contact you. Keep standing on your principles. Those who don't stand for something will fall for anything.
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Firewire_66
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Jan 30 @ 2:44PM
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Very well put and thought out - nice, very nice! Good luck on the hunt for someone not married and hopefully not an A**hole...
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christy74
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Jan 30 @ 2:53PM
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Thanks, Alana.
And thank you, Firewire. I have put away my hunting boots for the time being, though. Right now, I'm just mainly doing "people-watching" and conversing with a few nice people.
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crazycr
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Jan 31 @ 10:18AM
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   Confused, baffeled (or however its spelled), and kinda disturb by people. Married heh looking, thinking, and acting on those thought's  . I think they should still have a law were the person being cheated on in a marrage can leagly kill both partys while in the act.  Wheather there is a law or not i probly would kill them both...So good for you staying away from those As.holes good to know there is still wemon out there that have morals and values such as yours. 
P.S. dont tell knowone i have morals ill lose my reputation heh. 
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Guerrero
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Jan 31 @ 1:46PM
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"you're a fat chick" .... no you're not ... you're beautifully fluffy.
Anyway great blog.
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