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It occured to me, after I wrote this blog, that I should say a little about what inspired it; especially as the main inspiration is probably not who or what you think:
II had a weird episode the other day where a woman wrote to me and warned me off her man, told me I wasn't his type, and I should make sure not to pursue men who are in relationships.
I assured her I did no such thing but if she'd tell me which one was hers, I'd tell him off for not mentioning her and drop him. She wouldn't tell me which one he was though.
Which, as it turns out, is because he wasn't someone I was actually in any real contact with . I was just telling him thanks for the wink that he sent me.
As it also turns out, according to her, they hadn't had time to change their profiles yet because they had just gotten married and hadn't been online, at least not here, for over a year so neither one of them was claiming (on their profiles) to be n a relationship. I
t was utterly daft!
This is for the women who post blogs in jealous fits of rage because I'm younger and their men were allegedly flirting with me before; and to the women whose men wink at me, which causes them (the women ) to writhe in envy... or whatever it is their problem is: and you do know who you are : and oh yes, honey, this blog is about you:
First of all, it is my contention that if a woman does not like the way her man is behaving she should address those concerns by speaking or writing to him about them.
If your man winks at me, if he comments my blog, if he writes and tells me he wants to have sex with me, or whatever it is he does, it is in no way an indication that I am trying to steal him from you or, indeed, that I would even remotely want him at all.
I never understood why it is people who feel cheated on or slighted by their mates always seek to blame others. I have no control over the behavior of other persons who do not even live in my own household.
Or do you think I want him, that all women would, just because he is yours. You're so vain! .. if so.
For the record: I would never pursue a relationship outside of friendship with any man who was dating, engaged, or married to another woman. In fact, as a general rule, I don't pursue men at all ... I've never had to. If there is something very special about them and they are not attached, I might pursue them right back after they start pursuing me though lol .
Use a little logic, then, if your man is cheating or "cheating" on you and place the blame where it belongs: with the one who knows he is your man and is acting like he is not.
And here is another concept - call it a bonus:
Don't indirectly quote what people say about themselves and then pretend you never read anything they say, that they can't even write .. and then call them the hypocrite.
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