Just my thoughts, argue them if you like, I love a good arguement! 
Relationship Rules
(In no particular order)
• MEN: In the beginning you must give her something of yours. At least one item to remind her of you. EX: T-shirt that smells like your cologne or a necklace.
• WOMEN: In the beginning you must give him a picture of you.
• Once you two are comfortable with each other and are past the awkward new stages you should let them or encourage them to leave something at your place, to make it easier on them for when they stay the night. EX: toothbrush or a change of clothes.
• Get involved in each others hobbies. If he likes poker, let him teach you how to play. If she likes art, paint a picture together.
• Never make enemies with your partner’s friends or family.
• If they’re sick, take care of them, even if they say they’re fine. Soup, movies, even just some Tylenol will make their day.
• DO NOT:
1. cheat on them
2. steal from them
3. lie to them
4. degrade them
5. hurt them (physically or emotionally)
• Always keep them swooning over you. EX: Sweet notes, call to chat, flowers, cards, etc.
• Have a song. Any song, old or new. Must be one you both like and must be a love song.
• Compliments. Always. Never stop telling them how good they look or what a great job they did on something.
• Time apart is good, but not too much and not too little. You must find that perfect time apart that you can be you and not “we”.
• When something starts bothering you in the relationship, say something. Don’t just break up or let it go until you can’t stand it anymore. Give them a chance to compromise.
• Always remember the things they say. EX: “I would love to go to a theme park” God, I love that necklace” “That is the coolest stereo I’ve ever seen”. Buy it, go there, whatever, just do it!
• Don’t dwell on flaws.
• Always remember dates. Birthdays, day you got together, their kids’ birthdays. Write them down so you will know!
• Pet names are a good thing, as long as you aren’t stupid. Shorten their name to make it special for you to call them. EX: Ryan= Ry, Tracy= TT, Robert/Bobby= B, Jennifer= J….etc.
• At no time does either person in the relationship have the right to get a “Holier than thou” complex. Equality is the key in any relationship.
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