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I believe it is time to move on and quit feeling sorry for yourself. Life is life and many things unpleasant happen in life but usually for the better. So get out of the hole and see the light.
This is a comment I got from some ass this morning when I opened my mail.
Time to move on........hmmmmmmm it hasn't even been a year yet and this is my son, my child, part of me.......DON'T EVER TELL WHEN IT'S TIME TO MOVE ON!!
Feeling sorry for myself.........explain to me how I'm feeling sorry for myselt....I'M GREIVING YOU IDIOT..........there's a HUGE difference in feeling sorry for myself and grieving.......lose one of your children the way I did.....then come back to me and tell me i'm feeling sorry for myself!!
Many unpleasant things happen in life, but usually for the better........HOW IS MY SON BEING KILLED ........FOR THE BETTER.... Better for whom?????????
So get out of the hole and see the light........... AS FOR ME RIGHT NOW....BUD.....THERE IS NO LIGHT!!.......fFOR ME OR MY CHILDREN.......
WALK IN MY SHOES FOR AN HOUR....the thoughts come racing back into my mind of Jason's head being crushed by the rear tractor tire that landed on his head.......the sight that his little brother HAD TO WITTNESS....seeing him in the casket, cold and stiff, and the only thing resembling my son was his soft hair. ......
Looking at all his things that he'll NEVER use again or touch again......
You're 56 years old and you're s'pose to be the wise one....aren't older people s'pose to be the wiser ones.........well you just pissed one greiving mother off.....
Go to h*ll....You're damn lucky I didn't approve your comment so the whole MD family could curse you and tell you what a low life piece of sh*t you really are.
LIke I said...you don't know me.....I surely wouldn't want to know you....no wonder you're on a dating site and single......I hope you're single and VERY unhappy for the rest of your life....and may what you just wrote to me...come around and bite you in the ass!!!!!
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BandTMom
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Mar 19 @ 12:27PM
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RomanticLibra106
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Mar 19 @ 12:29PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss and yes that man was worse than an idiot - he is clueless!!!!!!!!!!! Talk about insensitivity! He takes the cake!
I know this is of little consolation to you at this time but know that love transcends physical death. That he will always be with you just on another plane. That doesn't make it easier to cope with right now but in time it will.
Our soul lives on.
Give yourself time to grieve. Time to heal.
Know that he is in a much better place (call it heaven/the ethers - whatever it is to you - it's all the same thing).
May God's peace surround you and may He help you to heal.
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Lovinheart445
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Mar 19 @ 1:22PM
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I say amen to what Romantic just wrote. I too feel sorry that this man was so insensitivity to your feelings.
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helen77
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Mar 19 @ 2:40PM
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what an ass  you don't get over a thing like that .........when my sis found out she was pregnant w/ glen.......... she started having mightmares every night that she would wake up and find him dead ...........any clothes or blankets like the ones in her dreams she would throw out and the next night her dream would have him in different clothes ............well she had him on nov. 28 2003 on febuary 27 th i was woken up by the call ..............he died from sids in his sleep............. she will never get over it.......... all you can do is talk about it to help yourself deal w/ your emotions............. the guy who wrote you is an ASS and doesn't deserve to be on here............. he needs to be put in a mental ward so they can help him w/ his anti social behavior problems
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poniepower
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Mar 19 @ 2:56PM
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He sent me mail and I feel the need to show how much of an ass he really is..... He reminds me of my ex husband...Never shed a tear at my sons death!!
It really burns me that some STRANGER can tell me how to deal with MY GREIVING and blogging helps me and I get advice from other parents who've lost children of their own.
I basically told him to STOP READING MY BLOGS THEN......
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loslt my #3 son in April 2005 when I was in Greece. He died of a heart attack and lived alone. His mother had him cremated rigfht away and I was one day late coming back from GREECE. (He was 35 years of age and had a very bright future ahead of him and had served in the military).
And this son and myself traveled together and rebuilt all kinds of cars together.
I got over his death and did not moan and groan like you do on a BLOG.
So I do know what I am talking about so you do not need to insult me.
I have been in 3 military conflicts and I know what killed and killing means. So get on with your life and quit telling the world all about your troubles.
You do not grieve and moan and groan each year. Memories are great but they are memories so put them in your memory bank and do not BLOG all of your problems to the losers that you encounter.
I do know what I am talking about and I am NOT an IDIOT just a person who faces reality..
I think that NO BLOG should have a comment that is screened by the sender. A BLOG is something that a person wants comments on but I have noticed on the nice and very nice comments get posted. Not the realistic comments.
I guess if you want everyone to feel sorry for your loss then you can post their comments and hear how they feel. But also post the other comments or post ALL comments...
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poniepower
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Mar 19 @ 3:05PM
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How do I put my memories in a "memory bank" when it hasn't even been a year yet and I can't even remember any of them but the bad ones.....HIS DEATH!
I'm sorry that I CAN'T GET OVER IT IN LESS THAN A YEAR...........and Yes, I blog to get advice as to what to do with some of my emotions, because parents that have lost a child email me.... and big deal if I blog what happens in my life......IT'S MY DAMN LIFE!! IF YOU DON'T LIKE WHAT IS GOING ON IN MY LIFE..............DON'T READ MY BLOGS.....JUST THAT SIMPLE!!!!!
If someone doesn't want to read my blogs about my son, my feelings, what's going on with my other children, ......then PLEASE...DON'T READ THEM,....WHEN MY PIC SHOWS UP....OVERPASS IT.... There's almost 1000 people online right now, and I'm sure alot of them have overpassed my blog..
I think some of the bully's of this world like to pick on the weaker ones because they think it's makes them look stronger.......
WELL MR .....I WILL POST THE REST OF YOUR COMMENTS .....SO YOU KEEP EM COMING......CUZ I'M NOT A MOM THAT BACKS DOWN!! You hurt my children or the memory of my child, I'll strike you just like a rattlesnake......
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kjac
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Mar 19 @ 3:14PM
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I have a pretty good idea who sent it, without even seeing the comment. But for some reason I don't see him commenting here.
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poniepower
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Mar 19 @ 3:16PM
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This is the 2nd email from this moron..........A BLOG is not a place to put your feelings since this is a "play game" site with mostly people who have nothing else to do but feel sorry for themselves.
Do not compare your former husband to me. I look at the world in a realistic way and to moan and groan to other people is not the best way to have your feelings.
I do not go back and look at BLOGS since most people that post their BLOGS are total losers and want other people to feel sorry for them.
As I said before.....Get on with your life... The past is the past and only the future is what is important.
I know that you want to hear all the people tell you they are sorry (which they really aren't) and hear all the sad stories from them.
Well my dear, you will not hear that from me. Get on with your life and quit feeling sorry for yourself... Maybe your former husband is not as bad as you think and that you could have been the big problem in your marriage...???
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poniepower
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Mar 19 @ 3:59PM
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I said...."you remind me of my x husband, who didin't even shed a tear at my sons death". ....You're the one that stated in the email that you were "over" your sons death.
As for insulting .....you insulted me when you commented me.
And...You don't read blogs.....then why did you just so happen to read mine??
And another thing.....this is realitiy to me...this is MY LIFE we're talking about right now. I'm the one living this.....NOT YOU! Pat yourself on the back that you got over your sons death so soon. How you must have loved him..........
You WON'T shake me down, I will keep posting and I will keep reading the emails I get from the REAL PEOPLE.......NOT losers, as you call them, and as you say" the ones who say they're sorry, but really aren't"
How do you know every single persons feelings on this sight....are you telepathic?
Yes, I am done with you!! I will post EVERY COMMENT from you from now on.....oh wait....i forgot....YOU DON'T READ BLOGS!! Pfft***
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BandTMom
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Mar 19 @ 4:15PM
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Well Ponie, you know the old saying...."Mean People Suck!"
And this loser is a vacuum!!
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sjdw44055
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Mar 19 @ 5:56PM
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We all move and heal at our own pace. Don't let what this one person, out of 6.5 billion you share this world with, set you back. Take your time. Write what you have to, read what you want, and just let scum, be scum.
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bobbyngeorgia
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Mar 19 @ 6:30PM
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my heart just dropped....I can not even imagine what your going through, you need to be able to talk...I am just happy the good people rise to the top on here for you...your still in my prayers  ...oh and to the jerk who wrote that to you 
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Cynbaby
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Mar 19 @ 7:08PM
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You NEED to let it out and to hell with anyone. I'm very sorry for your loss. There is nothing worse then losing a child.
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NeverB4Alone
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Mar 19 @ 7:32PM
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PONIE .... The best way to deal with that JERK, is to NOT deal with him at all .... Block him .... You're just feeding into his warped mind, and giving him the satisfaction of knowing he's getting to you .... Hes a CREEP of the worst kind ....
I lost my Son in 1993, and I haven't forgotten any of what was involved with his death ... Especially all of the years my wife suffered, and Grieved, up until Her own death. Block that scum, and don't play the game he wants to play with your pain, and grief .... You're only giving him what he wants .... It's YOU'RE RIGHT to Grieve as long as you feel you have to, and that is your business, and no one else's ....
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poniepower
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Mar 19 @ 11:51PM
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Thank You all again for your comments....
I have blocked him.
I don't need to deal with someone who can get my blood pressure boiling right now, especially this week.
I absolutely hate the things he's said about all of my friends here on MD. You have all helped me get through this from the begining. I will always be greatful for that. You will always be in my thoughts and prayers.
Thank You again,
Much love,
Jini
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