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BE CAREFUL LADIES HE SAYS HE WANTS TO BE YOUR NUMBER 1

posted 3/22/2007 10:24:29 AM |
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  helen77

I AM WRITING THIS AS A WARNING TO THE WOMEN OUT THERE ....there is a man or shall i say boy that tells you he wants to be your one and only ... and when you ask him if he's seeing any one else he tells you NO ... cause his job schedual is too much.... he says that all his ex's accused him of cheating cause of his work schedual .... well he is a liar ... i spent the last 2 months waiting for him to get off work .... him calling me everyday between job sites and school he says he goes to .... he met my kids and they cried the other day when i told them that he had lied to me andwe weren't seeing each other anymore .....he was seeing a multitude of other women ....some he had slept with and some he hadn't.... he gave me this story that he had sent me flowers for valentines day ....but because of the snow storm they weren't delivered ....he told me he wanted a real relationship. ... and all the while he was with other women .... he says he lives w/ his perents cause his sister is sick .... he talks about his truck.... and told me it was too messy to pick me up.... but( as i thought about this the other day as i reevaluated the conversations i could remember )he showed up every time in a car ..... he met some of the other womens kids and family too .... this boy describes himself as a faithful honest and trustworthy guy .... but he is a liar .... he wants to be YOUR NUMBER 1 .... but you won't be his .....if this sounds like the man you are dating email me ....and i'll tell you if you are right ..


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Comments:
kjac

Mar 22 @ 10:33AM  
This is a classic example of what I was talking about. You're sounding very petty and vindictive right now. Let it go.
Murrmaid

Mar 22 @ 10:37AM  
I say we hex the bastid to make his pecker turn green 'n fall off - what ya think?
Danceanddream

Mar 22 @ 10:43AM  
Yeah...... just ONE of many who want to be your #1!
kjac

Mar 22 @ 10:48AM  
and no ladies, she's not talking about me.
Cynbaby

Mar 22 @ 10:53AM  
Kjac, stop your lying
helen77

Mar 22 @ 11:03AM  
NO IT'S NOT KJAC HE'S GREAT
helen77

Mar 22 @ 11:19AM  
i'm with ya murrmaid i'm sorry if i seem vendgeful but i warn all men that i HATE liars and i will find out and that i'm not one back down when i'm lied to if you cheat or lie then i will make sure the other women know if someone had warned me maybe i wouldn't have had to write this
Guerrero

Mar 22 @ 11:28AM  
You're vindictive. You've been burned. You've been castrated. You've been ... i don't know? lol

Anyway, things happen. These kinds of guys are all around. Just use better judgement.
aFriendlyBlogger

Mar 22 @ 12:09PM  
Hey, I thought I was your No. 1 ?!!!

Anyways, maybe we should just have Number 2's, instead. Now that, Number Ones are always taken.
IndigoRose

Mar 22 @ 12:13PM  
It hurts to be lied too I'm sorry for your pain but I gotta say let this be a lesson please don't drag men in and out of your childrens life. Keep your romantic life separate. Guys will come and go kids are foreva!!!!
RomanticLibra106

Mar 22 @ 1:06PM  
I dated a guy like that. I'm sure it's not the same one but I think that m.o. is a classic on the net. All want to be #1 and they're saying that to a dozen women and dating half of them while trying to date the other six.

The tip off was the truck. One lie leads to another and another and another. They can't stop once they start.

You did nothing wrong. This guy is just a lying dog.

You deserve much better and I know you'll find 'him'. We all will. In the meantime I guess we have to 'weed' our gardens of the vermin, slugs and weeds so the 'flowers' can stand out more.
newlife2006

Dec 17 @ 11:49PM  
Do you mean - you actually introduced the schmack from dating site to your kids??? I cannot believe it. Grown up lady like yourself should know better. I assume there ARE some decent guys on this kind of sites, but they are obviously rare and far apart, don't count on meeting one. And if ( after introductory period long enough to figure him out ) you are lucky to see that you ran into a decent one - realize that it's unique experience and don't expect your next date to be that lucky. I used to be engaged to the guy I met on-line. It took me a year to figure out all his lies and cheating behind my back - but insisting on long engagement saved me from getting into a total horror of being associated with an unworthy person. I cannot thank the heaven enough for sparing me this kind of future..
exvagabond

Dec 18 @ 10:11AM  
a man or shall i say boy that tells you he wants to be your one and only

Did he actually say that? And "your number 1" too? Pretty hokey, don't you think? It may have been a novel or witty thing to say 200 years ago, but now it sounds like a pop song or a commercial. You'll get better fidelity out of a radio.
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