I wanted to write something in reference to the term I see so, so many women are using going something like this, not looking for “No Players or No One Night Stands”! I personally get so tired of reading that. Not only do I think can’t this woman come up with something on her own that she has to use those terms that have been used to death and they started off belonging to someone else in their thoughts to begin with without the intentions of women using it today for their whining purposes.
But let us look inside that from a man’s point of view and even more importantly my opinion at this given particular time as I’m taking the time to write “my” feelings!
If a man wants to date a couple women at the same time which is perfectly normal as a man tries to see which woman interests him most and is most compatible for what that particular man is looking for. But it seems women think if you go out with them one time that all the sudden that woman feels the man should immediately turn that woman into the center of his universe and all life now should stop as he once knew it and now be directed around her. Hey wake up it doesn’t work that way and that is why you are getting no where and continuously blaming it on men calling them players. There not players they/I just want to date till we see which woman is best for us/me. No one is playing anyone and if you’d stop thinking as soon as a man goes out with you all life as he has once known it stops. Hey he/I just met you and I don’t even know who you really are and in that I’m going to date till I find that one that is right for me. But what’s the women do when a man thinks “normally” like this, she names him a player and blames him for something he never did as she drove him away instantly with that type of attempting hog tying!
That also leads into that next overly used term by women “One Night Stand” well if women wouldn’t be doing what I have written above he may come back for more than a one date, one night stand but with your bull whip and accusations generally right after that first date or even before that first date or a few days after as you are flinging your slurs at him whining “Oh I was just a one night stand huh, and he/I am thinking well I didn’t intend that but the way you/the woman is acting he is thinking, yea with what you’re saying and the rope you are trying to wrap around his/my neck already chocking me right out of the gate, yea I think we’ve had enough of you/the woman’s bull whip and ropes already!!!
So if you want to take it from what I believe an intelligent man’s view, mine and hear what I’ve said then instead of putting on your hog tying armor strapped with ropes when first meeting a man. Let him use his own will and ways to only be dating you in time because you’re not making anyone do anything with threats and accusations! It will be you and you only when he chooses you with his/my free will. So come up with something of your own and be a least a bit unique in the beginning instead of beating that, player’s and one night stands to death!
Hey I know this is way, way out there but how about being sweet and nice period!
Then see if after a time he can’t live without you in his/my life as your sweetness is on his/my mind day and night, because what you’ve been working just isn’t working now is it!
Also this is my opinion but based on 40 years watching and listening to women!
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PrettyGreenEyes578
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Apr 11 @ 7:04PM
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I respect honesty -
Cheri
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jaminwesley
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Apr 11 @ 7:18PM
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I don't think it's the "dating" part that has women acting retarded........it's the "f$cking other women" part I think they are referring to. I agree with your points.
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flgreeneyes
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Apr 11 @ 7:19PM
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I have to agree with you to some extent...but remember Men also feel that if you date them once, your not suppose to go out with someone else, that is a 2 way street, men too get possessive. I think women and men should date more than one person at a time, after all we just might find someone much more interesting too. I also get tire of the phrase "looking for an intimate encounter", that one has gotten old guys. Would be much better said I am looking for all I can get "Without Any Strings".
Good Blog, now Men and Women just need to get busy and date several at a time.
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krutsup
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Apr 11 @ 8:45PM
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first let me say that i agree with you on a lot of what you say. i don't think a lot of these women realize just how negative they sound, when they lay down about ten or 20 conditions in their profile. or that by saying no game players, the only thing left to choose from are game players, cuz the rest be gone, right away. but you have to be careful how you say it, cuz some large and in charge up there is gonna tell you your attitude isn't very attractive, whether you were interested or not. I M H O 
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Alana595
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Apr 13 @ 9:44PM
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When I see a man who has possted "no mind games" on his ad, I feel the same way. I figure he is the one with mind problems. And those men whose only qualification is "likes to cuddle" seem absolutely retarded.
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hugznkisses4u
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Mar 1 @ 6:03AM
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Yes I agree to a point. If men are dating to date but not if they are just sleeping around and use the excuse that they are casually dating. Some women are too quick to hop into bed with a man feeling that that will give them a commitment to him....WRONG. Everyone needs to take their time and communicate, honestly. Hey some women are just looking for a sexual thing. We need to just talk to see what is expected form the other.
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