No doubt many of you have stumbled on to this "new" concept on how to attract or draw
the "one" to you through the way you think, or your thought conclusions, or the thoughts that you entertain the most. In a nutshell, the more you hold to your idea of what you're looking for, the more likely it is that you'll get exactly what your ask for, either through mediation, or "prayer". The more you stay focused on what you consider your ideal, then that's what will manifest for you in your own love experience. However; the opposite can be true too, the more negative thoughts that you entertain about your ideal, could be that this sort of negative energy will attract someone to you that is not good, either. The Dalai Lama says in his instructions for life that, "not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck", and that "when you lose, don't lose the lesson" -- can come into play as well, especially if you find yourself "pining" away for someone who is unattainable and just isn't working out. Some of us are walking around with a big "kick me" sign flashing on our behinds and just are getting no where with attracting the "one". I think it's wise to value yourself first and only then will someone else value you for that special "one" that you are. 
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starchild888
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May 2 @ 8:21AM
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ooopps! I made a mistake -- mediation should read MEDITATION!! That changes the whole context of what I was trying to say. oh well! 
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fenderchick
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May 2 @ 8:36AM
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I agree with you, you have to think positive about yourself first,before finding the "one".When you are positive you will attract other positive things and vice-versa.
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starchild888
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May 2 @ 8:39AM
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like your picture! The "secret" is really no secret.....I think the book and the upcoming movie is just gonna generate a lotta bucks, though
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honesty2laughter
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May 2 @ 8:41AM
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 yes very nice i agree being positive about something will project to others.learning to open up can also be good even if the situation doesnt turn out right.we will learn from that thanks for shareing God Bless all the best in friendship and esp Love,
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edthepoet
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May 2 @ 9:21AM
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Most don't even read people profiles and you want them to use thier meditations skills,lol
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moondancer97
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May 2 @ 9:27AM
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I live the secret every day of my life to amazing results
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callmepc
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May 2 @ 9:45AM
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I use that technique when I'm stopped at a traffic light. I just picture that green light in my mind, harder and harder...and after a a little while, I get exactly what I was hoping for! The power of the Human mind! It's amazing!
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moondancer97
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May 2 @ 9:49AM
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I also use it to find a place to park my car when going out
if going to the library or grocery store, instead of thinking that there will be no place to park, say out loud to yourself, "There will be a place close to the door that is just waiting for me."
and watch it happen
I have done this to amazing results
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bmwer
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May 2 @ 10:24AM
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"not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck" Found that one to be true about a year ago.  Whew, did I luck out!!!  
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mistymountaineer
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May 2 @ 10:49AM
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Yeah. It's that "Love Mojo" thing. When you're feeling good about yourself, you'll attract good people, and positive situations. When you feel bad, sad or lonely and really need to meet someone good, you won't.The "universe" will send you what you absolutely don't need.  Sometimes the universe just plain sucks.
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Alana595
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May 6 @ 11:33AM
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One should use all the tools available to select a mate. New scientific data about the difference in men and women's brains and how this affects behavior can help answer many of the whys of this behavior and improve your relationships. An excellent book on this subject is "Surviving The Male Psyche" (http://male-psyche.tripod.com)
Meditation is a two way street. If all men are meditating on how to screw as many women as possible, it might void out your meditation to find one who doesn't want to do this. At any rate, let us know how your meditation works out in finding a long term partner for yourself.
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johnspirit
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Jun 4 @ 12:30PM
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I think it's wise to value yourself first and only then will someone else value you for that special "one" that you are.
Exactly. Very well blogged, Star.
What we think, feel and believe about Ourselves is the first resonance.
This is the first secret. Ask the flowers!
(and what we Really feel think and believe as well...
not what positive thinking overlay we use to cover up our deepest feelings)
And as to what "Men (in general toto) Want"
it'd be best to go to Walmart and shop.
"Men", in spite of all our surface similarities, are Not all the same.
At some point, the small tree must let go of the tall grasses
and reach toward her real kin... not just those nearest to her...
or not.
We can worry, doubt, fear, settle, give up and whine as well.
May you all discover who you seek, as you deserve.
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