So I meet a nice guy for once... no talk about sex before meeting and no talk about it on the date. I find myself attracted to him and I think he liked me. I have not heard from him. Do I wait for him to call or do I call him. I want to let hime know I had a good time. I also want him to know that my motto is one date then the sky is the limit. I do not want to seem desperate... but I was born with little patience. I am torn on this one... I need my fellow bloggers help!
Myra 
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Jacksonboy
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May 2 @ 10:18PM
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Its ok to call him and tell him how you had a good time and would like to see him again. Don't make a big deal out of it. If that doesn't do any good I would let it go. You don't want him to think that you are desperate or that you are chasing him too strongly
Good Luck
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undertaker768
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May 2 @ 10:19PM
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never ring then it looks like youre desperate I been there and done that if it was ment to be it will happen and he will ring you give it time if you dont hear from him ring him and say thought I say hi and see how are you doing gerry
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Eldermint
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May 2 @ 10:20PM
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Did you send a thank you note? Just something simple to thank him for his good company and wish him a really good day. I always appreciate those.
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TXblond
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May 2 @ 10:26PM
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If he's really into you, he'll call.
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luneib
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May 2 @ 10:26PM
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Some men would pursue you calling them as a bit pushy, while others would be flattered, depends on the guy. I would probably email him a quick note saying you had a lovely time with him.
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onoudn
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May 2 @ 10:33PM
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Call him. It got to be better than not knowing anything.
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missalex
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May 2 @ 10:38PM
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Call him hunny! ask him whats up!? Don't be shy!
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OceanTravler
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May 2 @ 11:10PM
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You said he took you out on a date. Did you call him and thank him for the evening? You might offer to return the favor and take him out on a date. Invite him over to your house for a home cooked meal (that's if you feel comfortable with him). Call and ask him if he would like to go to a movie or something.
There are all kinds of way to break the ice. Then it's up to him, but you at least didn't let the moment slip by.
Happy hunting
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bailey969
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May 2 @ 11:29PM
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I'm the last one to talk but ........ I would wait if its meant to be it will happen .My whole life I've been chasing and it didn't get me no where but I'm a man you are a woman so maybe its different. Do what you feel you need to do. Only you know how you feel about this person .GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!! 
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JimNastics
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May 2 @ 11:43PM
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I agree with TX. However, if he doesn't call in a week, he wasn't into you. Indeed, if there was no subtle talk of sex, nor innuendos and no flirting, when you are on a date, perhaps he wasn't attracted to you at all. Hopefully, I am wrong about that. I'm rooting for you ! However, one can be sexy without talking directly about sex.
Also, "One date and then the sky's the limit." You sound very sexually frustrated and pretty desperate for someone (i.e. "finally"). This is in contrast to your appreciation of someone not mentioning sex on the first date or prior. Indeed, it almost sounds like you are offended by talking about sex. Communication about sex is mental foreplay, which can heighten anticipation and actual foreplay. You can be flirty without coming off as slutty. Loosen the iron chastity belt a little bit and become somewhat flirtatious on your first dates (i.e. lick your lips, touch his hand, wink, etc..) and you might come across as being more fun and appealing to a man, so you can get that second date and progress gradually into a relationship and eventual sexual fulfillment. No one wants to get in a long term relationship with someone who comes off as cold, unless they have a problem with intimacy themselves. How long since this date occurred ? What makes you think he was into you ?
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caffie1
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May 2 @ 11:47PM
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 never ever chase a man......
unless your playing a game....oops behave Caf 
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