I wrote this blog last September, but thought I would re-post it as I have found that many people here on MD has been trying to jump back into a relationship too soon.
Thinking back I thought about what I actually felt after my divorce. I know there was a lot of denial, anger, and finally acceptance...but also felt ; after careful analyses, that there were much more in the feelings part that I had ignored.. The importance of relationships after divorce. I somehow felt that the only way to prove to myself that I am okay is to become involved in another love relationship. I had to stop myself after finally figuring it out that I was just trying to adjust myself of divorce. My idea that I was ok, and need to prove it to myself lead me to start almost immediately to find a new one-and-only. The early relationships after the divorce have the goal of healing the hole left in your heart. They are only transitional, rather then long term, committed relationships. Please keep that in mind, and first and foremost...heal. Learn to live single. Don’t rush into another relationship, but take your time.....Time for yourself.
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LadyImp
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May 3 @ 3:24AM
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wonderful blog lovin!!!! kudos!
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briteyes35
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May 3 @ 9:12AM
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It is truly wonderful to see a great blog posted , thanks for posting
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etobin45
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May 3 @ 9:51AM
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Hello Lovin,
It is extremely important to take the time to heal and learn from what the experience was really like. It is vital that we love ourselves before we can share and give love to others. Even when we didn't necessarily cause the problems in a relationship, we did choose to be with that person and there is a wealth of growth to be had from the experience.
Thanks for a good blog!
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Julie334
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May 3 @ 10:21AM
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This is so true, thanks for sharing. 
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brunettee62
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May 3 @ 11:10AM
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I have to agree with you, no one should rush into anything.
Spend the tinme know each,see if your compatible.
Communication is the best way...Find out about each other...
Ask questions? When the time is right...it will happen!
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SallyF
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May 3 @ 11:43AM
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Thank you for that reminder, Lovin'.
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KnittinKitten
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Jun 16 @ 1:40PM
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I'm healed, I'm healed...I'm adjusted......If I get any more adjusted, I'm liable to become MAL-ADJUSTED!!! 
Lovinheart, I'm late, but still sincere when I tell you that you are sooooo right.! 
Fondly,
JUDY
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