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posted 5/5/2007 10:01:04 AM |
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  luvmycats

Ok, so I have never said, or pretended to be the sharpest crayon in the box, but neither do I think I am dumb as a stump.

I have mentioned earlier that I had been away from blogging for quite a while...yes, I got addicted to the forums. You CAN, and please do, read every post I have ever made there. All 5,000 plus. If some of you would go to the trouble to do that, you will see that not all of us are alike, just as all of the bloggers are not alike.

I post in the forums to have fun! Yes, I do take shit for it, just as you guys take shit for posting useless blogs that some think belong in the forums. Yes, according to MD rules, some of them should, BUT I can also see why the forums are not your cup of tea. Just as blogging isn't for others. Some people that post in the forums are also told, it belongs in a blog! GO FIGURE! Kinda like....

I do find it sad, that since most of us are on here for basically the same reason, we can't find a way to work/play together. (like I said, I am not the sharpest crayon) Maybe someone would be kind enough to help me to understand. (I have also been called/accused of being a Hugging, Suck Up Fool, or something to that effect.

I am just a person that likes to get along with people and when I care about someone, I am not afraid to let them know, even if it is for the whole world to see. To those people that think less of me for showing my true feelings.... There are MANY more, that appreciate it.

That being said, I have made some true friends here, and am thankful to each and every one.





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Comments:
sciurusniger

May 5 @ 10:07AM  
But think how boring it would be without all the diversity, luvs.
misschoos

May 5 @ 10:16AM  
I like the forums
mystery2u888

May 5 @ 10:20AM  
Hey gf...I believe in having fun an getting along...everyone to play and just have fun........you know how hard it is for me to blog yet only to have you an misschoos kinda lead the way.......lol I get confused as it is.... between that an figuring out my computer.......lol it's a very hard job.....I am here only to be silly and to have fun........nothing more..thanks sweetie........ xo
luvmycats

May 5 @ 10:23AM  
But think how boring it would be without all the diversity, luvs.

Diversity is fine, its the hateful way some people react to each other that I don't like, and cannot understand.

I commented on a blog yesterday, not realizing what caused the blog to be written. I thought it was all in fun, I guess I shouldn't comment anymore since its not like the forums and you can't tell what the "storyline" is.
luneib

May 5 @ 10:33AM  
Like the old saying goes, it takes less muscles to smile than to frown. I wish people would just grow up. I don't understand why people tear each other apart on this site, it just doesn't make sense to me. Doesn't it feel better to just treat each person with respect and kindness?

Welcome back to the blogs!
CMJAnew

May 5 @ 10:40AM  
Sometimes the delivery distracts from the point being made.
velvet1

May 5 @ 11:40AM  
The forum people do seem easier going.
I notice that people control who can and cannot comment on the blogs but, in the forums however anyone can post a comment?! That speaks volumes.
Are the people who post in the forum more secure with themselves?
KAOS2007

May 5 @ 12:07PM  
C,
I hear ya. As a fellow suck up, hugger and rookie gif-ho , I can relate. Do me one favor - don't ever change. Forum where you like, blog what you feel. If you help, uplift, support, just one person here, that's fantastic. You did just that for me, through a very difficult time, not once, but twice, with no thought of yourself, you just unselfishly reached out and took me under your wing. THAT to me, is the definition of a TRUE, GENUINE person.

To the others, I can only say:



BandTMom

May 5 @ 1:46PM  


To my dear friend, Luvvy!

Just keep on keeping on!

missliss78

May 5 @ 9:39PM  
FINALLY!
Thanks so very much for this post!
And as for this:
have also been called/accused of being a Hugging, Suck Up Fool, or something to that effect.

I am just a person that likes to get along with people and when I care about someone, I am not afraid to let them know, even if it is for the whole world to see. To those people that think less of me for showing my true feelings.... There are MANY more, that appreciate it.

I am one of those, too!!!!!!! And to those who call me that I say "PFFFTTT!"
As for diversity, or WHATEVER, I could do without all the bickering here.
As some know, I spent many years being a chatter here on this site....when I first moved over to the blogs back in (I think it was) February, I was in awe as to how friendly & nice everyone seemed. HA! As time has progressed, it's all the same. Yes, despite our individual differences, overall, people are ALL THE SAME.

Great blog, luv! Thanks!!!!!!!!!
missliss78

May 5 @ 9:45PM  
I'm sorry...I feel the need to add one additional thought (though the blogs here may not be the proper forum (no pun intended) to do so).
As for diversity, or WHATEVER, I could do without all the bickering here.
As for said "bickering" I have noticed it takes MANY forms. And whether it is underhanded or outright boldly intentional, it is still disgusting, unnecessary & overabundant!
And honestly, I think it all goes back to same basic rule of thumb....If you don't like the topic, the blogger, the form or WHATEVER.........SKIP IT!!!!!


Thanks for allowing the post of this comment!
Duffy125

May 6 @ 1:59AM  
You are a true authentic person. Like KAOS said, "if you help, uplift, support just one person here, That's fantastic..." you also did that for me and I really appreciate your kindness..
carpediem48

Jun 11 @ 10:48AM  
I loves ya Luvvy
I'm too lazy to investigate to see if you
did anything wrong
If you did...wasn't intentional
Your bones aren't mean
You are one sweetheart of a lady
And it's too late for me
to change my mind about you
You're stuck with me girl
I think there's a lot of people 'stuck on you'
Yucky word 'stuck'
But I think it gets the message across
I'm not feeling too literary right now
but if I wait til I am
this blog might get too outdated.
SpiritOrnery

Jun 17 @ 9:33PM  
You are a sweetheart! Luvs ya!
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